Can't We Try
Teddy Pendergrass & Friends Lyrics


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Come lay your head on my heart
Soon it'll be apart, stay here to the touch of morning
I'm glad we're leaving as friends
Baby, by the way, I forgot to say

Can't we try, love was never born to say goodbye
Just another helpless fool in love is what I am
But I don't give a damn, sorry, I forgot myself
I guess that I'm just not myself

And I know that we're not supposed to cry
Love was supposed to die when people get to know each other
In case I don't see you again
Really wish you well, baby, this is hell

Can't we try, love was never born to say goodbye
Touch me one more time and make me feel that I'm alive
And if we don't survive
At least we'll have a moment here with honest pain and tears

Then say goodbye, come lay your head down on my heart
The morning suddenly leads you, you know, yet I don't need you
We can't go back to yesterday, go away
God, I wished you'd stay

Can't we try, love was never born to say goodbye
Touch me one more time and make me feel that I'm alive
And if we don't survive
Then we will end like we began and even though it's over

Can't we try, let's go back to yesterday, and I
Just another helpless fool in love is what I am
But I don't give a damn
See, once before I set you free, I just got to hold you close to me

Can't we try, love was never born to say goodbye
I want you to touch me, touch me one more time
And make me feel that I'm alive
And if we don't survive
Then we can end like we began and even though it's over

Can't we try, let's go back to yesterday, and I
See, I'm just another, just another helpless fool in, in love is what I am
But I don't give a damn
See, once before I set you free, I got to have you, I got to have you





Can't we try
Love was never born to say goodbye

Overall Meaning

In Teddy Pendergrass’s song Can’t We Try, the artist desperately asks his lover to not end their relationship, instead asking if they could try to make it work. Pendergrass’s vocals in the song drip with emotion as he implores his lover to stay with him for just a little longer. The lyrics begin with Pendergrass asking his lover to lay her head on his heart as they spend their last moments together. He tells her that he’s glad they’re leaving as friends but then breaks down and admits that he wishes they could give their love a second chance.


Pendergrass sings of how love was not meant to end and how he is just a helpless fool in love. He pleads with his lover to touch him one more time and make him feel alive, even though he knows that their love may not survive. The artist accepts the reality that their love may not work out, but pleads with his lover to at least try. The song ends with Pendergrass asking his lover to stay and hold him close, asserting that love was never meant to say goodbye.


Line by Line Meaning

Come lay your head on my heart
Rest on my chest, and hear my heart beat. Let us cherish this moment before we are separated.


Soon it'll be apart, stay here to the touch of morning
The morning will soon break our togetherness, but let us stay here as we feel the touch of the morning.


I'm glad we're leaving as friends
I am relieved that we part as friends, as breaking up would be too painful.


Baby, by the way, I forgot to say
By the way, I forgot to say something important to you, my beloved.


Can't we try, love was never born to say goodbye
Let us try to make it work, as love is not meant to end in goodbyes.


Just another helpless fool in love is what I am
I am just another person hopelessly in love and unable to let go.


But I don't give a damn, sorry, I forgot myself
I don't care what people think, but I apologize for my behavior.


I guess that I'm just not myself
I am not acting like my usual self, as this breakup has affected me more than I thought.


And I know that we're not supposed to cry
We are not meant to cry but to accept that love ends.


Love was supposed to die when people get to know each other
Love is destined to end as people get to know each other well and lose the initial spark.


In case I don't see you again
In the event that we never cross paths again,


Really wish you well, baby, this is hell
I truly hope that everything goes well for you, my dear, as parting is excruciatingly painful.


Touch me one more time and make me feel that I'm alive
Hold me one last time to remind me that our love was real and intense.


And if we don't survive
If we cannot make things work,


At least we'll have a moment here with honest pain and tears
At least we shared this moment honestly, with real pain and tears.


Then say goodbye, come lay your head down on my heart
Let us say goodbye, and rest your head on my chest one last time.


The morning suddenly leads you, you know, yet I don't need you
The morning may separate us, but I do not want you to feel obliged to stay.


We can't go back to yesterday, go away
We can't undo the past, so you must go.


God, I wished you'd stay
Oh God, I wish you could stay with me forever.


See, once before I set you free, I just got to hold you close to me
Before I let you go, I need to embrace you one last time.


I want you to touch me, touch me one more time
I yearn for your touch, just one last time.


Then we can end like we began and even though it's over
We can end our relationship on a positive note, like it began, even though it's ending.


Can't we try
Can't we give it one last try?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Kenneth W. Hirsch, Ronald N. Miller

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Comments from YouTube:

Melissa Byrd

Beautiful song 😍😍😍😍😍

Mary Ann Campbell

Another one of Teddy's touching songs.

Rondre Mckennon

When me my ex broke up. I found my self playing this song. Over and over

Vinicius Canovas

I feel your pain bro, I totally understand what you are talking about

brian loper

This song has to be one of the saddest breakup songs ever :(

Vinicius Canovas

I can tell you that you are good damn right

roy rayburn

Only Teddy could. Make a breakup song. Romantic

Sue H

B-side of Love TKO. Beautiful

Billy B

Sorry he's gone 😔

roy rayburn

Vary very underrated.

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