Settlin
Sugarland Lyrics


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Fifteen minutes left to throw me together
For mister right now, not mister forever
Don't know why I even try when I know how it ends
Looking like another: "maybe we could be friends."
I've been leaving it up to fate
It's my life, so it's mine to make

I ain't settling for just getting by
I've had enough so-so for the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high
Just enough ain't enough this time
I ain't settling for anything less than everything, yeah

With some good red wine and my brand new shoes
Gonna dance up a blue streak around my living room
Take a chance on love and try how it feels
With my heart wide open, now you know I will
Find what it means to be the girl
Change her mind and change her world

I ain't settling for just getting by
I've had enough so-so for the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high
Just enough ain't enough this time
I ain't settling for anything less than everything

I ain't settling for just getting by
I've had enough so-so for the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high
Just not giving up this time

I ain't settling for just getting by
I've had enough so-so for the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high
I ain't settling, no, no, no, no, no, no





So raise the bar high

Overall Meaning

"Sugarland's song 'Settlin'' is about a woman who is tired of settling for less in her romantic relationships. She only has fifteen minutes to get ready to meet a man who is not looking for a long-term commitment, but rather a casual fling. Despite the odds, the woman asserts that she is determined not to settle for anything less than love and passion that lasts. The lyrics are about taking control of one's life and not leaving things up to chance. The singer is determined to be the mistress of her own fate and find the kind of love that makes her heart soar, not just settle for mediocre relationships."


The song's first verse, with lines like "Don't know why I even try when I know how it ends" and "Looking like another: 'maybe we could be friends,'" suggest that the woman is used to unsuccessful romantic relationships. She's accepted that her dates start with the idea of seeing her as a friend, hoping it will become something more, but ultimately always ending in disappointment. Sugarland drives home the fact that she's "not settling for just getting by" and that she's "tired of shooting too low" in the chorus, making clear that the woman is determined to find the kind of love that truly sets her heart on fire.


One of the most powerful lines in this song is "I ain't settling for anything less than everything," which speaks to the desire to have it all, rather than just a piece of what one wants in life or love. The song stands as a testament to the idea that settling for less doesn't have to be the norm; that it is okay to strive for the love and happiness that one truly desires.


Line by Line Meaning

Fifteen minutes left to throw me together
Only a little time left to compose myself


For mister right now, not mister forever
For someone to spend time with now, not necessarily forever


Don't know why I even try when I know how it ends
Not understanding why to attempt when there's an obvious conclusion


Looking like another: "maybe we could be friends."
Seeming like another person to simply be friends with


I've been leaving it up to fate
I've been allowing destiny to take charge


It's my life, so it's mine to make
Since it's my life, it's my decisions to create


I ain't settling for just getting by
I'm not happy with barely surviving


I've had enough so-so for the rest of my life
I am not going to put up with mediocracy for the remainder of my life


Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high
I'm tired of not aiming higher, so I must aim higher


Just enough ain't enough this time
It's not enough to have only just enough now


I ain't settling for anything less than everything, yeah
I'm not going to accept anything less than everything I can achieve


With some good red wine and my brand new shoes
With some delicious red wine and my new shoes


Gonna dance up a blue streak around my living room
Going to dance intensely around my living room


Take a chance on love and try how it feels
Attempt to feel love, risking potential consequences


With my heart wide open, now you know I will
I'm going to give it my all, you know that now


Find what it means to be the girl
Discover what it means to be truly me


Change her mind and change her world
Alter my mindset and transform the world around me


Just not giving up this time
I'm just not giving up this time


I ain't settling, no, no, no, no, no, no
I am not settling, not at all


So raise the bar high
Therefore, aim higher and increase the standard




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KRISTIAN BUSH, TIM OWENS, JENNIFER NETTLES

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Comments from YouTube:

MrMister2463

My Uncle produced this video and he was telling me how she is the nicest most humble person he has ever met. that is a true artist

Camellia Christopher

I'm from Texas so you know I love me SUGARLAND IT'S around the corner in my neck of the woods. 👖🐄🐮🤠😎

Dean James

Ya sure he did...

nalinux

I m sure she is a nice person. I'm just afraid about religions.
She's been brain washed.

Daniel Owens

Then he should know Tim Owens the writer. My uncle!!

beking4

Not a fan of the video, but I am of the editing. The budget for the video appears to have been small. The result was good given confines. Jennifer Nettles is amazing. But I would like to hear more about Kristian Bush and Kristen Hall and the roles they played in forming the group, writing songs, etc.

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Alyssia Davis

2022 and I still come back to old Sugarland when I need pick me up music! 💜

James Hancock

2023 and still blasting this great tune.

historyraven

New Year's Eve 2022 and and ringing in 2023 with Sugarland! If you haven't seen her in The Righteous Gemstones, check it out! She 8s great! Happy to know it's not just me dancing a blue streak across my living room! Happy New Year! Here's to 2023🎉🎉

Lori lin Mayol

Me also. I Love Sugarland. Wish they were still together.

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