If you love somebody set them free
Sting & The Police Lyrics


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Free free, set them free
Free free, set them free
Free free, set them free
Free free, set them free

If you need somebody, call my name
If you want someone, you can do the same
If you want to keep something precious
You got to lock it up and throw away the key
If you want to hold onto your possession
Don't even think about me

If you love somebody
If you love someone
If you love somebody
If you love someone set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)

If it's a mirror you want, just look into my eyes
Or a whipping boy, someone to despise
Or a prisoner in the dark
Tied up in chains you just can't see
Or a beast in a gilded cage
That's all some people ever want to be

If you love somebody
If you love someone
If you love somebody
If you love someone set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)

You can't control an independent heart
Can't tear the one you love apart
Forever conditioned to believe that we can't live
We can't live here and be happy with less
So many riches, so many souls
Everything we see that we want to possess

If you need somebody, call my name
If you want someone, you can, you can do, you can do the same
If you want to keep something precious
You got to lock it up and throw away the key
Wanna hold onto your possession
Don't even think about me

If you love somebody
If you love someone
If you love somebody
If you love someone set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
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(Free, free, set them free)
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(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free

Overall Meaning

The song "If You Love Somebody Set Them Free" is about the importance of freedom in relationships. Sting emphasizes that in order to truly love someone, one must respect their independence and let them go if they desire to be free. He also warns against possession and control in relationships, saying that they are damaging and can lead to resentment and eventually the end of the relationship.


The first verse repeated four times emphasizes the importance of setting someone free if you truly love them. The second verse talks about the importance of communication in relationships and being there for someone when they need you, but letting them have their freedom otherwise. The third verse warns against the desire to possess someone and treating them like a prisoner, urging listeners to let go of that mentality.


One of the key themes in the song is the importance of independence and respect in relationships. This is a common theme in Sting's music, and he frequently addresses the topic in his lyrics. The song was a hit when it was released in 1985 and was nominated for a Grammy Award.


Line by Line Meaning

Free free, set them free
To truly love someone, you must give them the freedom to be themselves without trying to control or possess them.


If you need somebody, call my name
I am here for you if you ever need me, but I won't force my presence on you if you don't want it.


If you want someone, you can do the same
If you want someone in your life, reach out and let them know. Don't be afraid to take that step.


If you want to keep something precious
If you want to hold onto something you cherish, you can't try to control or restrict it.


You got to lock it up and throw away the key
Trying to control or possess something will only lead to its destruction, much like locking it up and throwing away the key.


If you love somebody set them free
True love requires giving someone the freedom to be themselves, even if that means they may not choose to be with you.


If it's a mirror you want, just look into my eyes
If you want to see yourself reflected in someone else, you can see that in me without having to possess or control me.


Or a whipping boy, someone to despise
Some people want to use others as a way to take out their anger or frustrations, but that's not what true love is.


Or a prisoner in the dark
Trying to control or possess someone is like imprisoning them in darkness, where they are unable to thrive or grow.


Tied up in chains you just can't see
The chains of possession or control are invisible, but they still hold someone back from being their true selves.


Or a beast in a gilded cage
Some people may have everything they want in life, but still feel trapped and unhappy because they are not truly free.


You can't control an independent heart
Trying to control someone who is truly independent is a futile and damaging endeavor.


Can't tear the one you love apart
True love requires giving someone the freedom to be themselves, even if that means they may not choose to be with you.


Forever conditioned to believe that we can't live
Society often conditions us to believe that we need certain possessions or people in order to be happy, but this is not necessarily true.


We can't live here and be happy with less
We often think we need more and more to be happy, when in reality true happiness comes from being content with what we have and who we are.


So many riches, so many souls
There are so many things in this world that we desire, but ultimately true happiness comes from within, not from possessions or other people.


Wanna hold onto your possession
Trying to possess or control someone will only lead to heartache and pain, both for you and for the other person.


Don't even think about me
If you are looking for someone to possess or control, you should look elsewhere, because I will not be that person for you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Gordon Sumner

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@PScooter63

An older post mentioned overlays. This was a pretty intricate video production, if you scrutinize it carefully. 
Think about it... everyone had to be filmed separately, against a green screen (except for the Kenny Kirkland, the keyboardist, who appears to be the only one on the real set).  The others were uniquely composited into each shot:
* Sting - radiates "heat waves" whenever he sings, they fade when he takes a breath. Notice the ripples alter the view of whomever/whatever is behind him.
* Brandford Marsalis (sax) - transparent when not playing.
* Daryl Jones (bass) - monochromatic while playing (starting about 0:16).
* Dolette McDonald and Janice Pendarvis (vocals/tambourine) - varying frame rates, time-freezes and time-jumps.
* Omar Hakim (drums) - aggessively green-screened (so that the chrome of his set "bleeds" into the background unnaturally, along with the rug tassels), and there's a subtle vibration applied to the camera shooting him. 
Every time they changed camera angles, the video's director had to plan the spatial arrangement... who is in front of/behind who? Not to mention continuity between shots.
Really eye-catching at the time.



@terencebrownlee202

Oh my...
If you love somebody
If you love someone
If you love somebody
If you love someone set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)
Set them free
(Free, free, set them free)

i haven't heard this song in over 25 years. My Dad loved this song. He played it over and over.
I have had this video/song on repeat for over 1 hour. I can't turn it off.
This I do believe has to be one of the best collaborated songs ever assembled.
I really can't describe this sound. It's Soulful, Jazzy, Bluesy, Rocky, It's an outstanding record. (That's what we called it back in the day). lol-lol-lol
Look at that Bass player....He thumb slappin them strings and walking the dog.
The keyboardist, Oh my, just listen at him. His sound hold's it all together.
Drummer is stank slappin them skins.
Please tell me yall hear them horns.
Even the cymbals make a really nice mark.
Then, then, then STING all on top of it. WHEW!!!
This record is so well put together.
Just watch the video. It's breathtaking!!!



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@tbee1638

The backup singers are EVERYTHING ❤

@TimONeillCMH

2:48!

@freezing71

100 percent!

@user-sq4ex9wf5x

I thought so too!!!I can't keep from watching them !! EVERYTHING!!!

@deathbygrinning

Killer line-up that made beautiful music together! Amazing musicianship.

@empoweredselfishnesstv4102

Still listening in 2023.
I just lost my dad and my sister eight months apart. This song is timely for me.
I set my dad and sister free to soar!🙏🏾❤

@220773

So soar you two! 😙

@TMANN-jo1ps

Sorry about both of your losses.

@azzz4708

​@@TMANN-jo1psCondolences on such major losses. 🙏

@eulissbenoit816

May they rest in God my friend

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