Nightswimming / Joey
Sugarland Lyrics


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Night swimming
Deserves a quiet night
The photograph on the dashboard
Taken years ago
Turned around backwards so the windshield shows
Every street light reveals a picture in reverse
Still its so much clearer
I forgot my shirt at the waters edge
The moon is low tonight
Night swimming

What if I said yes
What if I'd gone out that night
What if you'd turned left
Everything would've turned out alright
What if I'd spoke up
What'd if I'd took the keys
What if I had tried a little harder instead of always trying to please

Joey I'm so sorry
Ohh can you hear me
Joey I'm so sorry

What if I'd said no
What if we'd never fell in love
What if we'd gone slow
Or a little be faster and broken up

Would I know this hurt
Would I feel this pain
Do you know that with all I have left in my very last breath I will call your name

Joey I'm so sorry
Ohoohoh can you hear me?
Joey I'm so sorry

Were you sad
Were you scared
Did you wish for a prayer to be free
Was it quiet and cold
Was it light or too dark to see
And did you reach for me

Joey I'm so sorry
Ohh can you hear me?
Joey I'm so sorry
Oohhhohh can you hear me




Joey I'm so...
Joey I'm so..... sorry

Overall Meaning

The song Nightswimming/Joey by Sugarland is a heartfelt song about the lingering pain and regret that a person may feel after losing someone they cared about. The first verse describes a peaceful evening of swimming in the moonlight, accompanied by a photograph on the dashboard that turns backwards as they drive. The second verse then begins to reflect on what could have been different if choices were made differently in the past. The chorus then speaks directly to Joey, apologizing for the singer's role in their separation. The final verse poses a series of questions to Joey about his experience after they parted ways, again expressing their regret.


The song is powerful in its emotional honesty, and the imagery of the night swimming and photograph on the dashboard help to illustrate the lingering memories and regrets that can remain after a relationship ends. The singer's apologies to Joey create a sense of catharsis as they attempt to make amends for their actions.


Line by Line Meaning

Night swimming
The act of swimming during the night


Deserves a quiet night
Swimming during the night deserves a peaceful environment


The photograph on the dashboard
A picture placed on the dashboard of a car


Taken years ago
The photograph was captured several years back in time


Turned around backwards so the windshield shows
The photo has been flipped, and the windshield reflects it


Every street light reveals a picture in reverse
When the car is near a streetlight, the photo in the windshield appears in reverse


Still its so much clearer
The flipped photo is brighter and clearer


I forgot my shirt at the waters edge
The singer forgot their shirt near the water


The moon is low tonight
In the night sky, the moon is low and visible


What if I said yes
What if I agreed to something that I'm hesitant about?


What if I'd gone out that night
What if I had left my house that night?


What if you'd turned left
What if you chose another direction?


Everything would've turned out alright
Things would have been better had one decision been made differently


What if I'd spoke up
What if I had expressed myself better?


What'd if I'd took the keys
What if I decided to drive instead?


What if I had tried a little harder instead of always trying to please
What if I had put in more effort instead of always wanting to make others happy?


Joey I'm so sorry
The singer is telling Joey that they are sorry


Ohh can you hear me
The singer is asking if Joey can listen to what they're saying


What if I'd said no
What if I had declined the offer?


What if we'd never fell in love
What if we never had loving feelings for each other?


What if we'd gone slow
What if we took things slow?


Or a little be faster and broken up
What if we had moved too quickly and ended things sooner?


Would I know this hurt
If things were different, would I understand this pain?


Would I feel this pain
If things were different, would I still feel the same level of hurt?


Do you know that with all I have left in my very last breath I will call your name
The singer promises that, even when they're about to die, they will call out Joey's name


Were you sad
When you passed away, were you unhappy?


Were you scared
When you died, were you afraid?


Did you wish for a prayer to be free
Did you ever wish to be free of your problems?


Was it quiet and cold
Was the place where you were found quiet and chilly?


Was it light or too dark to see
What was the lighting like around you when you passed away?


And did you reach for me
Before you died, did you seek me out?




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Bill Berry, Peter Buck, Michael Mills, Michael Stipe

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Comments from YouTube:

@sandradavis1590

My husband didn't turn left and he died. This happened about the time this song came out. I sobbed many, many times while playing this song. Here, 13 years later, I'm still sobbing listening to this song.

@neldaanncox9832

I'm so sorry, that's heart breaking to hear this! I luv this lady,the way she makes anyone feel the passion of the love you once & only felt,knowing it will never happen again! God Bless you 🙏

@davidhampton5494

What a voice, a girl with a very big heart. She means every word, she sings ! Love her.

@debrahabian361

My daughter's best friend, Joey Spicer drowned in the Manistee River in N.W.Lower Michigan. R.I.P.Joey!! You were such a GREAT FRIEND to my daughter, Amy.😇😇😇😇😇✌✌✌✌

@stevesmith5687

To have this much talent! I’m glad she shares it with us and never disappoints!!

@frankmaitland2569

Great Tribute to REM .

@angelalindsey5427

my little brother, Joel Gabe Parnell ( Joey ) drowned at Bryan beach in Freeport, Tx. His body was never found, I listen to this song and my heart fills with such sadness, because I gave him the permission to go with his friends to the beach that night. No one could ever imagine how many times I spoke the words ( Joey I'm so sorry)....

@cathygriffith746

angela lindsey.......I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. BE CAREFUL AND SAFE MY FRIENDS. GOD BLESS YOU.

@take1994

Angela, Your comment is 2 years old and I hope you stumble across this comment at some point. I’m sure you’ve heard this hundreds of times, but your brother’s death was in no way caused by your decision. Accidents happen, little decisions that lead up to the accident will seem like causation in hindsight, but unless you intentionally put your brother in harms way, this is nothing more than accident. Like getting hit by a car crossing the street or choking on a piece of food. If analyzed, there will always be one or more people who made decisions that helped put the individual in the time and place of the accident. If someone dwells on those decisions and feels responsible it’s the brain taking feelings of love and protection for the individual and finding guilt and responsibility in the wake of their loss. The brain always tries to make sense of things, but this is a 2+2=13 scenario. It’s the mind looking for things that aren’t there due to grief. I hope you’re doing well today. Take care.

@angelalindsey5427

@Cathy Griffith thank you.

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