Ode to My Family
The Cranberries Lyrics


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Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do

Understand the things I say
Don't turn away from me
'Cause I've spent half my life out there
You wouldn't disagree

Do you see me, do you see?
Do you like me
Do you like me standing there?
Do you notice, do you know
Do you see me, do you see me?
Does anyone care?

Unhappiness where's when I was young
And we didn't give a damn
'Cause we were raised
To see life as fun and take it if we can
My mother, my mother
She'd hold me
She'd hold me when I was out there
My father, my father
He liked me, well he liked me
Does anyone care?

Understand what I've become
It wasn't my design
And people everywhere think
Something better than I am

But I miss you, I miss
'Cause I liked it
'Cause I liked it
When I was out there
Do you know this, do you know
You did not find me
You did not find
Does anyone care?

Unhappiness where's when I was young
And we didn't give a damn
'Cause we were raised
To see life as fun and take it if we can
My mother, my mother
She'd hold me
She'd hold me when I was out there
My father, my father
He liked me, well he liked me
Does anyone care?

Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?
Does anyone care?

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Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do




Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do

Overall Meaning

In The Cranberries' song "Ode To My Family," the singer is reflecting on her life and relationships with her parents during her childhood. The song starts with a repetitive melody, almost like a nursery rhyme, that sets the tone for the introspective and nostalgic lyrics that follow. The singer pleads with the listener to understand her and not turn away from her, as she has spent half her life "out there." It is unclear what "out there" means, but it could be interpreted as exploring the world, trying to find her place in it, or dealing with mental health issues.


The chorus of the song has a notable shift in tone, becoming more desperate and vulnerable. The singer asks if anyone cares about her or sees her, as she misses the freedom she felt when she was "out there." She then reminisces about the care she received from her mother and the admiration she had from her father. The contrast between feeling loved by her family members and feeling lost and alone in the world creates a melancholic atmosphere.


Overall, "Ode To My Family" is a poignant and emotional tribute to childhood memories and the complex relationships we have with our families. The Cranberries' lead singer, Dolores O'Riordan, has stated that the song was inspired by "the way people see you and they judge you, but they don't really know you. They see you through their own eyes, and… they twist it around." The song became a hit for the band and remains a beloved classic to this day.


Line by Line Meaning

Doo doo doo do, doo doo doo do
The repetition of this phrase serves as a musical interlude between verses and doesn't add any specific meaning to the song.


Understand the things I say
The singer wants the listener to pay attention and comprehend the message they're trying to convey.


Don't turn away from me
The singer is asking the listener to actively engage with them and not ignore or disregard what they have to say.


'Cause I've spent half my life out there
The singer has experienced a lot of things and wants to be understood in the context of their life experiences.


You wouldn't disagree
The singer believes that their experiences are universal and that the listener can relate to them as well.


Do you see me, do you see?
The singer is asking the listener if they truly understand and recognize them as an individual.


Do you like me
The singer wants to know if the listener genuinely cares about them and values their presence.


Do you like me standing there?
The singer is questioning whether their physical presence is appreciated or merely tolerated.


Do you notice, do you know
The singer is seeking acknowledgement and validation from the listener.


Does anyone care?
The singer is expressing feelings of loneliness and abandonment and questioning whether anyone truly cares about them.


Unhappiness where's when I was young
The singer is reflecting on a time in their life when they were unhappy and unsatisfied.


And we didn't give a damn
The singer and their peers were rebellious and didn't care about societal expectations or norms.


'Cause we were raised
The singer attributes their attitude and behavior to how they were brought up and their upbringing's influence.


To see life as fun and take it if we can
The singer and their peers were taught to enjoy life and take advantage of opportunities when they present themselves.


My mother, my mother
The singer is referring to their relationship with their mother, who is an important figure in their life.


She'd hold me
The singer received comfort and support from their mother when they needed it.


My father, my father
The singer is referring to their relationship with their father, who is another important figure in their life.


He liked me, well he liked me
The singer received love and approval from their father, which was a source of happiness and comfort for them.


You did not find me
The singer believes that the listener has not truly understood them or their experiences.


Does anyone care?
The singer is reiterating their feelings of loneliness and questioning whether anyone truly cares about them.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Noel Anthony Hogan, Dolores Mary O'Riordan

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@melissacrockett4085

My mother, my mother,
She'd hold me,
She'd hold me when i was out there
My father, my father
He liked me, well he liked me does anyone care?
A beautiful song and relate .My mom and dad are no longer here..
Song brings me bck to childhood, life was easy then bam, adolescence & adulthood bring so many wonderful experiences too but ,
when childhood is over and you lose your parents.Gutwrenching)
MY FATHER , MY MOTHER LIKED ME,AND NO ONE CARES.😢❤



@user-ww9fg4qj5t

Understand the things I say
Don't turn away from me
'Cause I've spent half my life out there
You wouldn't disagree
Do you see me? Do you see?
Do you like me? Do you like me standing there?
Do you notice? Do you know?
Do you see me? Do you see me?
Does anyone care?

Unhappiness where's when I was young
And we didn't give a damn
'Cause we were raised
To see life as fun and take it if we can
My mother, my mother she hold me
Did she hold me ,when I was out there
My father, my father, he liked me
Oh he liked me,does anyone care?

Understand what I've become
It wasn't my design
And people everywhere think
Something better than I am
But I miss you, I miss
'Cause I liked it. I liked it
When I was out there
Do you know this ? D'you know
You did not find me, you did not find
Does anyone care?

Unhappiness was when I was young,
And we didn't give a damn
'Cause we were raised
To see life as fun, and take it if we can
My mother, my mother she hold me
Did she hold me ,when I was out there
My father, my father, he liked me
Oh he liked me,does anyone care?

does anyone care?



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@MundoGamerBrasil_

Forever The Cranberries

@IcecreamMcGuy

Yes.

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En France ça nous change un peu de la daube. Ca ne fait pas de mal.

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YES...

@chrisvincent5375

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@Iggypres

The king is already gone, prince too, now queen, - the royals are fading away ... sad

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Igor Presnyakov literally all my favorite singers are dead...
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@RusselF013

Igor Presnyakov listening to this song before already brought me to tears.. and now after this news, I just cried so badly..

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