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Stars Lyrics


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Wanted single F, under thirty-three
Must enjoy the sun, must enjoy the sea
Sought by single M
Mrs. Destiny
Send photo to address, is it you and me?

Reply to single M
My name is Caroline
Cell phone number here, call if you have the time
Twenty-eight and bored, grieving over loss
Sorry to be heavy, but heavy is the cost
Heavy is the cost

Reply to Caroline
Thanks so much for response
These things can be scary, not always what you want
How about a drink? The St. Jude club at noon
I'll phone you first I guess, I hope I see you soon

I never got your name, I assume you're thirty-three
Your voice, it sounded kind, I hope that you like me
When you see my face, I hope that you don't laugh
I'm not a film star beauty, I'll send a photograph
I hope that you don't laugh

Note to single M
Why did you not show up?
I waited for an hour, I finally gave up
I thought once that I saw you, I thought that you saw me
I guess we'll never meet now, it wasn't meant to be
It wasn't meant to be
I was sure you saw me, but it wasn't meant to be

Wanted single F, under thirty-three
Must enjoy the sun, must enjoy the sea
Sought by single M
Nothing too heavy
Send photo to address, is it you or me?
Is it you or me?
Is it you or me? (Is it you or me?)
Is it you or me?




Is it you, is it you or me, me?
Is it you or me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to the song "Personal" by Stars describe a narrative of missed connections and lost opportunities for love. It begins with a lonely male (single M) seeking a female partner (single F) who must be under thirty-three and have a love for the sun and the sea. He finds a response from Caroline, a twenty-eight-year-old who is currently grieving over a loss. Despite her heaviness, they plan to meet for a drink at the St. Jude club. However, he never shows up, and Caroline is left waiting for an hour before realizing it was not meant to be.


The song touches on themes of loneliness, missed connections, and vulnerability. The internet has given us the opportunity to connect with people we may have never met in our everyday lives. However, those connections can be fleeting, and we can find ourselves longing for something more.


The lyrics are open-ended, leaving it up to the listener to decide if the single M ever responds or if Caroline eventually moves on. The song is poignant and heartbreaking, taking listeners on an emotional journey through the possibilities of connections made and missed.


Line by Line Meaning

Wanted single F, under thirty-three
A single female, who is under 33 years old, is being sought


Must enjoy the sun, must enjoy the sea
She should love being out in the sun and near the sea


Sought by single M Mrs. Destiny Send photo to address, is it you and me?
The single male is looking for the woman who is meant to be his destiny and wants her to send a photo to confirm if it's really her.


Reply to single M My name is Caroline Cell phone number here, call if you have the time Twenty-eight and bored, grieving over loss Sorry to be heavy, but heavy is the cost Heavy is the cost
Caroline is responding to the single male and sharing her name and phone number while also expressing her current state of being bored and grieving the loss of something. She apologizes for being heavy, but acknowledges that it's the cost of her current situation.


Reply to Caroline Thanks so much for response These things can be scary, not always what you want How about a drink? The St. Jude club at noon I'll phone you first I guess, I hope I see you soon
The single male thanks Caroline for responding and acknowledges that things can be scary when trying to find someone. He asks her out for a drink and suggests a place and time. He also mentions that he will call her soon to coordinate meeting up.


I never got your name, I assume you're thirty-three Your voice, it sounded kind, I hope that you like me When you see my face, I hope that you don't laugh I'm not a film star beauty, I'll send a photograph I hope that you don't laugh
The single male admits that he never got Caroline's name but assumes she is thirty-three. He mentions that he liked her kind voice and hopes that she won't laugh when she sees his photo as he doesn't think he's a film star beauty.


Note to single M Why did you not show up? I waited for an hour, I finally gave up I thought once that I saw you, I thought that you saw me I guess we'll never meet now, it wasn't meant to be It wasn't meant to be I was sure you saw me, but it wasn't meant to be
Caroline is writing a note to the single male asking why he didn't show up to their planned meeting. She waited for an hour but gave up and assumes they'll never meet now. She had thought that she had seen him at one point, but is now acknowledging that it wasn't meant to be and they won't meet.


Wanted single F, under thirty-three Must enjoy the sun, must enjoy the sea Sought by single M Nothing too heavy Send photo to address, is it you or me? Is it you or me? Is it you or me? (Is it you or me?) Is it you or me? Is it you, is it you or me, me? Is it you or me?
The single male is reposting the ad but this time, he's not looking for anyone heavy. He wants a single female, who is under 33 years old, and enjoys the sun and sea. He still wants her to send a photo to confirm if it's really her and wonders who it will be between the two of them.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Amy E Millan, Christopher Allen Seligman, Evan Whitney Cranley, Patrick McGee, Torquil John Campbell

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