Handle This
Sum 41 Lyrics


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You said it once before
You don't do those things you used to anymore,
You say in doubt, we're fading out
Forgetting who we used to be.

[Chorus]
Cause I will bring you down,
I don't want to miss, I don't think you can handle this,
You've lost what you can't find, never what you had in mind.

You take it with a smile, it's so easy when you're always in denial,
Just in time, but out of line,
I can't make all the same mistakes you want me to.

[Chorus]

You're giving up, you know it's not what you need,
And it's true what your going through, try so hard not to listen to, everything I never say.

[Chorus]

I'm getting over, getting use to, and after all that I put you through, now I see,
I'm not the only one,




Never thought it would ever come to, this in fact was never what you wanted from me,
Or how you meant it to be

Overall Meaning

The song "Handle This" by Sum 41 is a song about a fading relationship. The lyrics talk about how the two partners in the relationship are losing sight of who they used to be and how they used to feel. The singer is warning his partner that he will bring her down if he has to leave the relationship. He talks about how she's always in denial and refuses to acknowledge what's happening in their relationship, which is a problem. The chorus of the song is about how he doesn't think she can handle the situation, and how she's lost what she can't find.


In the second verse, the singer talks about how his partner takes everything with a smile, even when she's hurting. He mentions that he can't keep making the same mistakes she wants him to make, indicating that he's trying to save the relationship but she's not reciprocating. The chorus repeats again, but with more emphasis on the fact that he doesn't think she can handle the situation.


In the final verse, the singer talks about how his partner is giving up on the relationship, and how he knows it's not what she needs. However, he also acknowledges that he's not the only one at fault and that he never thought it would come to this. The song is a powerful reflection on the difficulties of maintaining a relationship and the importance of being honest with yourself and your partner about how you feel.


Line by Line Meaning

You said it once before
You previously expressed that you no longer engage in the same behaviors as you did in the past


You don't do those things you used to anymore
You no longer participate in certain actions that you once did


You say in doubt, we're fading out
You express uncertainty about our relationship deteriorating


Forgetting who we used to be.
We are losing touch with our former selves and how we used to interact with each other


Cause I will bring you down,
I am a destructive force in your life and will cause you harm


I don't want to miss, I don't think you can handle this,
I am certain that you cannot handle the consequences of my actions


You've lost what you can't find, never what you had in mind.
You have lost something valuable that you cannot locate, even though it was not your original intention


You take it with a smile, it's so easy when you're always in denial,
You appear to be content, but you are actually in denial about the true state of our relationship


Just in time, but out of line,
You have arrived at a critical juncture, but it is not aligned with where you should be


I can't make all the same mistakes you want me to.
I refuse to continue repeating the same errors that you expect me to make


You're giving up, you know it's not what you need,
You are quitting on us, although that is not what is best for you


And it's true what your going through, try so hard not to listen to, everything I never say.
You are experiencing a genuine ordeal, but I struggle to articulate my emotions to you


I'm getting over, getting use to, and after all that I put you through, now I see,
I am learning to overcome my issues and adapt, and I am appreciative of the challenges you have endured for me


I'm not the only one,
I am not the sole cause of our relationship issues


Never thought it would ever come to, this in fact was never what you wanted from me,
I never anticipated that things would turn out like this, and it is not what you originally desired from me


Or how you meant it to be
Our relationship was not supposed to be like this




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DERYCK WHIBLEY

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