Hurting
Tears for Fears Lyrics


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Is it an horrific dream
Am I sinking fast
Could a person be so mean
As to laugh and laugh
On my own
Could you ease my load
Could you see my Pain
Could you please explain
The Hurting

Could you understand a child
When he cries in Pain
Could you give him all he needs
Or do you feel the same
All along
You've been told you're wrong
When you felt it right
And you're left to fight
The hurting

Get in line with the things you know
Feel the Pain
Feel the sorrow
Touch the hurt and don't let go
Get in line with the things you know
Learn to cry




Like a baby
Then the hurting won't come back

Overall Meaning

The Hurting by Tears for Fears is a song that speaks about the emotional and physical pain one is capable of inflicting on another individual, and the resulting inner turmoil caused by such actions. The lyrics suggest that the singer has been subjected to immense suffering at the hands of someone who is truly mean-spirited, so much so that it feels like a nightmare he is unable to wake up from. The singer is pleading for someone to understand his pain and help him through his struggles. He is searching for answers as to why people can be so cruel to each other and why he is stuck in this cycle of pain.


Amidst the lyrics, there is a sense of hopelessness and desperation. The singer questions whether anyone can truly empathize with his plight, and whether there is a way out of his predicament. The second verse pushes the listener to acknowledge the struggles that children often face and the importance of providing them with love, support, and empathy. The chorus then calls for the listener to confront their own pain head-on, to feel it, and to cry like a baby in order to heal.


The raw and confrontational nature of The Hurting has made it a beloved classic across generations. The biting social commentary and emotive lyrics contributed to the band establishing their signature sound and making them pioneers of the new wave genre. The song has even inspired other musicians to seek comfort in confronting their inner demons and encouraging others to do the same.


Line by Line Meaning

Is it an horrific dream
Am I experiencing a terrible nightmare or is this my reality?


Am I sinking fast
Do I feel like I'm drowning in my problems and emotions, going deeper and deeper into sadness?


Could a person be so mean
Would someone be capable of intentionally causing me harm and finding joy in it?


As to laugh and laugh
To even laugh repeatedly at my pain and struggles.


On my own
Feeling alone and without anyone to turn to for help.


Could you ease my load
Could you help me carry the weight of my problems and make them more manageable?


Could you see my Pain
Are you able to perceive the depth and intensity of my emotional distress?


Could you please explain
Can you offer me some understanding and insight into why I am suffering?


The Hurting
All the pain and suffering that is weighing heavily on my heart and mind.


Could you understand a child
Would you be able to sympathize with and comprehend the struggles of a helpless and vulnerable child?


When he cries in Pain
When he is overwhelmed with hurt and sadness and cries out for comfort.


Could you give him all he needs
Would you be able to provide everything that he requires to feel safe and secure?


Or do you feel the same
Or do you also suffer from pain and heartache, making it difficult to help without experiencing those same emotions?


All along
For the entirety of my life up until this moment.


You've been told you're wrong
Others have made me feel like my emotions and experiences are not valid or important.


When you felt it right
Despite knowing deep down that my emotions are valid and real.


And you're left to fight
Leaving me to struggle and battle my emotional turmoil alone.


Get in line with the things you know
Align yourself with the experiences and emotions you are familiar with and understand.


Feel the Pain
Allow yourself to fully experience and understand the depth of someone's emotional suffering.


Feel the sorrow
Truly empathize with the sadness and despair someone is feeling.


Touch the hurt and don't let go
Recognize the sources of emotional pain and hold onto them, not allowing them to be minimized or ignored.


Learn to cry
Allow yourself to fully express and release your emotions in a healthy and productive way.


Like a baby
Without fear of judgment or shame for experiencing and expressing difficult emotions.


Then the hurting won't come back
By fully experiencing and acknowledging difficult emotions, they can be processed in a healthy way and will not continue to cause ongoing pain and suffering.




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Written by: ROLAND ORZABAL

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