you broke me first
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(You broke me first, oh)

Maybe you don't like talking too much about yourself
But you should've told me that you were thinkin' 'bout someone else
You're drunk at a party or maybe it's just that your car broke down
Your phone's been off for a couple months, so you're calling me now

I know you, you're like this
When shit don't go your way you needed me to fix it
And like me, I did
But I ran out of every reason

Now suddenly you're asking for it back
Could you tell me, where'd you get the nerve?
Yeah, you could say you miss all that we had
But I don't really care how bad it hurts
When you broke me first
You broke me first

Took a while, was in denial when I first heard
That you moved on quicker than I could've ever, you know that hurt
Swear for a while I would stare at my phone just to see your name
But now that it's there, I don't really know what to say

I know you, you're like this
When shit don't go your way you needed me to fix it
And like me, I did
But I ran out of every reason

Now suddenly you're asking for it back
Could you tell me, where'd you get the nerve?
Yeah, you could say you miss all that we had
But I don't really care how bad it hurts
When you broke me first
You broke me first

What did you think would happen?
What did you think would happen?
I'll never let you have it
What did you think would happen?

Now suddenly you're asking for it back
Could you tell me, where'd you get the nerve?
Yeah, you could say you miss all that we had
But I don't really care how bad it hurts
When you broke me first
You broke me first




(You broke me first)
You broke me first, oh

Overall Meaning

Tate McRae's song "you broke me first" is a song about heartbreak and the aftermath of a failed relationship. The song starts with McRae addressing her ex, who had not been forthcoming about his feelings towards her. Perhaps he was seeing someone else or had been unfaithful. She goes on to describe how she fixed everything when things didn't go his way but eventually ran out of reasons to do so. Now her ex is back, asking for the relationship again after breaking her heart. McRae proceeds to ask her ex questions about his motives as she tries to figure out why he should have their relationship back.


The chorus of "you broke me first" echoes McRae's frustration and hurt caused by her ex-partner. She had denied the fact that her relationship was over and continued to linger on by staring at her phone waiting for his call. The lyrics of the song suggest that McRae has now accepted the fact that their relationship is over and there is nothing left to mend.


Line by Line Meaning

Maybe you don't like talking too much about yourself
You have a tendency to not open up about your feelings


But you should've told me that you were thinkin' 'bout someone else
You should have told me that you were considering being with another person


You're drunk at a party or maybe it's just that your car broke down
You may have been intoxicated at a social gathering or your vehicle was in need of repair


Your phone's been off for a couple months, so you're calling me now
You had not been reachable for several months and are now trying to contact me


I know you, you're like this
I am familiar with your behavioral patterns


When shit don't go your way you needed me to fix it
In times of trouble, you relied on me for solutions


And like me, I did
I managed to solve your problems before


But I ran out of every reason
Unfortunately, I have used all my ideas and have none left to offer


Now suddenly you're asking for it back
Out of nowhere, you are requesting something from me


Could you tell me, where'd you get the nerve?
How do you have the audacity to make such a demand?


Yeah, you could say you miss all that we had
It's possible that you long for the old memories we shared


But I don't really care how bad it hurts
Regardless of your feelings, I am not sympathetic to your pain


When you broke me first
You inflicted pain on me before, causing this situation


Took a while, was in denial when I first heard
It took some time for me to come to terms with hearing about your new relationship


That you moved on quicker than I could've ever, you know that hurt
It stung hearing that you were able to move on faster than I could


Swear for a while I would stare at my phone just to see your name
I admit that I used to look at my phone hoping to see a message from you


But now that it's there, I don't really know what to say
Now that you have reached out, I am unsure of how to respond


What did you think would happen?
What result did you expect from your actions?


I'll never let you have it
I will refuse to let you have what you are asking for


(You broke me first)
(You are the one who caused my emotional distress)


You broke me first, oh
You were the one who hurt me before anyone else did




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Blake Preston Harnage, Tate McRae, Victoria Riann Zaro

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ミスvio

my ears and heart are blessed. my brain is relaxed. TYSM TATE.

Christine

I couldn't have said it any better. It's been on repeat. 💛🌻

ミスvio

@72bpm can i give some feedback? The background music is pretty make the tune of the song a bit more vibe-y. I like it so much! keep up

72bpm

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ミスvio

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Reena Srivastava

My daughter did a cover of you broke me first and I hope you will listen to it
here's the link: https://youtu.be/bhP2hxfvUw8

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oishiki

she doesnt even need autotune

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Ye 😀

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Autotune needs her

Shreya Gupta

Agreeed

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