Don't Wonder Why
Stevie Wonder Lyrics


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You never see the little sparkle in my eye.
I wonder why?
Sometimes I wish you'd stop and hold me, but you pass right by.
I wonder why?
I tried everything I could; I even change my walk, the way that I stood,
But you pass by me and pretend that you don't even see me.
But I want you to know:
If one day you decide to smile and say hello, and I say goodbye;
Don't wonder why, my baby. (No.) Don't wonder why, my baby.

When I think of how you hurt me, it brings the tears to my eyes.
I just can't seem to make you happy no matter how hard I try.
I wonder why?
Seems like no matter what I do, it's never good enough for you.
My pain - it shows loud, but it still can't let go now, but I want you to know,
Now: nights grow old, and winds blow cold, so old if my loves grows cold,
And I don't wonder why, my baby. (Woooo,) baby, don't wonder why.
Oh yeah!

(Yeah,) seems like no matter what I do, I'm never, never, never, never,
Never, good enough for you.
My pain - it shows loud; oh, you know I still, just no matter, I just can't let go,
Now, but I want you to know:
Love me, baby.
Nights grow old, and winds blow cold, and so old if my love grows cold,
And I've... don't wonder why, baby.
No, no, no, no, don't wonder why, my baby.
Baby, don't wonder why; don't wonder why, my baby.
Don't wonder why, my baby.
No, no, no, no, don't wonder why, my baby. (Ooohhh.)




Don't wonder why, my baby.
Can you hear me? Can you hear me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Stevie Wonder's song Don't Wonder Why recount the heartbreak of unrequited love. The singer longs for the attention and affection of their beloved, but they are constantly overlooked and unacknowledged. The first verse captures the singer's frustration at being consistently overlooked, despite their attempts to catch the attention of their love interest. The second verse highlights the singer's feelings of inadequacy, as they believe that they can never do enough to make the other person happy. The repetition of "I wonder why?" throughout the song suggests that the singer is also confused and hurt by the other person's indifference.


The chorus of the song serves as a warning to the other person not to be surprised when the singer eventually moves on. The singer tells the other person not to "wonder why" when they decide to say goodbye. The pain of unrequited love is too great to bear, and so the singer is preparing themselves for the possibility of moving on.


The bridge of the song brings together the themes of love and loss, as the singer contemplates what it would be like if their love were to grow cold. The repetition of "nights grow old" and "winds blow cold" create a sense of inevitability, as though the singer knows that their love will eventually fade away. The song ends on a melancholy note, with the singer repeating the title phrase "Don't wonder why, my baby" as though to convince themselves that they are making the right decision.


Overall, "Don't Wonder Why" is a poignant and relatable depiction of unrequited love. The pain, frustration, and confusion that the singer experiences are emotions that many people have felt at some point in their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

You never see the little sparkle in my eye.
You don't seem to notice the small signs of affection or love that I show, which makes me feel invisible.


Sometimes I wish you'd stop and hold me, but you pass right by.
I long for your physical embrace, but you ignore me and leave me feeling neglected.


I tried everything I could; I even change my walk, the way that I stood, But you pass by me and pretend that you don't even see me.
I have altered myself to try and please you, but you still ignore me and act as if I do not exist.


If one day you decide to smile and say hello, and I say goodbye; Don't wonder why, my baby. (No.) Don't wonder why, my baby.
If I eventually decide to leave you after you have disregarded me for so long, you should not be surprised or puzzled by my decision.


When I think of how you hurt me, it brings the tears to my eyes.
The pain you have caused me leaves me feeling emotional and sad.


I just can't seem to make you happy no matter how hard I try. I wonder why?
Despite my best efforts, I cannot seem to please you or make you content, which confuses and frustrates me.


Seems like no matter what I do, it's never good enough for you.
My attempts at meeting your expectations fall short and you are always dissatisfied.


My pain - it shows loud, but it still can't let go now, but I want you to know, Now: nights grow old, and winds blow cold, so old if my loves grows cold, And I don't wonder why, my baby. (Woooo,) baby, don't wonder why.
Despite my visible hurt, I cannot bring myself to end this relationship just yet. However, if my love for you eventually fades and our connection ends, you should not question why.


Oh yeah! / (Yeah,) seems like no matter what I do, I'm never, never, never, never, / Never, good enough for you.
I am constantly striving to improve myself to meet your standards, but it never seems to be enough for you.


My pain - it shows loud; oh, you know I still, just no matter, I just can't let go, Now, but I want you to know: Love me, baby.
Although my pain is obvious, I am still unwilling to let go and end our relationship. I just want you to love me in return.


Nights grow old, and winds blow cold, and so old if my love grows cold, / And I've... don't wonder why, baby. / No, no, no, no, don't wonder why, my baby. / Baby, don't wonder why; don't wonder why, my baby.
As time passes and we grow older, if my feelings for you eventually fade and our relationship ends, you should not be surprised or puzzled by it. Baby, do not question my decision.


Don't wonder why, my baby. / No, no, no, no, don't wonder why, my baby. (Ooohhh.) / Don't wonder why, my baby. / Can you hear me? Can you hear me?
Repeated confirmation that you should not question or wonder why when our relationship ends. The final line is a plea to be heard and understood.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LEONARD CASTON

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