Take Me To The River
Talking Heads Lyrics


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I don't know why I love her like I do
All the changes you put me through
Take my money, my cigarettes
I haven't seen the worst of it yet
I want to know that you'll tell me
I love to stay
Take me to the river, drop me in the water
Take me to the river, dip me in the water
Washing me down, washing me down

I don't know why you treat me so bad
Think of all the things we could have had
Love is an ocean that I can't forget
My sweet sixteen I would never regret

I want to know that you'll tell me
I love to stay
Take me to the river, drop me in the water
Push me in the river, dip me in the water
Washing me down, washing me

Hug me, squeeze me, love me, tease me
'Til I can't, 'til I can't, 'til I can't take no more of it
Take me to the water, drop me in the river
Push me in the water, drop me in the river
Washing me down, washing me down

I don't know why I love you like I do
All the troubles you put me through
Sixteen candles there on my wall
And here am I the biggest fool of them all

I want to know that you'll tell me
I love to stay
Take me to the river and drop me in the water




Dip me in the river, drop me in the water
Washing me down, washing me down

Overall Meaning

The Talking Heads' "Take Me to the River" is a song about a dysfunctional relationship. At its core, the song is a plea from the singer to their lover to either treat them better or to just end the relationship. The singer is confused, unsure why they "love her like I do," despite all the "changes you put me through" -- seemingly endless emotional ups and downs. The singer has given everything they have to the relationship, as seen in the line "Take my money, my cigarettes," yet still hasn't seen the worst of it yet.


The imagery of "Take me to the river, drop me in the water" is one of rebirth and renewal. The singer has reached their breaking point and wants to be cleansed of all the hurt and pain they've been put through. They're asking their lover to take them to the river and wash them down, ridding them of all the negative emotions that they've been carrying around. The repeated line "I want to know that you'll tell me I love to stay" highlights this confusion and self-doubt, as the singer doesn't know if they truly want to stay in the relationship or not.


One interpretation of the song is that it's a commentary on consumerism and the idea of disposable relationships. The line "Take my money, my cigarettes" could represent the idea that the singer is willing to give up everything for this relationship, even if it's ultimately detrimental to them. The repeated line "washing me down" could also represent the cleansing nature of buying new things -- the idea that we can wash away our problems and feelings with the purchase of a new item.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know why I love her like I do
The singer is confused about why they love someone who treats them badly.


All the changes you put me through
Their love interest has caused a lot of upheaval and uncertainty in the singer's life.


Take my money, my cigarettes
The singer's partner has consumed their resources and time.


I haven't seen the worst of it yet
There may be even more mistreatment or hardships to come.


I want to know that you'll tell me
The artist desires honesty and openness from their partner.


I love to stay
Despite the difficulties, the singer enjoys being with their love interest.


Take me to the river, drop me in the water
The singer wants to be washed clean of the problems and pain caused by their relationship.


Take me to the river, dip me in the water
The artist is willing to take drastic measures to be cleansed of their troubles.


Washing me down, washing me down
The cleansing process is seen as fundamental to the healing of the artist.


I don't know why you treat me so bad
The artist is struggling to understand the cruelty of their partner.


Think of all the things we could have had
The singer knows that there was potential for a good relationship, but it didn't work out.


Love is an ocean that I can't forget
Despite the pain, the artist cannot 'forget' their love - the emotional attachment runs deep.


My sweet sixteen I would never regret
The singer is referencing a past event that is significant, and in no way regrets the person they were during that time.


Hug me, squeeze me, love me, tease me
Describes the desire for physical closeness and affection from the love interest.


'Til I can't, 'til I can't, 'til I can't take no more of it
The singer will happily accept all the love until they are completely unable to handle any more of it.


Take me to the water, drop me in the river
Repeats the want to be rinsed clean of the relationship's pain.


Push me in the water, drop me in the river
Expresses desperation - the artist is willing to be physically forced into the water for their own good.


Washing me down, washing me down
Reinforces the fact that this cleansing is necessary for the singer's mental health.


I don't know why I love you like I do
Echoes an earlier line, expressing confusion as to why the singer loves someone who causes them so much pain.


All the troubles you put me through
Repeats a sentiment from earlier, indicating that the artist hasn't forgotten how much their partner has hurt them.


Sixteen candles there on my wall
Referencing the artist's sweet sixteen, a time of innocence and celebration, which juxtaposes the current situation which has caused great pain and discomfort.


And here am I the biggest fool of them all
The artist knows they've made mistakes by staying with their partner, and are willing to accept that in retrospect, they made the wrong choice.


Take me to the river and drop me in the water
Final repeating of the central image of the song. The singer desires a cleansing of themselves and their emotional pain.


Dip me in the river, drop me in the water
This phrasing is used for the last time, again emphasizing the depth of pain and the cleansing ritual that needs to be enacted.


Washing me down, washing me down
Final reinforced sentiment - the only hope for catharsis is to be freed of the pain the relationship has caused them.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Al Green, Mabon Hodges

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