This Is Why We Can
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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It was so nice throwing big parties
Jumping to the pool from the balcony
Everyone swimming in a champagne sea
And there are no rules when you show up here
Bass beat rattling the chandelier
Feeling so Gatsby for that whole year

So why'd you have to rain on my parade?
I'm shaking my head
I'm locking the gates

This is why we can't have nice things, darling
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice things, honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things

It was so nice being friends again
There I was giving you a second chance
But you stabbed me in the back while shaking my hand
And therein lies the issue
Friends don't try to trick you
Get you on the phone and mind-twist you
And so I took an axe to a mended fence

But I'm not the only friend you've lost lately, hm hm
If only you weren't
So shady

This is why we can't have nice things, darling
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice (nice things)




Things (baby) honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have

Here's a toast to my real friends
They don't care about that he said, she said
And here's to my baby
He ain't reading what they call me lately
And here's to my momma
Had to listen to all this drama
And here's to you
'Cause forgiveness is a nice thing to do
I can't even say it with a straight face

This is why we can't have nice things, darling (darling)
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice things, honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things, darling
(And here's to my real friends)
Because you break them, I want to take them
And here's to my baby

Nice things, honey (they don't care about that he said, she said)
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things

Overall Meaning

In the first verse of the song, Taylor Swift depicts a luxurious and extravagant lifestyle. She describes throwing lavish parties, jumping into pools from balconies, and everyone indulging in a sea of champagne. There are no rules or limits in this world, and Swift compares the feeling to that of F. Scott Fitzgerald's character Jay Gatsby from his novel "The Great Gatsby." It's a year of opulence and excess, seemingly without consequences or limitations.


However, the mood quickly shifts in the chorus as Swift confronts someone who has ruined the fun and dampened her spirits. She questions why they had to rain on her parade, expressing her disappointment and frustration. The metaphor of locking the gates symbolizes her desire to protect herself from further harm caused by this individual. The repeated line "This is why we can't have nice things" signifies how their actions have led to the loss of enjoyment and luxury in her life.


In the second verse, Swift reflects on a friendship that seemed to be rekindled. She confesses that she gave this person a second chance, but they betrayed her by backstabbing her while pretending to be friendly. Swift emphasizes the issue lies in the fact that genuine friends don't try to deceive or manipulate each other. To symbolize the damaged trust, she takes an axe to a previously mended fence, indicating the destruction of their friendship.


Swift then reveals that this person's shady behavior has cost them other friendships as well. The line "If only you weren't so shady" suggests that this individual's deceitful actions have caused them to lose other friends too, emphasizing the negative consequences of their behavior.


In the final chorus, Swift raises a toast to her true friends who don't engage in gossip and drama. She also mentions her baby and her mother, who have had to endure the fallout from the drama. Swift acknowledges that forgiveness is important, but her inability to say it with a straight face suggests that she may still be hurt by their betrayal. The chorus is repeated, reinforcing the idea that the loss of nice things is a direct result of this person's actions, as they spread hurtful rumors and betray Swift's trust.


Overall, "This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things" is a song that explores the consequences of betrayal, deceit, and gossip in relationships. It illustrates the impact such actions can have on both personal connections and the ability to enjoy a luxurious and carefree lifestyle, drawing a parallel to F. Scott Fitzgerald's "The Great Gatsby" and its themes of excess and downfall. Through this song, Swift reflects on the negative effects of toxic behavior and values the importance of genuine friendships based on trust and respect.


Line by Line Meaning

It was so nice throwing big parties
I used to enjoy hosting extravagant parties and having a great time


Jumping to the pool from the balcony
We were fearless, taking daring leaps into the pool from high balconies


Everyone swimming in a champagne sea
We were surrounded by luxury and indulging in an abundance of champagne


And there are no rules when you show up here
We embraced a carefree and rule-free lifestyle when you were around


Bass beat rattling the chandelier
The powerful music shook everything, even the elegant chandelier


Feeling so Gatsby for that whole year
We felt like characters from The Great Gatsby, living an extravagant lifestyle throughout that entire year


So why'd you have to rain on my parade?
Why did you have to ruin the joy and excitement I had?


I'm shaking my head
I am disappointed and disapproving of your actions


I'm locking the gates
I am closing myself off and shutting you out of my life


This is why we can't have nice things, darling
Our inability to maintain pleasant things is because of your destructive behavior, my dear


Because you break them
You continuously ruin and destroy the nice things we have


I had to take them away
I had no choice but to remove those nice things to protect them from being destroyed further


Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
Were you under the impression that I wouldn't find out about all the negative things you've been saying behind my back?


It was so nice being friends again
I cherished the positive moments we shared after reconciling our friendship


There I was giving you a second chance
I was willing to give you another opportunity despite past disagreements


But you stabbed me in the back while shaking my hand
You betrayed me when you pretended to be friendly and trustworthy


And therein lies the issue
The problem lies exactly in that backstabbing and betrayal


Friends don't try to trick you
True friends do not attempt to deceive or manipulate you


Get you on the phone and mind-twist you
They don't engage in manipulative conversations and psychological games


And so I took an axe to a mended fence
In response, I destroyed the mended relationship between us, completely cutting ties


But I'm not the only friend you've lost lately, hm hm
You have been losing other friends recently as well, hmm hmm


If only you weren't so shady
If only you weren't deceitful and untrustworthy


Here's a toast to my real friends
Let's celebrate and raise a glass to my true and loyal friends


They don't care about that he said, she said
They are not affected or interested in gossip and rumors


And here's to my baby
Cheers to my significant other, who remains unaffected by the negative opinions of others


He ain't reading what they call me lately
He doesn't pay attention to the derogatory labels people have been using to refer to me


And here's to my momma
Let's also honor my mother, who has had to endure all the drama surrounding me


Had to listen to all this drama
She had to bear the burden of hearing about all the conflicts and controversies


And here's to you
Lastly, a toast to you


'Cause forgiveness is a nice thing to do
Because forgiving others is a kind and positive action


I can't even say it with a straight face
But I struggle to genuinely express forgiveness towards you


Because you break them, I want to take them
Your tendency to break nice things makes me want to possess and keep them away from you




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Jack Michael Antonoff, Taylor Alison Swift

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anon


on Blank Space

Nice to meet you, where you been?
Hey there, I'm interested in getting to know you. What's your story? test

I could show you incredible things. Magic, madness, heaven, sin
I can offer you an exciting, unpredictable experience. It could be heavenly or dangerous.

Saw you there and I thought, Oh my God, look at that face. You look like my next mistake
When I saw you, I was immediately drawn to you. But I have a habit of getting into relationships that end poorly.

Love's a game, wanna play? Ayy
I view relationships as a game, and I want to see if you're up for playing it with me.

New money, suit and tie. I can read you like a magazine
You appear to be wealthy and put together, but I can tell that you're not as perfect as you may seem.

Ain't it funny, rumors fly. And I know you heard about me. So hey, let's be friends
There are likely rumors and gossip about me, but I want to befriend you despite what you might have heard.

I'm dyin' to see how this one ends. Grab your passport and my hand. I can make the bad guys good for a weekend
I'm curious to see where this relationship will go. Let's go on an adventure together and I can change your perspective on things.

So it's gonna be forever. Or it's gonna go down in flames. You can tell me when it's over, mm. If the high was worth the pain
Our relationship might be long-lasting or it might be a complete disaster. Once it's over, let me know if it was worth all the trouble.

Got a long list of ex lovers. They'll tell you I'm insane. 'Cause you know I love the players. And you love the game
I've had many past relationships that didn't end well, and they might say I'm crazy. But I can tell that you're a player, and I like the game.

Cherry lips, crystal skies. I could show you incredible things. Stolen kisses, pretty lies
I can give you thrilling, romantic experiences. But I might also deceive you with sweet lies.

You're the king, baby, I'm your queen. Find out what you want. Be that girl for a month
You can be in charge of this relationship, and I'll be there to fulfill your desires. I can try being someone different for a month.

The worst is yet to come, oh no. Screaming, crying, perfect storms. I can make all the tables turn. Rose garden filled with thorns
Things might get even worse between us. We could have explosive fights and difficulties. But I have the power to change things around. Our relationship might seem wonderful, but it has hidden dangers.

Keep you second guessing like. Oh my God, who is she? I get drunk on jealousy. But you'll come back each time you leave
I can be unpredictable and keep you on your toes. I'm prone to jealousy, but you'll keep coming back to me despite my flaws.

'Cause darling, I'm a nightmare dressed like a daydream
I might seem lovely and sweet, but I can turn into a total nightmare in a relationship.

Boys only want love if it's torture. Don't say I didn't, say I didn't warn ya
Many men enjoy being in dramatic, tumultuous relationships. I'm warning you that's what you're in for with me.

But I've got a blank space, baby. And I'll write your name
I may have a history of failed relationships, but now there's an opportunity for something new and exciting with you. I'll make you mine, and it'll be unforgettable.

Starpaw


on Welcome to New York

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on Wildest Dreams (Taylor's Version)

amazing song

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on You Belong with Me

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on Love Story

I am a fan

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on Look What You Made Me Do

i love your music

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on Blank Space

super anonymous

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