How Did It End
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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(Uh-oh)
(Uh-oh-oh-oh)

We hereby conduct this post-mortem
He was a hot house flower to my outdoorsmen
Our maladies were such we could not cure them
And so a touch that was my birthright became foreign
Come one, come all
It's happenin' again
The empathetic hunger descends
We'll tell no one
Except all of our friends
We must know
How did it end?
(Uh-oh)
(Uh-oh-oh-oh)

We were blind to unforeseen circumstances
We learn the right steps to different dances (ohh)
And fell victim to interlopers' glances
Lost the game of chance, what are the chances?
Soon they'll go home to their husbands
Smug 'cause they know they can trust him
Then feverishly calling their cousins (ohh)

Guess who we ran into at the shops?
Walking in circles like she was lost
Didn't you hear?
They called it all off
One gasp and then
How did it end?

Say it once again with feeling
How the death rattle breathing
Silenced as the soul was leaving
The deflation of our dreaming
Leaving me bereft and reeling
My beloved ghost and me
Sitting in a tree
D-Y-I-N-G

It's happenin' again
How did it end?
I can't pretend like I understand
How did it end?

Come one, come all
It's happening again
The empathetic hunger descends
We'll tell no one
Except all of our friends
But I still don't know
How did it end?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Taylor Swift's song "How Did It End?" depict a reflective and introspective exploration of a failed relationship or connection. The opening lines, "We hereby conduct this post-mortem, He was a hot house flower to my outdoorsmen, Our maladies were such we could not cure them, And so a touch that was my birthright became foreign," suggest an examination of what went wrong in the relationship. The imagery of contrasting personalities and unresolvable issues highlight the challenges faced by the two individuals involved.


The chorus, "Come one, come all, It's happenin' again, The empathetic hunger descends, We'll tell no one, Except all of our friends, We must know, How did it end?" conveys a sense of shared emotional turmoil and confusion among the singer and their social circle. The repeated questioning of how the relationship came to its end shows a yearning for closure and understanding amidst the pain and disappointment.


The second verse delves into the betrayal and deception that may have contributed to the demise of the relationship, with lines such as "Lost the game of chance, what are the chances?" and references to interlopers affecting the dynamics between the couple. The mention of encounters with acquaintances who have inside knowledge of the situation adds a layer of gossip and intrigue to the narrative.


The bridge of the song intensifies the emotional turmoil, with vivid imagery of loss and despair portrayed through lines like "The deflation of our dreaming, Leaving me bereft and reeling, My beloved ghost and me, Sitting in a tree, D-Y-I-N-G." The closing repetition of the chorus and the continued questioning of "How did it end?" reflect the lingering uncertainty and emotional weight carried by the singer as they struggle to come to terms with the breakup and its aftermath. The song captures the complexity of human relationships, the pain of endings, and the search for closure in the face of heartache.


Line by Line Meaning

(Uh-oh)
An indication of unease or impending trouble.


(Uh-oh-oh-oh)
A repetition emphasizing the anxiety of the situation.


We hereby conduct this post-mortem
We are analyzing the end of this relationship as if it were a case study after a death.


He was a hot house flower to my outdoorsmen
He was delicate and sheltered, while I was rugged and adventurous, highlighting our contrasting natures.


Our maladies were such we could not cure them
We had deep-seated problems that we couldn't fix together, leading to our downfall.


And so a touch that was my birthright became foreign
What once felt familiar and natural to me became strange and uncomfortable in this relationship.


Come one, come all
An invitation for everyone to witness this unfolding drama.


It's happenin' again
This cycle of heartbreak and confusion is repeating itself.


The empathetic hunger descends
A deep desire for understanding and connection begins to overwhelm us.


We'll tell no one
We choose to keep this experience a secret.


Except all of our friends
In reality, we end up confiding in our close friends, despite our intentions.


We must know
We need to find out the truth behind the end of this relationship.


How did it end?
A plaintive question expressing confusion about the dissolution of our bond.


(Uh-oh)
Echoing feelings of concern that something is wrong.


(Uh-oh-oh-oh)
Reinforcing the sense of dread about our situation.


We were blind to unforeseen circumstances
We failed to see the warning signs or issues that would ultimately affect us.


We learn the right steps to different dances (ohh)
We discover how to navigate our differences, but it isn't enough to save us.


And fell victim to interlopers' glances
External influences or temptations disrupted our relationship.


Lost the game of chance, what are the chances?
We took risks in our relationship but ended up losing, questioning our luck.


Soon they'll go home to their husbands
Those who intruded upon our relationship will return to their own stable lives.


Smug 'cause they know they can trust him
They feel secure in their own relationships while we struggle.


Then feverishly calling their cousins (ohh)
They rush to share news about us, perhaps relishing our misfortune.


Guess who we ran into at the shops?
A chance encounter that amplifies the awkwardness of our situation.


Walking in circles like she was lost
This person is disoriented, possibly reflecting our own feelings of confusion.


Didn't you hear?
An abrupt transition to sharing troubling news.


They called it all off
The relationship has officially ended, leaving everyone in shock.


One gasp and then
A moment of stunned silence following the revelation of the breakup.


How did it end?
The lingering question that remains unanswered in the aftermath.


Say it once again with feeling
Reiterate the painful reality of our situation with emotion.


How the death rattle breathing
A metaphor for the last gasps of our relationship, symbolizing its imminent demise.


Silenced as the soul was leaving
As we let go, the essence of what we had disappears.


The deflation of our dreaming
Our hopes and aspirations for this relationship are tragically diminished.


Leaving me bereft and reeling
I am left in a state of loss and confusion, struggling to cope with the aftermath.


My beloved ghost and me
I am haunted by the memory of this lost love, as if they linger like a ghost.


Sitting in a tree
A metaphor for our isolated and disillusioned state as we reflect on our love.


D-Y-I-N-G
A stark expression of the emotional pain we are enduring following this loss.


It's happenin' again
Once more, I find myself in the cycle of heartbreak over the same unresolved feelings.


How did it end?
The question that haunts me, searching for clarity and understanding.


I can't pretend like I understand
I am unable to mask my confusion and disbelief over the situation.


How did it end?
The pervasive question remains, echoing my unresolved emotions.


Come one, come all
An invitation for onlookers to witness this ongoing saga of heartbreak.


It's happening again
The cycle of emotional turmoil is repeating, reflecting my instability.


The empathetic hunger descends
An overwhelming need for shared understanding arises amidst the chaos.


We'll tell no one
We initially intend to keep our pain private.


Except all of our friends
Inevitably, the story leaks out as we confide in those we trust.


But I still don't know
Despite everything, the ultimate resolution or reason remains elusive.


How did it end?
The unresolved query echoes, emphasizing my longing for closure.




Lyrics Ā© Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Taylor Swift, Aaron Dessner

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