That Girl
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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Sick and tired of things getting tough
Never gonna be enough
Sick and tired of fights starting wars
Never gonna be enough
Say what I want, say what I need
Sick and tired of things getting tough
Say what I want, say what I need
Nobody hurts you like me

When did I become that girl?
That girl I see
When did I become that girl?
That girl I see

Getting fed up with the way you love
Never gonna be enough
Sick and tired of things getting tough
Say what you saw, say what you heard
Sick and tired of things getting tough
Say what you felt, say where it hurts
Nobody treats me like dirt

When did I become that girl?
That girl I see
When did I become that girl?
That girl I see

I never wanna be anyone's enemy
I just wanna let myself be
The girl that I once was
I never wanna be that girl I see
When did I fall so far?
Barely recognise me
When do I move on?
So I recognise me
So I recognise me

When did I become that girl?
That girl I see
When did I become that girl?
That girl I see
When did I become that girl?
That girl I see

I never wanna be anyone's enemy
I just wanna let myself be
The girl that I once was
I never wanna be that girl I see
I never wanna be anyone's enemy
I just wanna let myself be




The girl that I once was
I never wanna be that girl I see

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Tegan and Sara's "That Girl" suggest a reflective and introspective mood for the singer, who is sick and tired of the difficulties and challenges in her relationship. The lyrics seem to express her desire to speak up for herself and assert her needs, and also acknowledge the ways in which she has changed or grown more distant from her true self. The refrain of "When did I become that girl? That girl I see" emphasizes the sense of disconnection she feels between her present self and her past, and her need to reconcile these different versions of herself.


The verse "Say what I want, say what I need / Nobody hurts you like me" underscores the complexity of the relationship, which seems to involve mutual pain and hurt. The second verse "Say what you saw, say what you heard / Sick and tired of things getting tough / Say what you felt, say where it hurts / Nobody treats me like dirt" acknowledges that both partners are affected by the difficulties, and neither one wants to feel misunderstood or mistreated. The bridge "I never wanna be anyone's enemy / I just wanna let myself be / The girl that I once was / I never wanna be that girl I see" reinforces the idea that the singer wants to find a way to be true to herself without causing harm or conflict.


The song seems to be a deeply personal reflection on the ups and downs of a relationship and the internal struggles that come with trying to maintain one's identity within it. The repetition of the question "When did I become that girl?" also highlights the universal experience of feeling like we have lost ourselves in a situation, and the need to rediscover our true selves.


Line by Line Meaning

Sick and tired of things getting tough
Tired of things getting challenging and difficult to handle


Never gonna be enough
Not going to fulfill all expectations or satisfy completely


Sick and tired of fights starting wars
Exhausted with confrontations escalating into major battles


Say what I want, say what I need
Expressing desires and necessities openly


Nobody hurts you like me
No one inflicts emotional pain on you like I do


When did I become that girl?
At what moment did I transform into the type of person I dislike?


That girl I see
The version of myself that I don't recognize or approve of


Getting fed up with the way you love
Growing weary of the way you show affection


Say what you saw, say what you heard
Speaking the truth about what you witnessed or heard


Say what you felt, say where it hurts
Being honest about your emotions and the pain you're experiencing


Nobody treats me like dirt
No one mistreats me or devalues my worth


I never wanna be anyone's enemy
I don't want to be someone's adversary


The girl that I once was
The person I used to be before I changed into someone I don't like


When did I fall so far?
At what point did I deteriorate so much and become unrecognizable?


Barely recognise me
Hardly able to identify myself


When do I move on?
At what time should I start to transition and progress?


So I recognize me
So that I can rediscover and know myself




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SARA KEIRSTEN QUIN, TEGAN RAIN QUIN

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C. Wilkiewicz

Tegan, Sara. Sara, Tegan. Thank you for everything you gave us this year and making it more bearable, you beautiful humans, thank you so much.

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If anyone is wondering to themselves, "Do they sound like this live, vocally?" The answer is yes. They can sing live and in studio. It's surreal.

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Las amo! :D

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This is awesome. 2016 tour was awesome and so was everything else you guys did in between! Thank you ❀❀

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I love them both. I love them all. Thank you girls for a fantastic album, a great Chicago concert, and beautiful videos for all of the songs. Can't believe you did that. Much appreciated. I'm in love and will watch them over and over again. One of my favs is 'Faint of Heart'. Great video.

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