That One
Teedra Moses Lyrics


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They tell me this is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna love you (But my heart just aint in it)
This is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna be there when you need someone (But I cant be sure)

Everyone tells me that love takes work & time
Maybe thats real talk but I need someone that gets me high
He gives me the world but the world aint what Im after no
I just need one to make my heart feel whole
See Im not the kind of girl to fall in love so soon
Id rather take my time & make sure that its true
Ive waited oh so long to give love another try
Yeah hes cool & all but he aint for the rest of my life

They tell me this is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna love you (But my heart just aint in it)
This is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna be there when you need someone (But I cant be sure)

And I dont wanna seem like I cant appreciate a good man
But we can be good friends without any commitments
Cause Im a young bird I must be free
To be open to receive real love out here for me
Let me tell you what I mean

See Im not the kind of girl to fall in love so soon
Id rather take my time & make sure that its true
Ive waited oh so long to give love another try
Yeah hes cool & all but he aint for the rest of my life

They tell me this is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna love you (But my heart just aint in it)
This is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna be there when you need someone (But I cant be sure)





They tell me this is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna love you (But my heart just aint in it)
This is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna be there when you need someone (But I cant be sure)

Overall Meaning

In the song "That One" by Teedra Moses, she expresses her hesitation and uncertainty about a potential love interest, despite the influence and opinions of others. The lyrics reflect her desire for a love that truly understands and fulfills her, rather than settling for something that seems acceptable to others.


The opening lines, "They tell me this is the one / He's the one, he's the one that's gonna love you," highlight the external pressure Moses feels to conform to the expectations of others. However, she confesses that her heart isn't fully invested in this relationship. She questions whether this person will truly be there for her when she needs them, expressing her doubts and inability to be certain.


The chorus repeats this dilemma, emphasizing the conflict between what others perceive as the right choice for her and her own intuition. She acknowledges the importance of effort and time in love, but explores the idea that true love should also bring a sense of euphoria and fulfillment. She craves a love that makes her feel complete, rather than just receiving materialistic gestures or grand gestures.


Moses further emphasizes her reluctance to rush into love in the second verse, stating her preference for taking her time and ensuring that it is genuine. She has been patient in waiting for the right love to come her way, and while she acknowledges the positive qualities of this person, she believes that he may not be the one destined to be with her forever.


In the final chorus, Moses continues to question the authenticity of this love and expresses her desire for something more profound. She desires a love that not only captures her heart but also fulfills her emotionally and spiritually. She rejects the idea of settling for a relationship without any commitments, valuing her independence and freedom to explore what real love truly means for her.


Overall, "That One" explores the journey of self-discovery and the struggle to find a love that aligns with one's own desires and values, rather than succumbing to external pressures.


Line by Line Meaning

They tell me this is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna love you (But my heart just aint in it)
People say that he is the one, the only one, who will love you deeply, but I don't feel the same affection in my heart.


This is the one hes the one hes the one thats gonna be there when you need someone (But I cant be sure)
He is believed to be the one, the only one, who will be by your side when you're in need, but I'm uncertain if that's true.


Everyone tells me that love takes work & time
People always mention that love requires effort and patience.


Maybe thats real talk but I need someone that gets me high
Perhaps that's true, but I require someone who uplifts and excites me.


He gives me the world but the world aint what Im after no
He offers me everything, but material possessions are not my true desire.


I just need one to make my heart feel whole
All I need is one person who can complete and fulfill my heart.


See Im not the kind of girl to fall in love so soon
You must understand, I'm not the type to quickly fall in love.


Id rather take my time & make sure that its true
I prefer to take things slowly and ensure that it's genuine.


Ive waited oh so long to give love another try
I've endured a lengthy wait to give love another chance in my life.


Yeah hes cool & all but he aint for the rest of my life
He's decent and all, but he's not the one I envision spending the rest of my life with.


And I dont wanna seem like I cant appreciate a good man
I don't want to come across as someone who can't value a good man.


But we can be good friends without any commitments
However, we can maintain a strong friendship without any romantic obligations.


Cause Im a young bird I must be free
Because I am young and full of life, I need to have the freedom to explore and grow.


To be open to receive real love out here for me
I need to keep myself open and receptive in order to find genuine love that is meant for me.


Let me tell you what I mean
Allow me to explain my point of view more clearly.




Writer(s): Glen Ballard, Shakira Mebarak

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Comments from YouTube:

Eric Jones

Teedra is so underrated. She needs to have more recognition. Her voice is unique. She got the right man for the collaboration Anthony Hamilton. I've been playing this 🎵 song for quite some time now. Still listening in 2021.

Kathleen Price

No doubt I always liked her music , I just so happen too remember this one on my heart. Love it one Her Anthony sang hell out this one. Still listening in 2022 💯

Bow Promise

I know music has to evolve and I love that but this is a sound that's timeless and unfortunately, underexposed. It's pure and it touches the heart from the get go. Teedra Moses is always such a lady.

NiCole Sky

"I can throw that thang like some lucky dice..." Loves it!!! Perfect duet with my two fav artist!!

Teedra continues to out-do herself & so many others. Hoping #CognacNConversations brings much success & recognition! I'm copin it for sure.

Ganymede, Jupiter III

She has a voice like honey. I feel like I'm in 1993 discovering R&B all over again.

jsunshyne87

Absolutely have to love this woman's voice! Been a fan since way back in the day when she released "You'll Never Find A Better Woman" w/ Jadakiss. Her whole debut album Complex Simplicity, is a pure R&B Classic in my opinion. She has always been the Queen of underground R&B to me. Love you Teedra!

Michael Bull

Complex simplicity is an underrated r and b album

kelvin88keyes

This album is so bangin!!! Love this joint! Soul aint dead...Real music has gone underground!

sweetzbaby1

True Artistry . 💎👏🏿🔊🔊🔊‼️

phillynash

I CAN'T BELIEVE I HAVEN'T HEARD THIS ON THE RADIO!!!! Program directors are slippin'.

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