Sister Winter
Sufjan Stevens Lyrics


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Oh my friends I've
Begun to worry right
Where I should be grateful
I should be satisfied

Oh my heart I
Would clap and dance in place
With my friends I have so
Much pleasure to embrace

But my heart is
Returned to sister winter
But my heart is
As cold as ice

Oh my thoughts I
Return to summer time
When I kissed your ankle
I kissed you through the night

All my gifts I gave everything to you
Your strange imagination
You threw it all away

Now my heart is
Returned to sister winter
Now my heart is
As cold as ice

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

La la la la la...

And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you a Happy Christmas

To wish you a Happy Christmas




To wish you a Happy Christmas
To wish you a Happy Christmas

Overall Meaning

"Sister Winter" is a contemplative and melancholic song by Sufjan Stevens that reflects on the passing of time and the fleeting nature of human relationships. The first stanza establishes a sense of unease and dissatisfaction with life, as the singer feels that he should be grateful but can't fully enjoy the company of his friends. The second stanza reveals that this is due to the memory of a lost love, a fleeting moment of happiness during a summer night when the singer kissed someone's ankle. The third stanza is a lamentation of the gifts and efforts the singer made in that relationship, which were ultimately discarded because of the other person's "strange imagination." The song ends with a somber repetition of the chorus, as the singer apologizes to his friends for his emotional distance and wishes them a happy Christmas.


The theme of the song is further reinforced by the musical arrangement, which features sparse instrumentation and a slow, mournful melody. The use of minor chords and a repetitive refrain underscore the sense of loss and regret conveyed in the lyrics. The la la la la la's evoke a conflicting sense of both winter and Christmas time.


Overall, "Sister Winter" is a poignant and introspective reflection on heartache and the futile attempts to recapture the past. The song suggests that time heals all wounds, but also leaves scars that can never be fully erased. The winter season and holidays that accompany the song further illustrate the sadness that can often accompany such times of the year.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh my friends I've
I am concerned about my friends


Begun to worry right
My worry has started to grow further


Where I should be grateful
Although I should be grateful for what I have


I should be satisfied
I still feel unsatisfied


Oh my heart I
My emotions are also affected


Would clap and dance in place
I would usually be happy in the company of friends


With my friends I have so
I am fortunate to have such great friends


Much pleasure to embrace
But I don't feel the same joy anymore


But my heart is
My emotions are distinct and negative now


Returned to sister winter
I am feeling cold, detached and distant


But my heart is
My emotions are affected and different now


As cold as ice
I feel isolated and cold as ice


Oh my thoughts I
My thoughts are also affected


Return to summer time
I long for a happier time


When I kissed your ankle
When I was intimate with someone


I kissed you through the night
Those feelings were shared together


All my gifts I gave everything to you
I gave you everything


Your strange imagination
Even your weirdest behaviour didn't bother me


You threw it all away
But you don't care or appreciate my love


Now my heart is
My emotions are still affected


Returned to sister winter
I still feel cold, detached and distant


Now my heart is
My emotions are still affected


As cold as ice
I still feel isolated and cold as ice


All my friends, I've
I want to apologize to all my friends


Returned to sister winter
I still feel cold, detached and distant


All my friends, I
I want to ask for forgiveness


Apologize, apologize
I am sorry, I am sorry


La la la la la...
Singing to mask my feelings


And my friends, I've
I still want to reach out to my friends


Returned to wish you all the best
I want to wish all my friends the best


And my friends, I've
I want to reach out to all my friends


Returned to wish you all the best
I want to wish all my friends the best


And my friends, I've
I still want to reach out to my friends


Returned to wish you all the best
I want to wish my friends the best for the upcoming year


And my friends, I've
I want my friends to know that


Returned to wish you a Happy Christmas
I wish everyone a happy Christmas


To wish you a Happy Christmas
My sincere Christmas greetings to all


To wish you a Happy Christmas
My sincere Christmas greetings to all


To wish you a Happy Christmas
My sincere Christmas greetings to all




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

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Oh my friends I've
Begun to worry right
Where I should be grateful
I should be satisfied

Oh my heart I
Would clap and dance in place
With my friends I have so
Much pleasure to embrace

But my heart is
Returned to sister winter
But my heart is
As cold as ice

Oh my thoughts I
Return to summer time
When I kissed your ankle
I kissed you through the night

All my gifts I gave everything to you
Your strange imagination
You threw it all away

Now my heart is
Returned to sister winter
Now my heart is
As cold as ice

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

All my friends, I've
Returned to sister winter
All my friends, I
Apologise, apologise

La la la la la...

And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you all the best
And my friends, I've
Returned to wish you a Happy Christmas

To wish you a Happy Christmas
To wish you a Happy Christmas
To wish you a Happy Christmas



All comments from YouTube:

@manzilla86

I always tell people this is my favorite Christmas song and they're like, "What's that?" and I play it and they look at me weird and I chortle with laughter then finish listening to the song by myself with a distant smile on my face.

@renly2429

It’s mine too !!

@KevinManess

It's weird when a Christmas song knows my entire life story. But there it is.

@katiebjorn

mine too. i love this song so much.

@VioletKemp

Are you me?

@TheCiccone1

To anyone who has ever suffered from seasonal depression, this song speaks so truthfully.

@zachahmed9220

Absolutely a modern Christmas classic.

@SensoriaMaRia

May there Peace, Light, and Love... within all of us. Much healing is needed on Planet Earth. Sister Winter, please help see us through!

@slp5680

I just bought the box set for this one song. My most favorite Christmas song.

@_PAU_

This is my favorite Christmas song

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