All You Had to Do Was Stay
Taylor Lyrics


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(Hey hey hey)
(Hey hey hey)
(Hey hey hey)
(Hey hey hey)
People like you always want back the love they gave away
And people like me wanna believe you when you say you've changed
The more I think about it now the less I know
All I know is that you drove us off the road

Stay, hey, all you had to do was stay
Had me in the palm of your hand
Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Back now that it's just too late
Well could've been easy
All you had to do was stay

All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay

Here you are now, calling me up, but I don't know what to say
I've been picking up the pieces of the mess you made
People like you always want back the love they pushed aside
But people like me are gone forever when you say goodbye

Stay, hey, all you had to do was stay
Had me in the palm of your hand
Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Back now that it's just too late
Well could've been easy
All you had to do was stay

All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay (stay, stay, stay)

Let me remind you this was what you wanted (oh oh oh)
You ended it
You were all I wanted (oh oh oh)
But not like this
Not like this
Not like this
Oh, all you had to do was stay

Hey, all you had to do was stay
Had me in the palm of your hand
Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Back now that it's just too late
Well could've been easy
All you had to do was stay

Hey, all you had to do was stay
Had me in the palm of your hand
Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Back now that it's just too late
Well could've been easy (all you had to do was stay)
All you had to do was stay

All you had to do was stay (oh)
All you had to do was stay




All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay (ooh)

Overall Meaning

In "All You Had to Do Was Stay," Taylor Swift sings about a past romantic relationship that ended due to the actions of her partner. The song talks about how people like her ex-partner often want the love they gave away back, while people like her want to believe that they have changed for the better. The chorus repeats the phrase, "All you had to do was stay," suggesting that the relationship could have been saved if her partner had only stayed and not given up.


The lyrics also explore the aftermath of the breakup, with Taylor admitting that she doesn't know what to say when her ex tries to reach out to her. She acknowledges that people like her partner often want back the love they pushed aside, but for someone like her, the situation is entirely different. The song ends with her repeating the now-famous chorus, emphasizing the regret that her partner must feel for giving up on their relationship.


Overall, "All You Had to Do Was Stay" is a relatable song for anyone who has been in a failed relationship or wishes that things had turned out differently with a past partner.


Line by Line Meaning

(Hey hey hey)
Repetitive chorus-like introduction to the song


People like you always want back the love they gave away
People who give love and then take it away always want it back


And people like me wanna believe you when you say you've changed
People who are hurt by those who take love away want to believe they can change


The more I think about it now the less I know
The more I reflect on what happened, the less sure I am of what went wrong


All I know is that you drove us off the road
All I know is that you caused the end of our relationship


Stay, hey, all you had to do was stay
Please stay, it was so simple to make this work


Had me in the palm of your hand
I was completely under your control


Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Why did you abandon me when I trusted you?


Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Now you say you want me and our relationship back


Back now that it's just too late
But it's too late now, the damage is done


Well could've been easy
Our relationship could have been easy and uncomplicated


All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us


Here you are now, calling me up, but I don't know what to say
You're reaching out to me now, but I'm not sure how to respond


I've been picking up the pieces of the mess you made
I am trying to repair the damage you caused


People like you always want back the love they pushed aside
Those who pushed aside love always want it back


But people like me are gone forever when you say goodbye
But people like me leave for good when you end things


Let me remind you this was what you wanted (oh oh oh)
Let me remind you that ending things was your choice


You ended it
You made the decision to end our relationship


You were all I wanted (oh oh oh)
You were the person I wanted to be with


But not like this
But not in a way that would hurt me so much


All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us


Had me in the palm of your hand
I was completely under your control


Then, why'd you had to go and lock me out when I let you in
Why did you abandon me when I trusted you?


Stay, hey, now you say you want it
Now you say you want me and our relationship back


Back now that it's just too late
But it's too late now, the damage is done


Well could've been easy (all you had to do was stay)
Our relationship could have been easy and uncomplicated, but you chose to leave


All you had to do was stay (oh)
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us


All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us


All you had to do was stay
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us


All you had to do was stay (ooh)
All you had to do was stay and be committed to us




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: TAYLOR SWIFT, MAX MARTIN

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