Embarrassed
Stars Hollow Lyrics


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I always bite off more than I can chew
Leaving me to choke in front of you
I'm embarrassed by everything that I do
I don't know how to change
I just know how to be safe

I was always afraid to climb up trees
So I'll just keep spinning
Lonely and incomplete
While all my friends are high above me
Don't mind me
I'm just dizzy

You know where I'll be
Planing flowers under that tree
Or burying my past
Down at Burn's Cemetery

But I'm really not that upset about it
I'm really just kind of a wreck without it




I'm really not that upset about it
But I'm really not any better without it

Overall Meaning

In the song "Embarrassed" by Stars Hollow, the lyrics describe someone who constantly takes on more than they can handle and ends up stumbling in front of someone they care about. The opening lines "I always bite off more than I can chew, leaving me to choke in front of you" suggests that this person is likely prone to over-committing to things they cannot follow through with. This leads to feelings of embarrassment and shame, as indicated in the next line "I'm embarrassed by everything that I do". The person recognizes their inability to change this aspect of themselves, stating "I don't know how to change, I just know how to be safe".


The next lines of the song describe the person's fear of not measuring up to their peers. They feel lonely and incomplete while their friends are progressing without them. They use the metaphor of being unable to climb trees and "just spinning" to describe their feelings of inadequacy. They acknowledge their situation, saying "don't mind me, I'm just dizzy". The final lines of the song create an image of the person finding solace in tending to flowers or burying their past at a cemetery. While the person claims they aren't too upset about their struggles, they also admit they aren't any better off without them.


Overall, the song portrays a person who is struggling with their own limitations and feelings of inadequacy. They feel embarrassed by their inability to change, yet also acknowledge that they are lost without their struggles. The metaphor of spinning and being stuck in one spot creates an image of being trapped by one's own limitations.


Line by Line Meaning

I always bite off more than I can chew
I tend to take on more than I can handle


Leaving me to choke in front of you
I end up struggling and embarrassed in front of others


I'm embarrassed by everything that I do
I feel ashamed of my actions


I don't know how to change
I struggle to make improvements


I just know how to be safe
I tend to stay in my comfort zone


I was always afraid to climb up trees
I was fearful of taking risks and stepping out of my comfort zone


So I'll just keep spinning
I'll continue to be stagnant and not progress


Lonely and incomplete
I feel isolated and like a part of me is missing


While all my friends are high above me
My peers are succeeding and surpassing me


Don't mind me
Please don't pay attention to me


I'm just dizzy
I'm confused and disoriented


You know where I'll be
My whereabouts are predictable and unchanging


Planing flowers under that tree
Planting flowers and tending to them is a relaxing activity for me


Or burying my past
I attempt to let go of my negative past experiences


Down at Burn's Cemetery
I often find myself reminiscing and reflecting at the local cemetery


But I'm really not that upset about it
I'm not overly emotional about my current situation


I'm really just kind of a wreck without it
I'm struggling but don't know how to improve


But I'm really not that upset about it
I'm not overly emotional about my current situation


But I'm really not any better without it
Staying in my comfort zone isn't helping me improve




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