Can't Say No
Sweet Water Lyrics
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(Sweet Water)
Well I stood in the mirror
And would stare for hours
But I didn't like what I would see
Guess I'm getting sick of trying to please
And I'm just dying to get free
'Cause it sure feels strangeWhen you realize all your friends are gonna leave you
Guess my ties are bound way, way too tight
I got no time left, I've got no time left for me
I said 'yesterday I saw my face on the television screen'
My little brother said 'well, you took my place'
My mother tried to scrub me clean
If you want ot save yourself, don't try to live with me
'Cause I know castles will fall down
Tumblin' to the sea
'Cause I'm everybody's 'can't say no'
I'm everybody's new toy
Yes I'm everybody's 'will you please?'
To everybody, 'I can't get rid of you'
I can't get rid of you
I can't get rid of you
I can't get rid of you
Rid of you
Rid of you
Rid of you, rid of you, rid of you
Rid of you, rid of you, rid of you
The song "Can't Say No" by Sweet Water is a reflective song about feeling trapped and suffocated by the expectations and demands of others. The lyrics are a self-reflection of the singer, who spends countless hours staring in the mirror, but struggles to find anything he likes about himself. He feels the pressure to be a people-pleaser as he laments that his ties are bound too tight, indicating that he feels trapped and unable to break free from the bind that he has created for himself.
The singer expresses his frustrations with how he has become everyone's "new toy," as he is constantly at the beck and call of others, unable to say no to their requests or demands. He is everybody's "will you please," indicating that he is tired of always having to sacrifice his own wants and needs to accommodate others. He recognizes that his ties are bound too tight, and that he needs to break free from them, but he also acknowledges that it will be difficult to do so, as castles will fall down, tumbling into the sea.
Overall, the lyrics of the song speak to the universal theme of feeling stuck, suffocated, and trapped, and the struggle to break free from expectations and demands of others.
Line by Line Meaning
Well I stood in the mirror
I spent hours looking at myself in the mirror
And would stare for hours
I would gaze at my reflection for a very long time
But I didn't like what I would see
However, I did not like what I saw
Guess I'm getting sick of trying to please
I am tired of trying to make others happy
And I'm just dying to get free
I really want freedom
'Cause it sure feels strange
It definitely feels weird
When you realize all your friends are gonna leave you
When you understand that your friends will eventually abandon you
Guess my ties are bound way, way too tight
I am constrained by restrictions that are extremely limiting
I got no time left, I've got no time left for me
I have no time for myself anymore
I said 'yesterday I saw my face on the television screen'
I saw myself on TV yesterday
My little brother said 'well, you took my place'
My younger brother remarked that I had usurped his position
My mother tried to scrub me clean
My mother attempted to clean me up
If you want ot save yourself, don't try to live with me
Staying with me will not be beneficial for your well-being
'Cause I know castles will fall down
I understand that everything has its limits and will ultimately end
Tumblin' to the sea
Everything is heading for destruction and ruin
'Cause I'm everybody's 'can't say no'
I am known for being unable to refuse anyone
I'm everybody's new toy
I am used and discarded like a mere plaything
Yes I'm everybody's 'will you please?'
Everyone expects me to constantly comply with their wishes
To everybody, 'I can't get rid of you'
I cannot shake off the people who are always around me
I can't get rid of you
I am unable to remove you from my life
I can't get rid of you
I am incapable of distancing myself from you
I can't get rid of you
I cannot rid myself of you
Rid of you
I want to be free of you
Rid of you
I need to get away from you
Rid of you, rid of you, rid of you
I need to escape from you, over and over again
Contributed by Nora J. Suggest a correction in the comments below.