Best Years of Our Lives
Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel Lyrics


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European Maids, hard to ignore
You, me and the boys, barred from the shore
Fresh-faced imbeciles, laughing at me
I've been laughing myself, is that so hard to see?
Do I have to spell each letter out, honestly!
If there's no room for laughter, there's no room for me
For me
Try looking at you, rather than me
No truth is in here, it's all fantasy
Since the last time we met I've been through
About seven hundred changes and that's just a few
And the changes all tend to be something to do
But you've got to believe that they're all done for you
For you

Oh, you'll think it's tragic when that moment first arrives
Oh, but it's magic, it's the best years of our lives

Lost now for the words to tell you the truth
Please banter with me the banter of youth
If I knew how to say it, I would say it for you
If I knew how to whisper, I'd whisper for you
If I knew how to waltz, I'd get up and dance for you
If I thought I could run, I'd come running to you
To you

I've discovered now how to be fair
And this I could teach you if only I dare
The only conclusion that I've reached in my life
Is that if I should die, I should die by the knife
Since it's only a matter of courage all right
Die a man or a martyr, the two would be nice
So nice

Oh, you'll think it's tragic when that moment arrives
Oh, oh, but it's magic, it's the best years of our lives




Oh oh oh oh, you'll think it's tragic when that moment first arrives
Oh oh, oh, but it's magic, it's the best years of our lives

Overall Meaning

The song "The Best Years of Our Lives" by Steve Harley is about the realization that laughter is necessary in life and that it is a key to happiness. The opening lines talk about the beauty of European women and the exclusion of the singer and his friends from the shore. As the song continues, the singer contrasts his own laughter with that of others who he believes are laughing at him, highlighting the importance of being able to laugh together rather than at one another. He urges others to look at themselves rather than him and see the fantasy that they are living in. He claims to have gone through many changes since they last met and that these changes are all for others to benefit from. The singer talks about his inability to find the right words to express his feelings and his longing to be able to communicate and dance the waltz. He concludes by saying he has learned the value of being fair and taking risks to ensure a fulfilling life, whether that involves dying with courage as a man or martyr.


One of the interesting facts about the song is that it was published in 1975 and was the fourth and final single from the album "The Best Years of Our Lives." The song was a massive hit in the UK charts, achieving #4 on the UK Singles Chart. It's widely considered one of Steve Harley's best songs, even though it was never released in the US. The song's backing vocalist is Linda Lewis, well-known for her own solo career. Another interesting fact is that the song's guitar solo was performed by the legendary Jim Cregan, who later played with Rod Stewart's band. Many listeners assume that this song is about nostalgia and reminiscing about the past, but it's actually about the present and the importance of living in the moment. The lyrics are inspired by T.S. Eliot's play "The Cocktail Party" and the phrase "The Best Years of Our Lives" was a recurring phrase throughout the play.


Chords for the song are:


Verse 1
Dmaj7 - Dmaj7 - Gmaj7 - Gmaj7
Dmaj7 - Dmaj7 - Gmaj7 - Gmaj7
Em7 - Em7 - Am7 - Am7
Em7 - A7 - Dmaj7 - Dmaj7


Chorus
G - G - Em - Em
G - G - Em - Em
C - C - G - G
D - D - G - G


Line by Line Meaning

European Maids, hard to ignore
The women here are beautiful and it's impossible not to notice.


You, me and the boys, barred from the shore
We're not allowed to access the privileged areas.


Fresh-faced imbeciles, laughing at me
Young and inexperienced people are mocking me.


I've been laughing myself, is that so hard to see?
I've been able to recognize the humor in my own situations.


Do I have to spell each letter out, honestly!
I shouldn't have to explain it, it's obvious.


If there's no room for laughter, there's no room for me
If people can't enjoy themselves, I don't feel welcome either.


Try looking at you, rather than me
Maybe you're the one doing something wrong, not me.


No truth is in here, it's all fantasy
Nothing here is genuine, it's all made up.


Since the last time we met I've been through, about seven hundred changes and that's just a few
I've gone through a lot of transformations since we last saw each other.


And the changes all tend to be something to do
These transformations are all related to you.


But you've got to believe that they're all done for you
Despite any mistakes I've made, everything I do is for you and your benefit.


Oh, you'll think it's tragic when that moment first arrives... Oh, but it's magic, it's the best years of our lives
You may be sad when a certain time comes, but it's actually a wonderful period in our lives.


Lost now for the words to tell you the truth
I don't know how to explain things honestly anymore.


Please banter with me the banter of youth
Let's talk like we did when we were young.


If I knew how to say it, I would say it for you
I'm not sure how to express myself, but I would try to for your sake.


If I knew how to whisper, I'd whisper for you
If I could speak softly, I would do so for you.


If I knew how to waltz, I'd get up and dance for you
If I was capable, I would dance with you.


If I thought I could run, I'd come running to you
If I believed I could make it to you, I would run to you.


I've discovered now how to be fair
I've learned how to be impartial and just.


And this I could teach you if only I dare
I could show you how to do this too, if I was brave enough.


The only conclusion that I've reached in my life
The one thing I've learned in my experiences is that


Is that if I should die, I should die by the knife
If I have to go down, it should be on my own terms.


Since it's only a matter of courage all right
It all comes down to bravery in the end.


Die a man or a martyr, the two would be nice, So nice
It's better to die like a strong and honorable man, rather than like a coward.


Oh oh oh oh, you'll think it's tragic when that moment first arrives... Oh oh, but it's magic, it's the best years of our lives.
Even though you may initially be sad when a certain time comes, it's actually an incredible period in our lives.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: STEVE HARLEY

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@robmccluskey6906

True - and shameful - story coming up.

This was one of the first songs I learned to play on guitar. Anyone who knows a bit of guitar knows it is incredibly basic - which makes it even more awesome. Dylan was a master of it, I think I learned his entire 1961-1976 catalogue in a week on 5 or 6 chords.

Anyways ... several years later, I was in Zimbabwe. One night around a campfire, with a few locals, lots of beer and a guitar, I finally got enough Dutch in me to take a turn when the guitar was passed round. I remember doing a couple of Dylan songs, then I did this one ... nobody had heard it before.

To my eternal shame... I told everyone I wrote it myself. I had to write the lyrics and chords out for a couple of the lads there, they made me sign it and told me one day I would be famous if I wrote more songs like this.

This, of course, was in the wonderful pre-interweb era, when you couldn't type a few lines into google and get called out for being a bullshitter.

So... if you're ever in Zimbabwe, hanging around Victoria Falls, and you hear a busker tell you he learned this song off Steve Harley himself ... just smile and walk on.

(I actually recounted this story to Steve around 1996 / 97 after a gig, I think he called me a cunt ... with that Harley smile on his chops !)



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Friday 02 November 2018 - Butlins Skegness Resort - Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel - Butlins - Skegness

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All comments from YouTube:

@Notalwaysrightbutmostly

Just loved Cockney rebel , my first musical love .Started in 74 when I was 15 here I am almost 50 years later still listening still loving .Thank you Steve make me smile will see me on my final journey

@mogensfriis7627

Wonderful Song - deserves a million likes !

@melfzs

Been a fan of the man since I first heard Sebastian, but the best years is my all time favourite, and as has already been said a poetic genius.

@iancarter4196

I took my wife along to see Cockney Rebel in 1976, In Plymouth. Still one of the best live gigs I’ve ever been to. I still have albums. Also in my car (cds). Best years of our lives, beautiful track.

@rogermanning3702

I was at that gig, ABC cinema, Make me smile brought the house down.

@kerryalbany3922

Man, this songs making me cry

@welderman444

I saw Steve Harley perform this great song live last Saturday in Warrington. 22/7/17. This was the stand out song for me in a fantastic show. as with this video, he invited the audience to sing along. i sang like a nutter and had a brilliant night. At 58 years old I`m so lucky to see real talent like Steve Harley still performing.

@picdriver

Nice one! Wish I was there too....enjoy your memories ;)

@charlessimpson3202

Steve Harley, such an under-rated songwriter. A true poet x

@DaniRocksaurier

I was lucky to saw him live in Switzerland around mid 90's. I grow up with his music
since early 70's

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