Now That We Don
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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You went to a party
I heard from everybody
You part the crowd like the Red Sea
Don't even get me started
Did you get anxious though
On the way home?
I guess I'll never, ever know
Now that we don't talk

You grew your hair long
You got new icons
And from the outside
It looks like you're tryin' lives on
I miss the old ways
You didn't have to change
But I guess I don't have a say
Now that we don't talk

I call my mom, she said that it was for the best
Remind myself the more I gave, you'd want me less
I cannot be your friend
So I pay the price of what I lost
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk

What do you tell your friends we
Shared dinners, long weekends with
Truth is I can't pretend it's
Platonic, it's just ended

So I call my mom, she said to get it off my chest (off my chest)
Remind myself the way you faded 'til I left ('til I left)
I cannot be your friend
So I pay the price of what I lost (of what I lost)
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk

I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
Or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht
With important men who think important thoughts
Guess maybe I am better off
Now that we don't talk
And the only way back to my dignity
Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Just like I had been when you were chasing me




Guess this is how it has to be
Now that we don't talk

Overall Meaning

"Now That We Don't Talk" by Taylor Swift is a melancholic reflection on the aftermath of a broken relationship. The lyrics depict a sense of longing and contemplation as the singer reflects on the changes in the person they used to be close to. The song explores the feelings of confusion and loss that arise when communication breaks down between two individuals.


The opening lines, "You went to a party, I heard from everybody, You part the crowd like the red sea," suggest that the person the singer was once close to has moved on and become the center of attention. This revelation sparks a mix of emotions, with the singer admitting, "Don't even get me started." The lyrics then convey a sense of missed opportunities for understanding, as the singer wonders if the other person felt anxious on their way home but acknowledges they will never really know.


The second verse suggests that the individual has embraced change and is living a different life, evidenced by growing their hair long and adopting new icons. The singer admits to missing the old ways and implies that they were not given a say in the changes that occurred in the relationship.


The chorus reveals the singer seeking solace in talking to their mother, who advises them to let go and express their feelings. The lyrics convey a sense of resignation and acceptance that being friends is not an option, as the singer pays the price for what they lost when the connection ended.


In the bridge, the singer contemplates what the other person tells their friends about their past relationship, highlighting shared experiences like dinners and long weekends. However, the truth cannot be concealed, as the singer admits that their connection was not platonic and that it has now come to an end.


The final lines of the song establish a sense of self-discovery and growth. The singer no longer feels the need to pretend to like things they don't or be in extravagant situations, suggesting they have realized their worth and are better off without the person they used to talk to. They reflect on how becoming a shrouded mystery, just as they were when they were being pursued, has brought back their dignity.


Overall, "Now That We Don't Talk" reflects on the aftermath of a failed relationship, exploring the emotions of loss, confusion, and self-discovery.


Line by Line Meaning

You went to a party
You attended a social gathering


I heard from everybody
I received information from multiple sources


You part the crowd like the red sea
You easily make your way through a crowded space


Don't even get me started
I have a lot to say about this but I'll refrain


Did you get anxious though
Were you feeling restless or uneasy


On the way home?
During your journey back to your residence


I guess I'll never, ever know
I realize I will never have the answer to that question


Now that we don't talk
Since we no longer communicate


You grew your hair long
Your hair has significantly increased in length


You got new icons
You have adopted different role models or influences


And from the outside, it looks like you're trying lives on
Based on appearances, it seems like you are experimenting with different lifestyles


I miss the old ways
I long for the previous ways or dynamics we had


You don't hate to change
You are not averse to embracing change


But I guess I don't have a say
However, it appears that my opinion doesn't matter


Now that we don't talk
Since we no longer communicate


I call my mom, she said that it was for the best
I spoke to my mother who believes the situation is advantageous


Remind myself the more I gave, you'd want me less
I recall that the more I invested in the relationship, the less you desired it


I cannot be your friend
I am unable to maintain a friendship with you


So I pay the price of what I lost
Therefore, I suffer the consequences of what I sacrificed


And what it cost
As well as the expenses incurred


What do you tell your friends, we
How do you describe our relationship to your acquaintances


Shared dinners, long weekends with
We used to have meals together and spend extended weekends


Truth is I can't pretend it's
To be honest, I cannot pretend anymore that it is


Platonic, it's just ended
Purely platonic, it has come to an end


So I call my mom, she said to get it off my chest
As a result, I reach out to my mother for advice, and she suggests expressing my feelings


Remind myself the way you faded 'til I left
I remind myself of how you gradually lost interest until I departed


I cannot be your friend
I am unable to maintain a friendship with you


So I pay the price of what I lost
Therefore, I suffer the consequences of what I sacrificed


And what it cost
As well as the expenses incurred


I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
I no longer need to fake enjoyment of acid rock music


Or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht
Nor do I have to pretend I desire to be on a large luxurious yacht


With important who think important thoughts
In the company of influential individuals who possess deep thoughts


Guess maybe I am better off
I suspect that perhaps I am in a better situation


Now that we don't talk
Since we no longer communicate


And the only way back to my dignity
The sole route towards reclaiming my self-respect


Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Involved transforming into an enigmatic and veiled figure


Just like I had been when you were chasing me
Much like the way I appeared when you pursued me


Guess this is how it was to be
I suppose this is the destined outcome


Now that we don't talk
Since we no longer communicate




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Jack Michael Antonoff, Taylor Alison Swift

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@KaiInMotion

Lyrics:

You went to a party, I heard from everybody
You part the crowd like the Red Sea, don't even get me started
Did you get anxious though, on the way home?
I guess I'll never, ever know
Now that we don't talk

You grew your hair long, you got new icons
And from the outside, it looks like you're trying lives on
I miss the old ways, you didn't have to change
But I guess I don't have a say
Now that we don't talk

I called my mom, she said that it was for the best
Remind myself the more I gave, you'd want me less
I cannot be your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk

What do you tell your friends we
Shared dinners, long weekends with?
Truth is, I can't pretend it's
Platonic, it's just ended, so

I called my mom, she said to get it off my chest (Off my chest)
Remind myself the way you faded till I left (Till I left)
I cannot be your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost (What I lost)
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk

I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
Or that I'd like to be on a mega-yacht
With important men who think important thoughts
Guess maybe I am better off
Now that we don't talk

And the only way back to my dignity
Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Just like I had been when you were chasing me
Guess this is how it has to be
Now that we don't talk



@ameeramaqueen

"You went to a party
I heard from everybody
You part the crowd like the Red Sea
Don't even get me started
Did you get anxious though
On the way home?
I guess I'll never, ever know
Now that we don't talk
You grew your hair long
You got new icons
And from the outside
It looks like you're tryin' lives on
I miss the old ways
You didn't have to change
But I guess I don't have a say
Now that we don't talk
I call my mom, she said that it was for the best
Remind myself the more I gave, you'd want me less
I cannot be your friend
So I pay the price of what I lost
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk
What do you tell your friends we
Shared dinners, long weekends with
Truth is I can't pretend it's
Platonic, it's just ended
So I call my mom, she said to get it off my chest (off my chest)
Remind myself the way you faded 'til I left ('til I left)
I cannot be your friend
So I pay the price of what I lost (of what I lost)
And what it cost
Now that we don't talk
I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
Or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht
With important men who think important thoughts
Guess maybe I am better off
Now that we don't talk
And the only way back to my dignity
Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Just like I had been when you were chasing me
Guess this is how it has to be
Now that we don't talk"

✨🥺



@pani_ella

[Verse 1]
You went to a party
I heard from everybody
You part the crowd like the Red Sea
Don't even get me started
Did you get anxious though
On the way home?
I guess I'll never ever know
Now that we don't talk

[Verse 2]
You grew your hair long
You got new icons
And from the outside
It looks like you're tryin' lives on
I miss the old ways
You didn't have to change
But I guess I don't have a say
Now that we don't talk

[Chorus]
I call my mom, she said that it was for the best
Remind myself the morе I gave, you'd want me less
I cannot bе your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost
And what it cost, now that we don't talk
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[Verse 3]
What do you tell your friends we
Shared dinners, long weekends with?
Truth is, I can't pretend it's
Platonic, it's just ended, so

[Chorus]
I call my mom, she said to get it off my chest (Off my chest)
Remind myself the way you faded 'til I left (Until I left)
I cannot be your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost (Of what I lost)
And what it cost, now that we don't talk

[Outro]
I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
Or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht
With important men who think important thoughts
Guess maybe I am better off now that we don't talk
And the only way back to my dignity
Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Just like I had been when you were chasing me
Guess this is how it has to be now that we don't talk



@bbbbo8809

Verse 1]
You went to a party
I heard from everybody
You part the crowd like the Red Sea
Don't even get me started
Did you get anxious though
On the way home?
I guess I'll never, ever know
Now that we don't talk

[Verse 2]
You grew your hair long
You got new icons
And from the outside
It looks like you're tryin' lives on
I miss the old ways
You didn't have to change
But I guess I don't have a say
Now that we don't talk

Chorus]
I call my mom, she said that it was for the best
Remind myself, the morе I gave, you'd want me less
I cannot bе your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost
And what it cost, now that we don't talk

[Bridge]
What do you tell your friends we
Shared dinners, long weekends with?
Truth is, I can't pretend it's
Platonic, it's just ended, so

[Chorus]
I call my mom, she said to get it off my chest (Off my chest)
Remind myself the way you faded 'til I left (Until I left)
I cannot be your friend, so I pay the price of what I lost (Of what I lost)
And what it cost, now that we don't talk

[Outro]
I don't have to pretend I like acid rock
Or that I'd like to be on a mega yacht
With important men who think important thoughts
Guess maybe I am better off now that we don't talk
And the only way back to my dignity
Was to turn into a shrouded mystery
Just like I had been when you were chasing me
Guess this is how it has to be now that we don't talk



@BrendaAffron

Dear Taylor swift

I wanted to take a moment to express my admiration for you and your incredible videos. I've been a dedicated viewer for quite some time now, and I must say, you are truly one of the best YouTubers out there. Your content never fails to captivate me, and I love how you go the extra mile to entertain and help others.

Your dedication and effort in creating such amazing videos is truly commendable. You have a unique ability to bring joy to people's lives and make a positive impact. We need more individuals like you who use their platform to uplift others.

Thank you for being an inspiration and for all the incredible work you do. You are, without a doubt, the best YouTuber ever in my eyes. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that you have a massive fan and supporter here.

Sending you my heartfelt appreciation and best wishes.

With admiration,
Me



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@MeganWalsh-kd2vp

I abandoned the pretense and went right to the vault and I’m unwell that she’s kept such masterpieces HIDDEN

@blossomrebelo

Yeppp

@pansy4687

EXACTLY OMG

@SaijalNagi

sameeee

@b3llingh4m.lvr.

SAME

@adrienagreste1841

REAL

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@auroneeahmed507

I actually love the fact that this song is so short and ends kinda abruptly. It makes perfect sense. It symbolizes the relationship taylor is singing about. There was so much effort from her side but at the end she couldn't keep going alone in a one sided thing so she just suddenly stopped talking to him. The song ends abruptly just like their conversations did.

@shantal2724

Harry😢❤

@yvettelorraineaquino2608

Deep

@miloandalfie5509

​@@shantal2724Joe Alwyn

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