How About You
Staind Lyrics


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If someone else showed you the way
Would you take the wheel and steer?
It hurts me that you're not ashamed
Of what you're doing here
If they jumped off a bridge
Would you meet them on the ground?
Or would you try and claim
That it never made a sound

Everyone plays the hand they're dealt
And learns to walk through life themselves
Not everything in life is, handed on a plate
When people think your words are true
It doesn't matter what you do
I sold my soul to get here
How 'bout you?

So you choose to force your hand
What a strange way to make friends
And you always change the rules
So the drama never ends
And you blindly go through life
Judging only by what its worth
Just try not to forget
That the meek inherit earth

Everyone plays the hand they're dealt
And learns to walk through life themselves
Not everything in life is, handed on a plate
When people think your words are true
It doesn't matter what you do
I sold my soul to get here
How 'bout you?

So please don't take offense
This is just a point of view
'Cause I'm the only one who
Will say these things to you

Everyone plays the hand they're dealt
And learns to walk through life themselves
Not everything in life is, handed on a plate
When people think your words are true
It doesn't matter what you do




I sold my soul to get here
How 'bout you?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Staind’s “How About You” talk about personal accountability, the consequences of one’s actions and the choices we make in life. The first verse questions whether or not someone would take responsibility for their decisions if someone else showed them the way. The lines “If they jumped off a bridge, would you meet them on the ground? Or would you try and claim that it never made a sound” suggest that even if many people engage in a destructive behavior, it doesn’t mean the consequences of that behavior disappear. The second verse describes someone who manipulates situations and people to always get their way, but in doing so, they judge others solely for their worth, and not their character. The chorus speaks to the idea that everyone has to make their own way in life and not everything is handed to them on a plate. The line “I sold my soul to get here, how 'bout you?” suggests that sacrifice is maybe necessary for success or achieving one’s goals. The song ultimately prompts a listener to question their life choices and consider how they are perceived by others.


Line by Line Meaning

If someone else showed you the way
If someone guided you towards the right path


Would you take the wheel and steer?
Would you take control of your own life?


It hurts me that you're not ashamed
It's painful to see that you're not embarrassed


Of what you're doing here
Of your actions and decisions


If they jumped off a bridge
If they made a foolish choice


Would you meet them on the ground?
Would you follow them in their foolish choice?


Or would you try and claim
Or would you deny being a part of it?


That it never made a sound
Saying that you weren't involved at all?


Everyone plays the hand they're dealt
Everyone has their own challenges and obstacles to overcome


And learns to walk through life themselves
And they have to navigate life on their own


Not everything in life is, handed on a plate
Not everything will be easily given to you


When people think your words are true
When others believe what you say


It doesn't matter what you do
Your actions matter more than your words


I sold my soul to get here
I gave up a part of myself to be where I am now


How 'bout you?
Did you do the same?


So you choose to force your hand
So you choose to manipulate situations


What a strange way to make friends
It's an odd way to establish friendships


And you always change the rules
You alter the rules to your own advantage


So the drama never ends
So that conflicts and chaos continue


And you blindly go through life
And you move ahead in life without considering the consequences


Judging only by what its worth
Making decisions based only on materialistic value


Just try not to forget
Don't overlook the fact that


That the meek inherit earth
The humble and patient will be rewarded in the end


So please don't take offense
Please don't be offended


This is just a point of view
These are just my opinions


'Cause I'm the only one who
Because I'm the only one who


Will say these things to you
Will be honest and say these things to you




Lyrics © Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: AARRON LEWIS, JOHN APRIL, JOHN F. APRIL, JONATHAN WYSOCKI, MICHAEL MUSHOK, MICHAEL J. MUSHOK

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