High Expectations
Stereolab Lyrics


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Do you really want
To love someone
Who does not love you

Do you really want
To stab your
Enemy in the back
Stab him in front

I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.

Is it what you want
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.

Do you want to be the offshoot of delusion
Do you think they'll mind your decision
I'm sorry
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.

Do you feel you owe the errant foe
Anything at all

I don't, I don't, I don't, I sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I sorry.

Do you want to be the offshoot of delusion
give in to resignation
I'm sorry.
I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry.
I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry.
I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry.

Do you feel you owe the errant foe
Anything at all
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.




I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "High Expectations" by Stereolab seem to be about the complicated nature of relationships and the difficulty of navigating them. The song starts by asking the listener if they really want to love someone who doesn't love them back. This suggests the pain and heartbreak that can accompany unrequited love. It then takes a darker turn as it asks if the listener wants to stab their enemy in the back or in front, implying that revenge may be on their mind. However, the repeated "I don't" suggests that the singer is not interested in either option.


The next stanza asks if the listener wants to be the offshoot of delusion or if they think anyone will mind their decision, perhaps alluding to the pressure to conform to societal norms or the fear of being judged for their choices. Again, the repeated "I don't" suggests a reluctance to seek validation in this way. The song ends with a final question about whether the listener feels they owe their errant foe anything at all, but the answer is still the same: "I don't."


Overall, "High Expectations" seems to explore the ambiguity and uncertainty of human relationships, and the difficulty of trying to reconcile conflicting emotions and desires.


Line by Line Meaning

Do you really want To love someone Who does not love you
Are you willing to invest your love in someone who won't reciprocate it?


Do you really want To stab your Enemy in the back Stab him in front
Are you considering acting against someone who you see as your enemy, and if so, are you willing to confront them openly?


I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
Repeatedly expresses a refusal to do what was previously asked or suggested, implying that the singer does not wish to follow the paths mentioned before.


Is it what you want I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
Asks the listener if following the paths previously mentioned is really what they want. The artist responds by reiterating a refusal to follow those paths.


Do you want to be the offshoot of delusion Do you think they'll mind your decision I'm sorry
Asks if the listener is willing to be an ancillary product of their own self-deception, and if they think others will be bothered by their choice. The artist expresses regret over the situation, implying that they themselves may have been in that position before.


Do you feel you owe the errant foe Anything at all
Are you obligated to help someone who has wronged you, despite their misdeeds?


I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry. I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry. I won't, I won't, I won't, I sorry.
Repeatedly expresses a refusal to do what was previously asked or suggested, but with a new expression of regret this time, implying that the singer wishes they could follow through with what is being asked of them.


Do you feel you owe the errant foe Anything at all I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry. I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm sorry.
Reiterates the previous question, asking if the listener feels a sense of duty towards someone who has wronged them. The artist once again expresses regret over the situation and continued refusal to comply with the request or expectation.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: LAETITIA SADIER, TIMOTHY JOHN GANE

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