Sex & Violence
Stone Temple Pilots Lyrics


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I used to love you now I don't care
Now I turn around, you're everywhere
So you can chew me up and spit me out
You're just a little bitch I cared about
I used to love you now I don't care
Now I turn around, you're everywhere
So you can chew me up and spit me out
You're just a little bitch I cared about

I know you can see me
But you don't believe me
I know that you're lonely
Time will tell and time is hell

No sex or violence
No morbid silence
Forever sleeping
You won't stop breathing
No sex or violence
No morbid silence
Forever sleeping
You won't stop breathing

You hold me captive and it's not fair
Progressed insanity is everywhere
You need to love me but you kicked me out
My head is wandering so knock me out
I keep my head afloat I'm drowning in
The muddy water pulls me down again
I used to love me but I hate me now
I'm just a little bitch I cared about

I know you can see me
But you don't believe me
I know that you're lonely
Time will tell and time is hell

No sex or violence
No morbid silence
Forever sleeping
You won't stop breathing
No sex or violence
No morbid silence
Forever sleeping
You won't stop breathing
No sex or violence
No morbid silence




Forever sleeping
You won't stop breathing

Overall Meaning

The opening stanza of "Sex & Violence" by Stone Temple Pilots exemplifies an emotional distancing between two people. The singer used to love somebody but doesn't care about them anymore. Even though the other person is everywhere, the singer is done with them and labels them as a little bitch he once cared about. There is a clear resentment towards the other person, possibly stemming from a lack of reciprocated love or an unfortunate incident that led to the breakup. The following lines suggest a layer of complexity in their relationship, with the other person not believing the singer and being lonely. The words "time will tell, and time is hell" echo a prolonged sense of pain, and the singer sets the stage for further exploration.


In the chorus, there is a rejection of the conventional notions of sex and violence as symbols of passion or expression. The phrases "no sex or violence, no morbid silence" imply a stagnant relationship where nothing is happening. The lyrics "forever sleeping, you won't stop breathing" obliquely foreshadow an inevitable end to their current state of togetherness. The chorus, therefore, points towards a relationship that is docile, but the singer dreams of a more passionate or lively relationship. They don't necessarily want sex and violence, but they want something more than a mundane and devoid of expression relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to love you now I don't care
I once had feelings for you, but now I have lost all interest


Now I turn around, you're everywhere
Everywhere I go, I am reminded of you


So you can chew me up and spit me out
You have the power to use and dispose of me however you please


You're just a little bitch I cared about
Despite your mistreatment of me, I still have emotions for you


I know you can see me
You are aware of my existence


But you don't believe me
You do not trust my words or actions


I know that you're lonely
I am aware of your emotional state


Time will tell and time is hell
Only the passage of time will reveal the truth, and the waiting is unbearable


No sex or violence
There is no physical expression or aggression in our relationship


No morbid silence
There is no eerie or uncomfortable silence between us


Forever sleeping
Our relationship is stagnant and unchanging


You won't stop breathing
You will never cease to exist in my life


You hold me captive and it's not fair
I feel trapped in this relationship and it is unjust


Progressed insanity is everywhere
The more I am immersed in this relationship, the more my mental stability deteriorates


You need to love me but you kicked me out
Despite your desire for my affection, you have forced me out of your life


My head is wandering so knock me out
I am mentally unstable and need something to distract me from the pain


I keep my head afloat I'm drowning in
I am struggling to stay above water in this relationship


The muddy water pulls me down again
The negativity and toxicity of this relationship is overwhelming


I used to love me but I hate me now
I have lost all confidence and self-love due to this relationship


I'm just a little bitch I cared about
I am weak and powerless in this relationship, despite my affection for you




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Dean DeLeo, Robert Emile DeLeo, Eric Kretz, Scott Richard Weiland

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