You Wouldn't Like Me
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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There's a war inside of me
Do I cause new heartbreak to write
A new broken song?
Do I push it down
Or let it run me right into the ground?

I, I feel like
I wouldn't like me if I met me

Well, I can't stop talking
For fear of listening to unwelcome sound
And you haven't called me in weeks
And honestly, it's bringing me down

Oh, I, I feel like
I wouldn't like me if I met me
I, I feel like
You wouldn't like me if you met me

And don't you worry, there's still time
Don't you worry, there's still time

There's nothing to live for when I'm sleepin' alone
And I wash the windows outside
In hopes that the glare will bring you around

I, I feel like
I wouldn't like me if I met me
I, I feel like
You wouldn't like me if you met me

So don't you worry there's still time
Don't you worry there's still time
Don't you worry there's still time
Don't you worry there's still time

Sunshine is days away
I won't be saved, I know all the words
Well, I can't say
That I'll love you forever
Sunshine is days away
I won't be saved, I know all the words




I won't say
That I'll love you forever

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Tegan and Sara's song "You Wouldn't Like Me" convey a feeling of uncertainty and self-doubt. The singer is struggling with whether to write a new heartbreak song, or let her emotions run her into the ground. She also expresses a fear of not being liked if she were to meet herself, and wonders if her own insecurities would hinder a potential relationship with someone else. The refrain "don't you worry, there's still time" is a reminder that there is still room for growth and change, and that the present is not final.


Throughout the song, the singer is grappling with feelings of loneliness and rejection - particularly when she mentions that someone hasn't called her in weeks. She also describes an attempt to catch the attention of her love interest through washing windows, but to no avail. The image of washing windows in the hopes of bringing someone around is symbolic of the effort one might put in to make a relationship work, despite the fact that it might not be reciprocated.


In the end, the singer acknowledges that she can't promise someone forever, and that "sunshine is days away". This line could be interpreted in a number of ways - as an expression of hope or optimism, or as a contrast to the darkness and uncertainty of the current moment. Overall, "You Wouldn't Like Me" is a poignant song about grappling with one's own insecurities and the difficulties of navigating relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a war inside of me
There's a constant internal conflict and turmoil within me


Do I cause new heartbreak to write
Do I intentionally act in a way that will result in new emotional pain that I can turn into a song?


A new broken song?
A song that is born out of my own emotional pain and heartbreak


Do I push it down
Do I suppress my emotions and pain


Or let it run me right into the ground?
Or do I let my emotions consume and overwhelm me to the point of utter despair and depression?


I, I feel like
I have a nagging feeling that


I wouldn't like me if I met me
I wouldn't be able to stand myself if I were to meet myself


Well, I can't stop talking
I keep talking nervously and excessively because


For fear of listening to unwelcome sound
I'm scared of the silence and hearing uncomfortable truths or criticisms


And you haven't called me in weeks
You haven't contacted me in a long time


And honestly, it's bringing me down
And it's honestly making me feel sad and depressed


You wouldn't like me if you met me
You would probably not be able to stand me if you were to meet me


And don't you worry, there's still time
And don't worry, there's still time to make things right


There's nothing to live for when I'm sleepin' alone
There's no point in living if I'm sleeping alone and feeling lonely


And I wash the windows outside
I try to distract myself by washing the windows outside


In hopes that the glare will bring you around
I hope that the reflection of the sun on the window glass will make you come back to me


So don't you worry, there's still time
So don't worry, there's still time to fix things and make up for lost time


Sunshine is days away
Happiness and contentment seem far away and unattainable


I won't be saved, I know all the words
I refuse to believe that I can find salvation or redemption; I know all the cliched and empty words


Well, I can't say
I don't know if I can honestly say that


That I'll love you forever
That I'll continue to love you indefinitely


I won't say
I refuse to make empty promises that I can't keep




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sara Quin, Tegan Quin

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