The Way You Punish Me
Steve Wynn Lyrics


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In another life I must have been bad
In another life I must have been bad
Stripped down, break my pride
Straight through the other side
Rip through my memory
Nothing that I want to see

I love the way you punish me

In another life I must have done wrong
In another life I must have done wrong
Don't tell me what I've done
Don't see what I've become
Ravish me, tear me down
Stub my life into the ground





I love the way you punish me

Overall Meaning

"The Way You Punish Me" by Steve Wynn is a song that depicts a tormented relationship in which the singer feels that he must have been a bad person in another life to deserve the punishment he endures. He is stripped down, stripped of his pride and is taken straight to the other side, and his memory is torn, leaving him with nothing he wants to see. Despite all of this, he continues to love the way he is punished. In the second verse, he admits that he must have done something wrong in another life, and he doesn't want to be told or see what he became. He is ravished and torn down and feels that his life is being stubbed into the ground. Despite all of this, he still loves the way he is punished.


The lyrics of this song illustrate a deeply troubled relationship in which the singer has become addicted to punishment while still craving his partner's love. It is a song about the dark side of love and how one can become so entwined in a toxic dynamic that they begin to love the pain they are put through.


Line by Line Meaning

In another life I must have been bad
I must have made mistakes or done wrong things in a previous life.


Stripped down, break my pride
Take away everything that makes me feel good about myself and break my self-confidence.


Straight through the other side
Take me to the other side, past my limits and boundaries.


Rip through my memory
Take away my memories or make me forget them.


Nothing that I want to see
I don't want to remember or see the things that hurt me.


I love the way you punish me
Despite everything, I love the way you make me feel punished or disciplined.


In another life I must have done wrong
I must have committed sins or acted badly in a past life.


Don't tell me what I've done
I don't want to know or face the truth about my actions.


Don't see what I've become
I don't want to acknowledge or accept who I have become.


Ravish me, tear me down
Make love to me with force and take away my defenses and resistance.


Stub my life into the ground
End my life or destroy everything I have worked for.


I love the way you punish me
Despite everything, I love the way you make me feel punished or disciplined.




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