I'll Never Turn My Back On You
Terence Trent D'Arby Lyrics


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This isn't living now
A thing my father said to me
And get a haircut, boy
If you want a chance in respectable society
Why did you stop writing?
I knew you had some trouble, son
But you should know by now
That my number doesn't change
Because my dirty deed is done
All I need from you
And that's all
Regardless of whatever you do
And that is that you understand
That I'll never turn my back on you
How are your wife and child?
I'm sure your little girl has grown
And give them a kiss and a smile
That's what my daddy said
In a letter very long
What kind of man would I be?
If I left you in despair (and then he wrote)
And I miss your mother, son
Cause if she were still alive
She'd tell you too
You should cut your hair
All I need from you
And that's all
Regardless of whatever you do
And that is that you realise
That I'll never turn my back on you
Whatever you do just try to get through to me
Remember the time we got drunk on wine by the sea
And I laughed when you tried to stagger home by yourself
You were stubborn then and you are still stubborn now
All I need from you
And that's all
Regardless of whatever you do




And that is that you understand
That I'll never turn my back on you

Overall Meaning

The song "I'll Never Turn My Back On You" by Terence Trent D'Arby features a conversation between a father and his son that highlights the strained relationship between them. The father tries to connect with his son by asking about his family and acknowledging their shared memories. However, the father's words also reveal a sense of disappointment and a lack of understanding towards his son's choices in life. The father's statement "This isn't living now" emphasizes the generational gap and his belief that his son's lifestyle is not respectable. He also urges his son to cut his hair and conform to societal norms, revealing his desire for his son to fit in with mainstream society.


The father's tone in the song comes across as condescending and belittling. He questions why his son stopped writing, and although he acknowledges his son's troubles, he gives the impression that he does not fully understand them. His comment "Because my dirty deed is done" implies that he has something to hide and that he is trying to avoid taking responsibility. Additionally, the father's reference to the son's deceased mother and her desire for him to cut his hair adds an emotional layer to the song, highlighting the tension in their relationship.


Overall, the song portrays the complex dynamics of a father and son relationship as they struggle to understand and connect with each other. The father's desire to control his son's life clashes with the son's need for independence and individuality. The song ends with a plea for understanding and an assurance that the father will never turn his back on his son, despite their differences.


Line by Line Meaning

This isn't living now
Life doesn't feel fulfilling at the moment


A thing my father said to me
My father once told me this


And get a haircut, boy
You need to clean up and look presentable to be accepted in society


If you want a chance in respectable society
To be successful in society, you need to fit in and follow societal norms


Why did you stop writing?
I noticed you stopped your creative outlet and wanted to know why


I knew you had some trouble, son
I can sense that you have been struggling with something


But you should know by now
You should be aware


That my number doesn't change
You can always rely on me


Because my dirty deed is done
I have nothing to hide or fear from you


All I need from you
The only thing I require from you is


And that's all
Just that


Regardless of whatever you do
No matter what you choose to do


And that is that you understand
The important thing is that you comprehend


That I'll never turn my back on you
I will always be here for you


How are your wife and child?
How is your family doing?


I'm sure your little girl has grown
I imagine your daughter has gotten older


And give them a kiss and a smile
Please show them affection and happiness from me


That's what my daddy said
This is something my father used to tell me


In a letter very long
He wrote it in a lengthy letter


What kind of man would I be?
I would not be a good person


If I left you in despair (and then he wrote)
If I abandoned you when you needed me most


And I miss your mother, son
I still feel the loss of your mother


Cause if she were still alive
If she had not passed away


She'd tell you too
She would also advise you


You should cut your hair
To look presentable and be accepted in society, you should groom yourself


Whatever you do just try to get through to me
No matter what happens, please keep in touch with me


Remember the time we got drunk on wine by the sea
Do you recall the memory of us drinking wine by the ocean?


And I laughed when you tried to stagger home by yourself
I found humor in your attempt to walk home while intoxicated


You were stubborn then and you are still stubborn now
You have always been willful and resistant to change


That's all I need from you
I only require your openness and honesty


And that is that you understand
It's essential that you comprehend this


That I'll never turn my back on you
I will always support and be there for you




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Written by: TERENCE TRENT D'ARBY

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