Couldn't Be The Girl For Me
Terry Linen Lyrics


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I caught you romancing in another mans arms,
it hurt me so much,
my whole life fell apart,
how could this be,
your cheating on me,
at first i was sad,
but now i am glad.
You couldn't be the girl for me,
couldn't be the girl for me,
couldn't be the girl for me,
couldn't be the girl for me.

Love make you blind as a bat,
but now i can see,
i thought you were special,
the only girl for me,
you've been telling me lies,
with your foolish allerbys,
now i recognise,
the unfaithfulness in your eyes.

With a second time,
comes another lie,
girl you never learn,
you look me in the eyes,
tellin me a pack of lies,
a when you gona learn,
with another lie,
when you gona learn,
you look me the eyes,
tellin me a pack of lies.

Love make you blind as a bat,
but now i can see,
i thought you were special,
the only girl for me,
you've been telling me lies,
with your foolish allerbys,




now i recognise,
the unfaithfulness in your eyes.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Terry Linen's song "Couldn't Be the Girl for Me" tell the story of a man who catches his partner cheating on him and the subsequent breakdown of their relationship. The opening lines express his shock and heartbreak at seeing her in the arms of another man, and the line "my whole life fell apart" suggests that this betrayal has thrown everything into chaos. The singer then interrogates his partner, asking how she could have been unfaithful to him. He initially feels sadness, but as time goes on, he realizes that his partner is not the right person for him and he is ultimately glad to be rid of her.


The chorus repeats the message that this person "couldn't be the girl" for him, emphasizing his realization that their relationship was not meant to be. The second verse further explores the theme of blindness and deception, suggesting that love can make people overlook faults in their partners. However, the singer has now seen through his partner's lies and recognizes the "unfaithfulness in [her] eyes." The final stanza returns to the idea of a repeated pattern: the partner's continued lying is evidence that she has not learned from her mistakes.


Overall, the song is a powerful expression of a painful breakup and the slow process of coming to terms with a partner's infidelity. The repeated refrain of "couldn't be the girl for me" serves as a kind of mantra for the singer, reminding him that he deserves better and ultimately leading him towards healing and moving on.


Line by Line Meaning

I caught you romancing in another mans arms,
I saw you being romantic with another man which made me feel hurt and completely ruined my life.


it hurt me so much,
The pain I felt as a result of your actions wavered me emotionally.


my whole life fell apart,
Your actions completely turned my life upside down and changed everything for me.


how could this be,
I couldn't believe that you, the person I thought would never hurt me could cheat on me and break my trust.


your cheating on me,
Your act of infidelity proved to me that you were unfaithful and not the person I thought you were.


at first i was sad,
Initially, I was emotionally involved and felt sorrowful about the situation.


but now i am glad.
However, after some time, I am glad that I found out about your infidelity and can move on from this toxic relationship.


You couldn't be the girl for me,
You are not the kind of girl I was looking for and I no longer need your presence in my life.


couldn't be the girl for me,
It has become clear that you are not the type of person I want to be with.


Love make you blind as a bat,
Love can make a person completely oblivious to the actions and misdeeds of their partner.


but now i can see,
But after seeing your true colours, I am no longer blinded by love and can see the reality with clarity.


i thought you were special, the only girl for me,
I idolized you as someone special and believed that you were the only person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.


you've been telling me lies, with your foolish allerbys,
I now realize that the lies and excuses you gave me were foolish and untrue.


now i recognise, the unfaithfulness in your eyes.
The look in your eyes betrayed your unfaithfulness and it finally dawned on me that you could never be the girl for me.


With a second time, comes another lie,
I realized that each time you committed infidelity, it came with another lie to hide the fact.


girl you never learn,
You seem to never learn from your mistakes and continue to make the same foolish choices.


when you gona learn, with another lie,
I wonder when you will learn that your actions have consequences and that one lie will always beget another.


when you gona learn, you look me the eyes, tellin me a pack of lies.
I can see right through your façade of lies and recognize that you are unfaithful and untrustworthy.




Writer(s): Anthony Cameron

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@mdavis3524

My mom used to play this song back in Guyana. I was probably 15 at the time and every single Saturday when were cleaning she would play this. I’m now 23 and I just came across this song on fb omg! I had a rush of emotions. Sadly my mom has passed away a little over a year ago and mannnnn😭 I miss Guyana and my family. 🥺

@StunnLegacy

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@bwana_ya_mtu

Where are you now

@darrenthompson8020

Condolences

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Stay 💪 strong 💯❤

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@bharatrahaman9493

A legendary song to comfort a dude who is heart broken.

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Like us all💚🔥😆

@flowgift2470

12 years and I still love this song this is a master piece ho agree this is never getting old 🇬🇾🇬🇾

@maseseone.5006

Terry Linen classic..love from Kenya🇰🇪

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