So Jealous
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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I don't wanna be
Part of the problem
I try so hard
To get roughed up

Fists on up
It looks that easy
It looks that way to me
It looks that way to you

But then there's you
Telling me I can
Then there's you
Screaming, "say something"

I want the ocean right now
I want the ocean right now
I get so jealous
That I can't even work

I get so jealous
That I can't even work

There I am in the morning
I don't like what I see
There I am in the morning
I don't like what I see

I don't know how
It's become such a problem
Keep you up all night if I
Try to remain calm
How can they ask

Why I feel so angry
Do you see my problem
If I never explain it
But then there's you

Asking me how long
Say something
It's taking me so long

I want the ocean right now
I want the ocean right now

I get so jealous
That I can't even work
I get so jealous
That I can't even work
I get so jealous
That I can't even work
I get so jealous
That I can't even work

There I am in the morning
I don't like what I see




There I am in the morning
I don't like what I see

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tegan and Sara's song "So Jealous" delve into themes of self-image, inadequacy, and jealously. The opening lines express the singer's desire to not contribute to a negative situation or be a source of conflict but then also mentions an inclination to be "roughed up" as if they are seeking out some kind of drama. The next lines describe violence and aggression as something that appears quite effortless to others and leads the singer to feel inadequate. However, it is the presence of someone else ("But then there's you") who encourages them ("telling me I can") and prompts them to take action ("screaming, 'say something'").


The lyrics convey a need for escape ("I want the ocean right now") as well as a deep sense of jealousy, to the point that it becomes debilitating and interferes with their ability to function ("I get so jealous that I can't even work"). This jealousy seems to stem from a negative self-image, as evidenced by the lines "There I am in the morning, I don't like what I see."


The repeated lines of "I get so jealous that I can't even work" emphasize the intensity and all-consuming nature of the jealousy the singer is experiencing. The lyrics end on a bleak note, with the singer expressing a sense of hopelessness and dissatisfaction with themselves ("There I am in the morning, I don't like what I see").


Line by Line Meaning

I don't wanna be
I don't want to contribute to the problem


Part of the problem
A reference to not wanting to be part of the issue at hand


I try so hard
Putting a lot of effort into resolving the problem


To get roughed up
Willingness to face struggles head on to come to a resolution


Fists on up
Feeling defensive and ready to fight


It looks that easy
Assuming something is simple on face value


It looks that way to me
Their immediate perception of the situation seems basic


It looks that way to you
Implying that others might take it even lighter than the artist does and be blind to the struggles


But then there's you
Introducing a positive force in the form of another person


Telling me I can
Encouraging the artist to believe in themselves


Then there's you
Continues to emphasize this positive influence


Screaming, "say something"
Urging the artist to speak up and make their voice heard


I want the ocean right now
The singer feels a strong desire to escape their current situation and have some peace and quiet


I get so jealous
Frustrated at not being able to have these simple pleasures or peace of mind


That I can't even work
The emotions are so overwhelming that the singer cannot focus on anything else


There I am in the morning
Reflecting on one's own situation and not liking oneself


I don't like what I see
Not happy with oneself or one's actions


I don't know how
Feeling overwhelmed and helpless


It's become such a problem
The problem has grown into something bigger than the singer anticipated


Keep you up all night if I
The issue is causing sleepless nights


Try to remain calm
Attempting to handle the issue without letting emotions take over


How can they ask
Feeling frustrated by others' lack of understanding


Why I feel so angry
Feeling like others don't understand the source of their emotions


Do you see my problem
Asking if others understand the severity of the situation


If I never explain it
Feeling like others aren't willing to listen


Asking me how long
Questioning how long it will take to overcome the issue


It's taking me so long
Feeling overwhelmed and unsure about how to resolve the problem


I get so jealous
Expressing once again how the issue is causing such intense negative emotions


That I can't even work
The emotions are so strong that they're preventing the artist from functioning properly


There I am in the morning
Continuing to reflect on one's own struggles


I don't like what I see
The singer isn't satisfied with how they are handling the situation or the situation itself




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sara Keirsten Quin, Tegan Rain Quin

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