Afterlife
State of the Union Lyrics


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The problem is not the games you play
The problem is that I am the game
Of all the fetishes you crave
The problem is not the pain you give
The problem is I like the pain
That always seems to be the case

The problem isn't what you say
The problem is what you don't say
You left the truth so far behind
The problem isn't that you lie
The problem is that I believe
But after all that's how we met

The problem is not you leaving me
The problem is I won't let go
I always thought you'd be the one
The problem isn't loving you
The problem is you don't love me
It took me time to realize

And if you think there is someone better
Or if you think there's someone like me
And if you think you'll find someone better
Just find your way I'll give you the key
And if you want to make me fell better
Please don't pretend you ever loved me




Because if you want to make me feel better
You won't come back to hurt me again

Overall Meaning

The song "Afterlife" by State of the Union is a powerful representation of someone struggling to let go of a toxic relationship. The lyrics explore the complexities of love, pain, and deception that exist within such relationships. The first verse delves into the idea that the problem isn't the things the other person does, but rather the fact that the singer is willing to accept and tolerate the negative behaviors. The song highlights the addictive and self-destructive nature of certain relationships, where one person becomes the game that the other person plays.


The second verse touches on the theme of honesty and trust, revealing that the problem lies in the lack of transparency and the singer's willingness to believe lies. The chorus emphasizes the fact that the singer is struggling to let go, even though they know the relationship isn't healthy. The bridge shows a glimmer of hope as the singer acknowledges the possibility of finding someone better but also makes it clear that they are not interested in someone who will hurt them again.


Overall, "Afterlife" is a thought-provoking and emotional song that explores the complex nature of toxic relationships and the struggle to let go.


Line by Line Meaning

The problem is not the games you play
The problem is your games don't bother me as much as they should


The problem is that I am the game
The problem is that I am too invested and can't seem to walk away


Of all the fetishes you crave
Of all of your desires, I am the one you can't resist


The problem is not the pain you give
The problem is that your hurt is what I truly need


The problem is I like the pain
The problem is that I am addicted to the hurt you give me


That always seems to be the case
I can't seem to break free from this pattern, no matter how many times I try


The problem isn't what you say
The problem is what you withhold and never reveal


The problem is what you don't say
The problem is your lack of honesty and transparency


You left the truth so far behind
You are constantly hiding the truth from me


The problem isn't that you lie
The problem is that I blindly believe everything you say


The problem is that I believe
The problem is that I am gullible and naive


But after all that's how we met
But this is the foundation of our relationship and it's too late to change it now


The problem is not you leaving me
The problem is that I can't let go and move on from you


The problem is I won't let go
The problem is that I am holding on to a relationship that is no longer healthy


I always thought you'd be the one
I put too much faith in you and expected you to be the perfect partner


The problem isn't loving you
The problem is that it is one-sided and you don't love me back


The problem is you don't love me
The problem is that I am not receiving the love and affection that I need and deserve


It took me time to realize
It took me a while to understand that this relationship is not healthy for me


And if you think there is someone better
And if you believe that there is someone else out there for you


Or if you think there's someone like me
Or if you are searching for someone who is similar to me


Just find your way I'll give you the key
Just go and find what you are looking for and I won't stop you


And if you want to make me fell better
And if you want to ease my pain


Please don't pretend you ever loved me
Please don't give me false hope by pretending that you had feelings for me


Because if you want to make me feel better
Because the only way to truly make me feel better is to not hurt me again


You won't come back to hurt me again
Please don't return to cause me more pain and suffering




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Dj Pocketz

I love this band since I first heard them 20 years ago

Scott - Palm Beach, FL

So well written....RIP!  Unfortunately they called it quits today...damn..Synthpop just didn't catch-on with kids like back in 80's here in USA.. Blame corporate/technology and the 20 artist that get played over and over again here in USA.

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...Very Gooood Electronic Musik.....

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