We Are Never Getting Nice Things
Taylor Swift Lyrics


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I remember when we broke up, the first time
Saying, "This is it, I've had enough"
'Cause like, we hadn't seen each other in a month
When you said you needed space (what?)
Then you come around again and say
"Baby, I miss you and I swear I'm gonna change, trust me"
Remember how that lasted for a day?
I say, "I hate you," we break up, you call me, "I love you"

Ooh, ooh, ooh
We called it off again last night
But ooh, ooh, ooh
This time, I'm telling you, I'm telling you

We are never ever, ever getting back together
We are never ever, ever getting back together
You go talk to your friends, talk to my friends, talk to me
But we are never ever, ever, ever getting back together
Like, ever

I'm really gonna miss you picking fights
And me falling for it, screaming that I'm right
And you would hide away and find your peace of mind
With some indie record that's much cooler than mine

Ooh, ooh, ooh
You called me up again tonight
But ooh, ooh, ooh
This time, I'm telling you, I'm telling you

We are never ever, ever getting back together
We are never ever, ever getting back together
You go talk to your friends
Talk to my friends, talk to me (talk to me)
But we are never ever, ever, ever getting back together

Ooh, ooh, ooh, yeah
Ooh, ooh, ooh, yeah
Ooh, ooh, ooh, yeah
Oh

I used to think that we were forever ever, ever
And I used to say, "Never say never"
Ah, so he calls me up and he's like, "I still love you"
And I'm like, I'm just, I mean this is exhausting, you know?
Like we are never getting back together, like, ever

(No) we are never ever, ever getting back together
We are never ever, ever getting back together
You go talk to your friends, talk to my friends, talk to me
But we are never, ever, ever, ever getting back together
(We) ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh (getting back together)
(We) ooh, ooh, ooh
Oh (getting back together)

You go talk to your friends




Talk to my friends, talk to me (talk to me)
But we are never ever, ever, ever getting back together

Overall Meaning

The song "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" is a catchy breakup anthem performed by Taylor Swift. The song is written from Swift's perspective and is about an on-and-off relationship with a former lover. The lyrics depict a relationship that was tumultuous, with Swift describing the first break-up as the end of the relationship. However, her lover comes back again with promises of change, and the cycle of breaking up and getting back together repeats. Swift points out how exhausting it is to go through the same thing again and again, and finally declares that they are "never ever getting back together."


The chorus of the song is a repetitive declaration that the relationship is over for good. Swift talks about the communication between the two and how the former lover tries to reach out to her through their friends, but Swift is firm in her decision to end the relationship. In the second verse, Swift admits that she's going to miss some aspects of the relationship, such as having heated arguments and falling for it. She also points out that her ex-lover finds his peace of mind in indie music, which is much cooler than her music.


Overall, the song is a relatable and empowering anthem for anyone who has been through an on-and-off relationship and finally declared that it's over for good.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember when we broke up, the first time
I remember the first time we broke up.


Saying, "this is it, I've had enough"
I said we were done for good.


'Cause like, we hadn't seen each other in a month
We hadn't seen each other for a month, which was a problem.


When you said you needed space (what?)
You said you needed space, which confused me.


Then you come around again and say
Then you came back and said.


"Baby, I miss you and I swear I'm gonna change, trust me"
"Baby, I miss you and I promise to change."


Remember how that lasted for a day?
But that only lasted for a day, if that.


I say, "I hate you," we break up, you call me, "I love you"
We argue, break up, and then you call me saying you love me.


We called it off again last night
We broke up again last night.


But ooh, ooh, ooh, this time, I'm telling you, I'm telling you
But this time, I'm serious and I mean it.


We are never ever, ever getting back together
We are never getting back together, ever.


You go talk to your friends, talk to my friends, talk to me
You can talk to anyone you want, including me, but it won't change my decision.


But we are never ever, ever, ever getting back together
But just to be clear, we are never, ever getting back together.


I'm really gonna miss you picking fights
I'll miss the way you used to pick fights with me.


And me falling for it, screaming that I'm right
I'll miss how I always fell for your traps and ended up yelling that I was right.


And you would hide away and find your peace of mind
I guess you'll still try to find peace by yourself.


With some indie record that's much cooler than mine
By listening to indie records that are cooler than mine.


You called me up again tonight
You called me again tonight.


Ah, so he calls me up and he's like, "I still love you"
You called me up and said you still love me.


And I'm like, I'm just, I mean this is exhausting, you know?
But it's exhausting and I can't keep doing this with you.


I used to think that we were forever ever, ever
I used to think we would last forever.


And I used to say, "never say never"
And I used to say, "never give up hope."


(No) we are never ever, ever getting back together
No, we are never ever getting back together.


We are never ever, ever getting back together
We are never ever getting back together.


(We) ooh, ooh, ooh
(We) ooh, ooh, ooh.


Oh (getting back together)
Oh, I'm not interested in getting back together.


You go talk to your friends
You can talk to your friends.


Talk to my friends, talk to me (talk to me)
You can also talk to me and my friends.


But we are never ever, ever, ever getting back together
But to be 100% clear, we are never getting back together, ever.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Martin Max Sandberg, Johan Karl Schuster, Taylor Alison Swift

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@paulanji

@Slow Internet me too!

mean was the first taylor song i ever heard when i was like like 6 and when i heard it, i instantly became a swiftie. that song and the whole album have such a special place in my heart.

and the fact that taylor wrote the album with ZERO co-writers. insane.

i also really like the production and how different it is from most taylor albums. there's almost a pop punk vibe to it imo.

i feel like speak now tv will be released last for some reason, maybe because it's sonically the most complex.

i think she's gonna release them in the order of:
1989, debut, reputation, speak now.



@jesusalfonsourreagomez6373

It was so nice throwing big parties
Jump into the pool from the balcony
Everyone swimming in a champagne sea
And there are no rules when you show up here
Bass beat rattling the chandelier
Feeling so Gatsby for that whole year

So why'd you have to rain on my parade?
I'm shaking my head and locking the gates

[Chorus]
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things, darling
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things, honey (Oh)
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

It was so nice being friends again
There I was, giving you a second chance
But you stabbed me in the back while shaking my hand
And therein lies the issue
Friends don't try to trick you
Get you on the phone and mind-twist you
And so I took an axe to a mended fence


But I'm not the only friend you've lost lately
(Mm-mm)
If only you weren't so shady

[Chorus]
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things, darling (Yeah)
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things (Nice Things) Things (Baby), honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This Is Why We Can't Have

[Bridge]
Here's a toast to my real friends
They don't care about the he-said, she-said
And here's to my baby
He ain't reading what they call me lately
And here's to my mama
Had to listen to all this drama
And here's to you
'Cause forgiveness is a nice thing to do
Haha, I can't even say it with a straight face

[Chorus]
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things, darling (Darling)
Because you break them
I had to take them away
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice (Uh-uh) Things (Oh no), honey (Baby, oh)
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things, darling
(And here's to my real friends)
Because you break them
I had to take them
(And here's to my baby)
Nice Things, honey
(He didn't care about that he-said, she-said)
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said
about me?
This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things



@eljayv3192

It was so nice throwing big parties
Jump into the pool from the balcony
Everyone swimming in a champagne sea
And there are no rules when you show up here
Bass beat rattling the chandelier
Feeling so Gatsby for that whole year
So why'd you have to rain on my parade?
I'm shaking my head, I'm locking the gates
This is why we can't have nice things, darling
Because you break them, I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice things, honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things
It was so nice being friends again
There I was giving you a second chance
But you stabbed me in the back while shaking my hand
And therein lies the issue, friends don't try to trick you
Get you on the phone and mind-twist you
And so I took an axe to a mended fence
But I'm not the only friend you've lost lately (mmm-mmm)
If only you weren't so shady
This is why we can't have nice things, darling
Because you break them, I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice things, honey
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have
Here's a toast to my real friends
They don't care about the he said, she said
And here's to my baby
He ain't reading what they call me lately
And here's to my mama
Had to listen to all this drama
And here's to you
'Cause forgiveness is a nice thing to do
Hahaha, I can't even say it with a straight face!
This is why we can't have nice things, darling (darling)
Because you break them, I had to take them away
This is why we can't have nice (uh-uh) things (oh no), honey (baby, oh)
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things, darling (oh)
And here's to my real friends
(Oh) because you break them, I had to take them
And here's to my baby
(Oh) nice things, honey
They didn't care about the he said, she said
Did you think I wouldn't hear all the things you said about me?
This is why we can't have nice things



All comments from YouTube:

@noorhossain9469

''.AHAHAH!!I cant even say it with a straight face!'' Man, I love this woman!!

@swiftieforever1116

Me too!

@arianamoonlight2956

Me too!

@red541

@Swiftie Forever Me too

@kendall57

imagine the rerecorded version of that line!!! gonna be epic

@devkedia2945

😂😂😂

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@joshuaserrato3495

“But you stabbed my back while shaking my hand”

Her wordplay is on another level!!!

@user-ux1vj9vx7s

Cool lyric, But that’s not what word play means

@Independent365

REALLY? Thats a huge overused cliche , but okay lol...

@tamekkaknuth9612

In end it back fires and blows up in faces like dynamite or grenade

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