Brought Up That Way
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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Emily comes home from school,
Grabs onto her daddy's hand,
He says "baby girl what's wrong with you?"
She says "please don't make me go back there again"

She said "I wish there was some way
To make them stop it"
So he drives down to
That principle's ofice and says

"I didn't bring her up
So they could cut her down
I didn't bring her here
So they could shut her out
I live my whole damn life
To see that little girl's smile
So why are tears pouring down
That sweet face?
She wasn't brought up that way"

Emily's home late again
He sees that boy drive away
Oh, but something different this time,
She doesn't have too much to say
She said "he tried but
There's just some things I won't do"
And through the tears
She said "I couldn't do that to you"
And he said

"I didn't bring you up

So he could wear
You down
Take that innocent heart
And turn it inside out
I live my whole damn life
To see my little girl's smile
So don't let nobody take that away,
You weren't brought up that way"

The phone rings on a rainy night
Says "it's Officer Tate"
He said "sir, there's been an accident,
You better come down here right away,
A drunken driver missed an overpass,
And Emily, she's fading fast"
He says "God,I didn't bring her up
To watch them lay her down
Nearly killed me the day
They put her
Momma in the ground
Only thing that kept me alive,
Was that little girl's smile
So please don't take that away,
I won't be easy taking her today,
She wasn't brought up that way"





He stands over the hospital bed
Emily opens her eyes

Overall Meaning

Brought Up That Way is a poignant song that tells the story of Emily, a young girl who is being bullied at school. Emily's father is heartbroken to see her daughter crying after school and takes her to see the principal. The father is determined to make them stop bullying his daughter. The father expresses the love he has for his daughter and how he wants to see her smile again. In the next verse of the song, Emily comes home late and tells her father that she refused to do something that the boy wanted. Emily's father tells her how proud he is of her and reminds her that she was not brought up that way. The song's final verse is emotional, as Emily's father is called to the hospital where his daughter lies in critical condition after an accident caused by a drunken driver. In his sorrow, the father tells Emily that he did not bring her up to watch them lay her down. He keeps remembering the little girl's smile that saved him from the pain he felt after his wife died. Emily's father is grateful for the moments he spent with his daughter and is upset to see her leave too soon.


The song is quite emotional and talks about the importance of family love, and being grounded in values. It is a message to young girls that they should never lose themselves trying to please others or compromise their values. Some possible interpretations of this song could be about the importance of love and support in a family, the dangers of peer pressure, the fear of failure, and the need for self-esteem.


Line by Line Meaning

Emily comes home from school,
Emily returns home from school.


Grabs onto her daddy's hand,
Emily holds her father's hand tightly.


He says "baby girl what's wrong with you?"
Her father asks Emily what is bothering her.


She says "please don't make me go back there again"
Emily pleads with her father not to make her go back to school.


She said "I wish there was some way
Emily expresses her desire to find a way


To make them stop it"
to stop those who are bothering her at school.


So he drives down to
Her father immediately drives to


That principle's ofice and says
The principal's office to confront someone.


"I didn't bring her up
He didn't raise her daughter


So they could cut her down
to be subjected to the cruelty of others.


I didn't bring her here
He did not bring her into this world


So they could shut her out
to be excluded by others.


I live my whole damn life
He dedicated his entire life


To see that little girl's smile
to ensure the happiness of his daughter.


So why are tears pouring down
He wonders why his daughter is crying


That sweet face?
because he wants to protect her from everything.


She wasn't brought up that way"
He raised her to be different, to aspire to become a better human being.


Emily's home late again
Emily is late coming home again.


He sees that boy drive away
Her father sees that her daughter's boyfriend is leaving.


Oh, but something different this time,
But something seems different this time


She doesn't have too much to say
Emily doesn't say much.


She said "he tried but
Emily says that although her boyfriend tried,


There's just some things I won't do"
there are limitations to what she is willing to do.


And through the tears
Despite crying


She said "I couldn't do that to you"
she could not do anything that would disappoint her father.


And he said
Her father responded


"I didn't bring you up
He raised Emily


So he could wear
so that no one could crush her spirit


You down
make her feel worthless


Take that innocent heart
Her father raised her to have a pure heart,


And turn it inside out
not to let others ruin her inner goodness.


I live my whole damn life
He has lived his entire life


To see my little girl's smile
to make sure that his daughter is happy.


So don't let nobody take that away,
Therefore, no one can steal her happiness.


You weren't brought up that way"
because he raised her to be different, to strive for success and happiness.


The phone rings on a rainy night
The phone rings one rainy night.


Says "it's Officer Tate"
Officer Tate tells him the news


He said "sir, there's been an accident,
that there was an accident


You better come down here right away,
He should come down as soon as possible.


A drunken driver missed an overpass,
Emily was hit by a drunk driver who missed overpass,


And Emily, she's fading fast"
and she is dying quickly.


He says "God,I didn't bring her up
The father said, 'I didn't raise her'


To watch them lay her down
to lay her down in a coffin


Nearly killed me the day
The day my wife died


They put her
She was put


Momma in the ground
in the grave next to Emily's


Only thing that kept me alive,
The reason why he is still alive


Was that little girl's smile
because of the happiness that Emily brings him.


So please don't take that away,
Therefore, do not steal her happiness.


I won't be easy taking her today,
Taking Emily from him will be difficult.


She wasn't brought up that way"
He raised Emily with the moral values that helped her become the best version of herself.


He stands over the hospital bed
He is standing by Emily's hospital bed


Emily opens her eyes
Emily wakes up.




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Lyrics
Verse 1]
Emily comes home from school
Grabs onto her daddy’s hand
He says “Baby girl, what’s wrong with you?”
She says “Please don’t make me go back there again”
She said “I wish there was some way to make them stop it”
So he drives down to that principal’s office and says

[Chorus 1]
“I didn’t bring her up so they could cut her down
I didn’t bring her here so they could shut her out
I live my whole damn life to see that little girl’s smile
So why are tears pouring down that sweet face?
She wasn’t brought up that way”

[Verse 2]
Emily’s home late again
He sees that boy drive away
Oh, but something’s different this time
She doesn’t have too much to say
She said “He tried but there’s just some things I won’t do”
And through the tears she said “I couldn’t do that to you”
And he said

[Chorus 2]
“I didn’t bring you up so he could wear you down
Take that innocent heart and turn it inside out
I live my whole damn life to see my little girl’s smile
So don’t let nobody take that away
You weren’t brought up that way”

[Verse 3]
The phone rings on a rainy night, says “It’s Officer Tate”
He said “Sir, there’s been an accident
You better come down here right away
A drunken driver missed an overpass
And Emily, she’s fading fast”

[Chorus 3]
He says “God, I didn’t bring her up to watch them lay her down
Nearly killed me the day they put her own momma in the ground
Only thing that kept me alive was that little girl’s smile
So please don’t take that away, it won’t be easy taking her today
She wasn’t brought up that way”

[Outro]
He stands over the hospital bed
Emily opens her eyes



All comments from YouTube:

@daviv

her best unreleased from that era.. she needs to release this

@EverythingSwift13

I need this on debut tv

@rileyb2148

actually started balling my eyes out thank you for this 😅😭

@EverythingSwift13

Of course. Enjoy❤

@ameliadavis1979

I love this! Thank you

@MiahTaylorsVersion

Lyrics
Verse 1]
Emily comes home from school
Grabs onto her daddy’s hand
He says “Baby girl, what’s wrong with you?”
She says “Please don’t make me go back there again”
She said “I wish there was some way to make them stop it”
So he drives down to that principal’s office and says

[Chorus 1]
“I didn’t bring her up so they could cut her down
I didn’t bring her here so they could shut her out
I live my whole damn life to see that little girl’s smile
So why are tears pouring down that sweet face?
She wasn’t brought up that way”

[Verse 2]
Emily’s home late again
He sees that boy drive away
Oh, but something’s different this time
She doesn’t have too much to say
She said “He tried but there’s just some things I won’t do”
And through the tears she said “I couldn’t do that to you”
And he said

[Chorus 2]
“I didn’t bring you up so he could wear you down
Take that innocent heart and turn it inside out
I live my whole damn life to see my little girl’s smile
So don’t let nobody take that away
You weren’t brought up that way”

[Verse 3]
The phone rings on a rainy night, says “It’s Officer Tate”
He said “Sir, there’s been an accident
You better come down here right away
A drunken driver missed an overpass
And Emily, she’s fading fast”

[Chorus 3]
He says “God, I didn’t bring her up to watch them lay her down
Nearly killed me the day they put her own momma in the ground
Only thing that kept me alive was that little girl’s smile
So please don’t take that away, it won’t be easy taking her today
She wasn’t brought up that way”

[Outro]
He stands over the hospital bed
Emily opens her eyes

@Ninjamaus2

Omg I just started crying god damn this song is so deep

@Zeano2288

soo good

@bridgette_tdi

this sounds like a mix of white horse and tim mcgraw

@EverythingSwift13

it hits home for the ones who got left out in school 💔

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