Over And Over
Sylvester Lyrics


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Over and over, time and time again
You can't be nobody's lover
You can't be nobody's lover
Til you're somebody's friend

Over and over, time and time again
Over and over and over, time and time again
You can't be nobody's lover
You can't be nobody's lover
Til you're somebody's friend, ah baby

I love you (well, well...), to me you're a shining star
First you gotta find out (yeah, yeah, yeah)
Just who you really are
And you can't be nobody's lover
You can't be nobody's lover
Til you're somebody's friend

You can't be (nobody's lover)
Nobody's lover (be nobody's lover)
Til you're somebody's friend
(Well, well, well, well...)

Over and over, time and time again
Over and over, well, time and time again
You can't be nobody's lover
Nobody's lover (be nobody's lover)
Til you're somebody's friend
And you can't be nobody's lover
Nobody's lover (be nobody's lover)
Til you're... (somebody's friend) somebody's friend
(Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend, yeah)

(Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend
Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend)

Do-do-do-do, do-do-do-do
Do-do-do-do, do-do-do-do
Do-do-do-do, do-do-do-do
Do-do-do-do, do-do-do-do...

Find yourself a friend
Go out and find yourself a friend
Go out and find yourself a friend
You're my friend, you're my friend
Go out and find yourself a friend
Go out and find yourself a friend
You're my friend, you're my friend

Remember, you can't be nobody's lover
Until you're somebody's friend, woo-hoo
Find yourself a friend, find yourself a friend
Find yourself a friend
Makes no difference what shape you're in
Makes no difference what shape you're in

Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend
Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend




Be nobody's lover, be nobody's lover
Somebody's friend...

Overall Meaning

The song "Over and Over" by Sylvester conveys the message that it is impossible to be someone's lover without first being their friend. The lyrics repeat this statement, emphasizing the importance of building a strong foundation of friendship before pursuing a romantic relationship. The lyrics also suggest that it is necessary to understand and accept oneself in order to truly connect with others. The line "First you gotta find out just who you really are" emphasizes the importance of self-discovery in forming healthy relationships.


The repetition of the lines "over and over, time and time again" creates a sense of persistence and determination in the message. It suggests that building a deep and meaningful friendship is not something that can be rushed, but rather a process that requires time and patience. The song ends with an encouraging message to "find yourself a friend" no matter what shape you're in, emphasizing the idea that a true friend will accept you for who you are.


Line by Line Meaning

Over and over, time and time again
Repeatedly, again and again


You can't be nobody's lover
You cannot be in a romantic relationship


You can't be nobody's lover
You cannot be in a romantic relationship


Til you're somebody's friend
Until you establish a strong friendship first


I love you (well, well...), to me you're a shining star
I have romantic feelings for you and hold you in high esteem


First you gotta find out (yeah, yeah, yeah)
Before entering a relationship, you must discover who you are


Just who you really are
Your true identity and values


And you can't be nobody's lover
You cannot be in a romantic relationship


You can't be nobody's lover
You cannot be in a romantic relationship


Til you're somebody's friend
Until you establish a strong friendship first


Over and over, time and time again
Repeatedly, again and again


You can't be nobody's lover
You cannot be in a romantic relationship


Nobody's lover (be nobody's lover)
Being single and unfocused on romance


Til you're somebody's friend
Until you establish a strong friendship first


Find yourself a friend
Create a meaningful friendship


Go out and find yourself a friend
Actively seek out relationships with others


Makes no difference what shape you're in
It doesn't matter what state you are in, mentally or physically




Writer(s): Ashford Nickolas, Simpson Valerie

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@user-pp1on4fk7d

This record always gives me chills, greatest disco record ever made, so raw!❀

@Musicfiend4ever

An early Sunday morning favorite at the Paradise Garage N.Y.C. Words cannot express how awesome the whole club atmosphere was back in the day. This track truly expressed one of the many musical aspects that defined the spirit at the Paradise Garage during that particular time. You had to have been there to understand. Thank goodness, I was blessed to experience it in it's "Golden Days" Mad respect to Sylvester! Everytime I hear this ..I miss that place and time! Truly No words!

@michaelc.gonsalves544

The Garage was a very special place. Songs like this made kinda like church where as you could free your soul and get lost in the music especially dancing on the roof under the stars. Long live the Paradise Garage and Larry Levan !

@Musicfiend4ever

Yeah. That roof was the bomb! Miss that Garage madly. You know!

@dhruvakumar3212

you're so lucky to experience that era !

@Swoop2565

Music fiend thanks for reminding that this was an early morning staple at the Garage when the crowd was starting to dwindle down.. ( I jus got my coat
outta coat check…@ 6am..rush back to the dance floor for this departing anthem!!)..lolπŸ˜‚ β€πŸ†

@BERNARDO712

I was never at the club on Sunday mornings.

Only Sat mornings

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@antonigeli294

How did Nick and Valerie reached this level of perfection highlighted by great "diva" voices and sublim arrangements (eg guitar). I love this version

@TonyFaulcon-sq9bf

Amazing πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰β€β€

@FonkyB

I will never get enough of this song! I ve been listenning to it for at least 28 years

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