Control
Stria Lyrics


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Please forgive me if I don't understand
That the pain you sometimes put me through
is more than I can stand
Hold onto me 'cuz I am letting go
All the fight that I could never win
The illusion of control
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
Please forgive me if I don't realize
That the anarchy you put me through
It makes me feel alive
Can you hear me because I need to say
That no matter how much pain I'm in
I can't let you slip away
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)
I love the way that you break me
I'm caving into the ceiling
Cuz' every word is like a new breath I found
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth




You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)

Overall Meaning

“Control” by Stria is a song that explores the complexities of a toxic and abusive relationship. The lyrics express the singer's struggle to understand and come to terms with her partner's behavior, which fluctuates between violent and loving. The opening line, "Please forgive me if I don't understand," suggests that the singer is seeking her partner's forgiveness for not being able to comprehend the pain that they inflict upon her. She recognizes that their passion is intense to the point where it's "more than I can stand," but she is unable to let go completely, despite acknowledging that she is fighting a losing battle. The line "The illusion of control" seems to suggest that the singer knows that she is not in control of the relationship, and it is merely an illusion to think that she can manipulate her partner's actions.


The chorus, "You're like a car crash that brings me to life, You're like broken glass left in my life, You're like a disaster only the truth, You're out of control and I can't control you," paints a vivid picture of the volatile effect her partner has on her. The imagery used compares her partner's presence to a catastrophic event that is both destructive and life-giving. The line "You're out of control and I can't control you" reinforces the idea that the singer is aware of the toxic nature of the relationship but feels powerless to prevent it.


In the second verse, the singer reveals another side to the relationship, acknowledging that the anarchy and pain she experiences through the partnership make her feel alive. She expresses her need to hold onto her partner, even though it causes her immense pain. The bridge section emphasizes her love for her partner and her willingness to endure the hurt she receives from the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Please forgive me if I don't understand
I may not comprehend why you hurt me sometimes


That the pain you sometimes put me through is more than I can stand
The suffering you inflict upon me exceeds my capacity to endure


Hold onto me 'cuz I am letting go
I need you to hold onto me because I am losing control


All the fight that I could never win
I have no chance of winning the struggle against you


The illusion of control
Thinking I can control you is just a mirage


You're like a car crash that brings me to life
Despite the destruction you cause in my life, I feel alive when I'm with you


You're like broken glass left in my life
You're a source of pain and hurt that I can't escape


You're like a disaster only the truth
You are a catastrophic force that cannot be denied


You're out of control and I can't control you
You are unmanageable and I cannot restrain you


Please forgive me if I don't realize
I may not acknowledge the havoc you wreak on my life


That the anarchy you put me through makes me feel alive
The chaos you inflict upon me gives me a sense of vitality


Can you hear me because I need to say
I need you to listen to me because I have something important to communicate


That no matter how much pain I'm in, I can't let you slip away
Despite the agony I endure, I cannot bear the thought of losing you


I love the way that you break me
I derive pleasure from the pain you cause me


I'm caving into the ceiling
The pressure of my situation is overwhelming me


Cuz' every word is like a new breath I found
Every interaction with you is exhilarating and reinvigorating


You're out of control and I can't control you
You are uncontrollable and I cannot restrain you


You're like a car crash that brings me to life
The catastrophe you represent makes me feel alive


You're like broken glass left in my life
You're a source of pain and hurt that I cannot escape


You're like a disaster only the truth
You are a catastrophic force that cannot be denied


You're out of control and I can't control you
You are unmanageable and I cannot restrain you




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Jared Galorport

Please forgive me if I don't understand
That the pain you sometimes put me through
Is more than I can stand
Hold onto me 'cuz I am letting go
All the fight that I could never win
The illusion of control
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
Please forgive me if I don't realize
That the anarchy you put me through
It makes me feel alive
Can you hear me because I need to say
That no matter how much pain I'm in
I can't let you slip away
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)
I love the way that you break me
I'm caving into the ceiling
Cuz' every word is like a new breath I found
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)



All comments from YouTube:

Enzo Costabel

Wow,I always wonder if they were bands out thete that they could combine Rock and Trance/Techno.Very original

TrollboyXD123

There*

Ragnid o.Official

Check Dead By April mate (they more metalcore than electronic rock) but they have a lot of trance stuff in it... they used to define trancecore

Jesus ™

Моя любимая группа, в сердце навсегда)

Zero Zero 2.0

@Dima Buchatskyi внутренние разногласия вроде, кстати после группы stria, у них было ещё 2 проекта: Tomahawk Pointe и Face The Future. Рекомендую к ознакомлению

Dima Buchatskyi

Из-за чего они распались?

Chris Ketchem

never knew the name of this band before this week and it turns out i already knew about 4 songs from them. wow.

Rafael Oliveira Silva

Gostei muito desse inicio !

Jared Galorport

Please forgive me if I don't understand
That the pain you sometimes put me through
Is more than I can stand
Hold onto me 'cuz I am letting go
All the fight that I could never win
The illusion of control
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
Please forgive me if I don't realize
That the anarchy you put me through
It makes me feel alive
Can you hear me because I need to say
That no matter how much pain I'm in
I can't let you slip away
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)
I love the way that you break me
I'm caving into the ceiling
Cuz' every word is like a new breath I found
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
You're like a car crash that brings me to life
You're like broken glass left in my life
You're like a disaster only the truth
You're out of control and I can't control you
(You're out of control...)

Lordoa

You're like broken glass a legend alive
You're like a disaster long overdue
car crash -> congress?

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