When You Were Mine
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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Maybe you got soft
Flew out the door on the breeze
Maybe you just got lost
On the way back home.
On the way back home to me.
Maybe we're just pretending
And maybe I don't mind
So, now that it's ending
I don't wanna know
Was it all a waste of time?
It's the end of the world
It's the last taste of wine
When you were,
When you were,
When you were mine,
You were lost.
I was blind and we swore it was time
When you were,
When you were,
When you were
My waste of time.
Waste of time
So, I wrote one more story
I just don't know how it ends
About all the boys you're seeing
The ones that you
That you call your friends.
This nightmare keeps repeating
We'll never get to the end
Of this fire we're feeding
The hottest love has the coldest end.
From the start of it all to the end of the line
When you were,
When you were,
When you were mine,
You were lost.
I was blind and we swore it was time
When you were
When you were
When you were
My waste of time.
Waste of time
Waste of time,
Waste of time
Waste of time.
From the start of it all to the end of the line
When you were,
When you were
When you were mine,
You were lost.
I was blind and we swore it was time
When you were,
When you were,
When you were
My waste of time.
Waste of time,
Waste of time,




Waste of time,
Waste of time.

Overall Meaning

In Tegan and Sara's song When You Were Mine, the singer seems to be reminiscing on a past relationship that has come to a bitter end. The lyrics suggest that the singer's former partner may have "got soft" and flown out the door on the breeze, or simply gotten lost on the way back home. It's unclear if the relationship was ever truly genuine, as the singer wonders if they were just "pretending", but regardless, the relationship has come to an end and the singer doesn't want to know if it was all a waste of time.


The second verse seems to suggest that the former partner has moved on to other relationships, perhaps even with mutual friends. The singer refers to it as a "nightmare" that keeps repeating and acknowledges that the relationship was fueled by a hot passion that ultimately had a cold end. In the end, the singer concludes that the relationship was ultimately a waste of time.


The lyrics of When You Were Mine embody the emotions of a failed relationship: bitterness, regret, and a longing for something that ultimately may not have been meant to be. The singer seems to be struggling with whether or not the relationship was genuine, and wondering if it was worth the trouble. The repetition of "waste of time" throughout the song drives home the point that the relationship was ultimately not fruitful.


Line by Line Meaning

Maybe you got soft
Perhaps you became less harsh and unyielding


Flew out the door on the breeze
Left quickly and abruptly without a second thought


Maybe you just got lost
It's possible you became confused and uncertain


On the way back home
Returning to a place you once knew well


On the way back home to me
Returning to a past relationship or connection with the artist


Maybe we're just pretending
Perhaps they're both putting up a façade to fulfill certain expectations


And maybe I don't mind
The singer may not be bothered by the pretense or fakeness of the relationship


So, now that it's ending
Since the relationship is coming to a close


I don't wanna know
The artist would rather not find out certain truths or details


Was it all a waste of time?
The artist questions whether the entire relationship was pointless and futile


It's the end of the world
Feels like the worst has happened


It's the last taste of wine
The final experience of something that was once enjoyable


When you were, When you were, When you were mine, You were lost.
When the singer had possession of the other person in the relationship, they were without direction or purpose


I was blind and we swore it was time
The singer was ignorant to the true nature of the relationship and they had agreed it was the right moment to be together


When you were, When you were, When you were My waste of time.
When the other person belonged to the singer, they felt like it was all pointless


So, I wrote one more story
The artist created one final version of events


I just don't know how it ends
The artist is uncertain how the story will conclude


About all the boys you're seeing, The ones that you That you call your friends.
The story revolves around the other person's connections with males who are labeled as friends


This nightmare keeps repeating
The negative aspects of the relationship have been ongoing and recurring


We'll never get to the end
It seems as though there is no clear resolution or end in sight


Of this fire we're feeding
The intense passion and emotions are fueling their problematic relationship


The hottest love has the coldest end.
Even though their love was intense and filled with passion, it has now come to an abrupt, cold end


Waste of time
A repeated statement that highlights the pointlessness and futility of the relationship


Waste of time, Waste of time, Waste of time, Waste of time.
An echoing statement that emphasizes the feeling that time was wasted and nothing was gained from the relationship


From the start of it all to the end of the line When you were, When you were When you were mine, You were lost.
Throughout the entirety of the relationship, the other person was aimless and confused while belonging to the singer


I was blind and we swore it was time When you were, When you were, When you were My waste of time.
The singer was ignorant to the truth of the situation and believed it was the right time to be together despite feeling like it was all pointless




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BLAKE SENNETT, JARROD GORBEL

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Maybe you got soft
Flew out the door on a breeze
Maybe you got lost
On the way back home
On the way back home to me
Maybe we're just pretending
And maybe I don't mind
So now that it's ending
I don't wanna know
It was all a waste of time
It's the end of the world
It's the last taste of wine
When you were
When you were
When you were mine
You were lost, I was blind
And we swore it was time
When you were
When you were
When you were my waste of time
Waste of time
So I wrote one more story
I just don't know how it ends
'Bout all the boys you're seeing
The ones that you, that you call your friends
This nightmare keeps repeating
We'll never get to the end
Of this fire we're feeding
The hottest love has the coldest end
From the start of it all
To the end of the line
When you were…



All comments from YouTube:

@tommymcdougall6563

My god this is filthy good. The song. The lyrics. The dancers. The singers. The video. Pure perfection 👌

@TSaMS_WORSHIPER

All the vocalists blended together so well, and the dancer in the video do a good job....also cool editing the different versions of her

@steprockmedia

Straight up magic

@TheLucyblades

This is perfect pop. How is it not more famous? Re watching 6 years later and it hits the exact same

@HoldYourBreat4

I don’t think enough people appreciate the masterpiece this song is…. The version with just a guitar under the moon is absolutely beautiful

@TSaMS_WORSHIPER

The combination of voices goes together so well

@jamesuva1138

Hours away from 2023, and this is STILL one of the most underrated songs of all time. We need you guys back.

@keshudioo

This track deserves more attention.

@BedfastDuck

I absolutely love his voice! Reminds me of The Cure and The Killers mixed together.

@sandyr7313

I thought I was the only one who thought this.

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