Marry Me
St. Vincent Lyrics


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Marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so good to you
You won't realize I'm gone

Marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so sweet to you
You won't realize I'm gone
You won't realize I'm gone

Many people wanna make money, make love
Make friends, make peace with death
But most mainly wanna win the game
They came to win, they want to come out ahead

But you, you're a rock with a heart
Like a socket I can plug into at will
And will you guess when I come around next?
I hope your open sign is blinking still

So marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so good to you
You won't realize I'm gone

Marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so good to you
You won't realize I'm gone
You won't realize I've gone

As for me, I would have to agree
I'm as fickle as a paper doll
Being kicked by the wind
When I touch down again
I'll be in someone else's arms

Oh, John, come on
We'll do what married people do
Oh, John (I don't care)
Come on (what you are)

Let's do what Mary and Joseph did (I want to marry you)
Without the kid (I want to marry you)

So marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so good to you
You won't realize I've gone

Marry me, John, marry me, John
I'll be so good to you
You won't realize I've gone
You won't realize I've gone

You won't realize I've gone
You won't realize I've gone
You won't realize I've gone
You won't realize I've gone

Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)
Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)




Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)

Overall Meaning

The song "Marry Me" by St. Vincent appears to be a straightforward love song, with the central character making her proposal to John. Yet, the lyrics suggest a hint of desperation in the character's voice, as she continuously repeats her request to get married to John. She recounts that she would be good to him and that he wouldn't realize she's gone, indicating that she fears he might leave her. Throughout the song, she appeals to John, asking him to guess when she comes around next and to leave the "open sign is blinking still," suggesting that she desires consistency and commitment.


The second verse of the song takes a different turn, with the character expressing that most people want to win the game, but she is different from them. She describes John as being "a rock with a heart" and implies that she can plug into him whenever she wants to, which may be interpreted as suggesting that John is reliable, consistent, and able to provide a sense of security. The character proposes they do what Mary and Joseph did without the kid, which is a clear reference to their marriage.


Overall, the song seems to describe a character who feels insecure in her relationship with John and wants to get married as a way to feel secure. Her appeal for John to marry her conveys a sense of urgency, suggesting that she fears he may leave her if he doesn't.


Line by Line Meaning

Marry me, John, marry me, John
The singer desperately desires to marry John and repeats the request twice for emphasis.


I'll be so good to you
The singer promises to be a faithful and loving partner to John.


You won't realize I'm gone
The singer implies that she will be so committed to John that he won't notice her absence.


Many people wanna make money, make love
The artist observes that many people prioritize money and romance in their lives.


Make friends, make peace with death
The artist adds that some people prioritize friendship and facing mortality.


But most mainly wanna win the game
The singer believes that most people are driven to succeed and come out on top.


They came to win, they want to come out ahead
The singer emphasizes that many people are highly competitive by nature.


But you, you're a rock with a heart
The artist compliments John by saying that he is solid and dependable, but also emotional and compassionate.


Like a socket I can plug into at will
The artist feels that she can always count on John for support and affection.


And will you guess when I come around next?
The artist is unsure if John will be receptive to her next visit or approach.


I hope your open sign is blinking still
The singer hopes that John will remain open and welcoming to her overtures.


As for me, I would have to agree
The artist admits that she is indecisive and changeable in her romantic interests.


I'm as fickle as a paper doll
The singer compares herself to a flimsy, insubstantial plaything.


Being kicked by the wind
The singer feels that she is easily thrown around by circumstances beyond her control.


When I touch down again
The singer anticipates landing in another romantic relationship soon.


I'll be in someone else's arms
The artist implies that she will have moved on to another lover.


Oh, John, come on
The artist urges John to consummate their relationship.


We'll do what married people do
The singer suggests that they engage in physical intimacy as if they were a married couple.


Oh, John (I don't care)
The singer dismisses any social norms or conventions that might prevent them from having sex.


Come on (what you are)
The artist encourages John to be himself and not worry about societal expectations.


Let's do what Mary and Joseph did (I want to marry you)
The artist invokes the biblical story of Mary and Joseph, who were engaged but did not consummate their relationship until after marriage, and reiterates her desire to marry John.


Without the kid (I want to marry you)
The artist clarifies that she wants to marry John without the pregnancy that Mary experienced.


You won't realize I've gone
The singer repeats her earlier claim that John won't notice her absence because of his love and loyalty.


You won't realize I've gone
The artist repeats her assertion for emphasis.


You won't realize I've gone
The singer repeats her assertion for emphasis.


You won't realize I've gone
The singer repeats her assertion for emphasis.


Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
The singer repeats the earlier refrain and implies that she is competing with others for John's affection.


Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)
The artist repeats the earlier refrain and emphasizes that she is John's best choice for a partner.


Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
The artist repeats the earlier refrain and hints that she is willing to do anything to win John's heart.


Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)
The singer repeats the earlier refrain and asserts that she can give John more than just material wealth and physical pleasure.


Many people wanna make money, make love (marry me, John)
The singer repeats the earlier refrain and emphasizes that she is determined to have John as her husband.


Make friends, make peace with death (marry me, John)
The artist repeats the earlier refrain and claims that John will be happy and satisfied with her as his partner.




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Written by: ANNE ERIN CLARK

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