Cold as you are
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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You have a way of coming easily to me
And when you take, you take the very best of me
So I start a fight 'cause I need to feel somethin'
And you do what you want 'cause I'm not what you wanted

Oh, what a shame
What a rainy ending given to a perfect day
Just walk away
Ain't no use defending words that you will never say
And now that I'm sittin' here thinkin' it through
I've never been anywhere cold as you

You put up the walls and paint them all a shade of gray
And I stood there loving you, and wished them all away
And you come away with a great little story
Of a mess of a dreamer with the nerve to adore you

Oh, what a shame
What a rainy ending given to a perfect day
Just walk away
Ain't no use defending words that you will never say
And now that I'm sittin' here thinkin' it through
I've never been anywhere cold as you

You never did give a damn thing, honey
But I cried, cried for you
And I know you wouldn't have told nobody if I died, died for you
Died for you

Oh, what a shame
What a rainy ending given to a perfect day
Oh, every smile you fake is so condescending
Countin' all the scars you've made




Now that I'm sittin' here thinkin' it through
I've never been anywhere cold as you

Overall Meaning

" Cold as You " is a song about a relationship that has ended because one partner, who is emotionally unavailable, decides to put walls up and cut off communication, while the other partner still loves them deeply. Taylor Swift describes feeling emotional pain when the one she loves refuses to love her back, and instead puts up barriers between them. Swift's character is willing to fight with her partner, prompting a reaction out of him or her, rather than have him or her ignore her.


The verses suggest that the other person is successful at pushing Swift away, saying "when you take, you take the very best of me." The chorus adds a dash of bitterness, with Swift insisting that he or she was never there for her anyway, saying "You never did give a damn thing, honey/ But I cried, cried for you/ And I know you wouldn't have told nobody if I died, died for you/ Died for you." The song is Swift's attempt to get over the emotional pain caused by the breakup and to move on.


Overall, "Cold as You" portrays the heartbreakingly familiar and painful struggle of loving someone who can't, or won't, love you back. Swift's powerful lyrics and emotive vocals resonate with listeners who have experienced similar situations themselves, making "Cold as You" one of her most memorable and emotive songs.


Line by Line Meaning

You have a way of coming easily to me
You have a way of winning me over easily, effortlessly.


And when you take, you take the very best of me
When you take from me, you take the very essence of me, leaving me drained.


So I start a fight 'cause I need to feel somethin'
I start a fight with you because I need to feel alive and invigorated.


And you do what you want 'cause I'm not what you wanted
You do what you want with me because I'm not the person you truly desire.


Oh, what a shame What a rainy ending given to a perfect day Just walk away Ain't no use defending words that you will never say And now that I'm sittin' here thinkin' it through I've never been anywhere cold as you
You walk away from me, leaving me with a shattered perfect day, and it's pointless to argue since you'll never express your true emotions. Now that I reflect on our relationship, I realize that I've never been anywhere as emotionally frigid as I've been with you.


You put up the walls and paint them all a shade of gray And I stood there loving you, and wished them all away And you come away with a great little story Of a mess of a dreamer with the nerve to adore you
You build walls around yourself and make everything dull and uninteresting, but I still love you and wish to tear them down. You leave with a story of a blundering dreamer who had the courage to love you.


You never did give a damn thing, honey But I cried, cried for you And I know you wouldn't have told nobody if I died, died for you Died for you
You never gave me anything to care about, yet I still cried for you, and I know you would never tell anyone if I died for you.


Oh, what a shame What a rainy ending given to a perfect day Oh, every smile you fake is so condescending Countin' all the scars you've made Now that I'm sittin' here thinkin' it through I've never been anywhere cold as you
It's a shame that a perfect day ended in such a terrible manner. Your insincere smile is condescending, and I count all the emotional scars you've inflicted. As I think it through, I realize that nowhere have I been as cold as with you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Anthem Entertainment
Written by: LIZ ROSE, TAYLOR SWIFT

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@prabirpal2134

My favorite TSwift song from every album(that you will never agree with) :

1. Cold as you
2. Breathe
3. Haunted
4. I almost do
5. How you get the girl
6. Look what you made me do
7. Afterglow
8. Epiphany

🤣it's only my opinion.



All comments from YouTube:

@cupcakequeen0617

Who else thinks she was ahead of her time with this song? I feel like lyrically, this song could be on one of her later albums.

@AliviaHaven

Oh for sure. This practically BELONGS on red

@covermewithlove7349

so true imagine shes 15 when she writes this

@Lavenderhaze31

"You do what you want cause I'm not what you wanted" hits me really hard 😔

@pumkinjade5349

You are beautiful and strong. No man is worth feeling less than yourself.

@blakestylinson5246

@Pumkin Jade needed this

@clarevela8181

Same

@denisepoirer7411

Yes. He could never treat his wife like his slut slave. So he chose me at 18

@mightymouse1531

I just said that to him it tears me apart inside 💔

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@SC-gf9vr

this descibes a very toxic love, especially when you havent been anymore cold as that person. damn taylor. how could she write a song like this, so well, at her age. she is a genius. this is why she is one of the best, if not best song writers of our generation.

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