How Insensitive
The 5th Dimension Lyrics


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How insensitive
I must have seemed
When she told me that he loved me
How unmoved and cold
I must have seemed
When she told me so sincerely
Why she must have asked
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
What was I to say
What can you say when a love affair is over

Now she's gone away
And I'm alone with the memory of her last look
Vague and drawn and sad
I see it still
All her heartbreak in that last look
Why she must have asked
Did I just stare in icy silence




What was I to do
What can one do when a love affair is over

Overall Meaning

The 5th Dimension's song "How Insensitive" speaks about the aftermath of a love affair ending, and the emotions that come with it. The lyrics are a reflection of the singer's lack of emotional response when their former partner informed them that they were loved by someone else. The singer, in hindsight, realizes their callousness and insensitivity towards their partner's heartbreak. They express regret for not being able to offer any consolation or words of comfort when their partner opened up to them.


The song details the conflicting emotions the singer experiences, as they reminisce on the past and cannot help but feel a sense of longing and pain for what was lost. The lyrics convey the sense of regret and sorrow that the singer feels now that their love affair has ended. The final lines, "What can one do when a love affair is over", convey the sense of helplessness and resignation that come with accepting the finality of a relationship.


Overall, "How Insensitive" is a poignant reflection on the complex emotions that come with the end of a relationship. It speaks to the themes of regret, pain, and acceptance, all while showcasing the 5th Dimension's signature soulful sound.


Line by Line Meaning

How insensitive
My lack of emotion


I must have seemed
The impression I gave


When she told me that he loved me
When she revealed her feelings for me


How unmoved and cold
My response was detached and unfeeling


I must have seemed
She perceived me to be


When she told me so sincerely
When she expressed her emotions truthfully


Why she must have asked
She wondered about


Did I just turn and stare in icy silence
My response of chilled silence was all I could summon


What was I to say
There was nothing I could say


What can you say when a love affair is over
It's difficult to put into words when a relationship has ended


Now she's gone away
She has departed


And I'm alone with the memory of her last look
Only the final expression she gave me remains with me


Vague and drawn and sad
Her countsenance was unclear and depressed


I see it still
It haunts me yet


All her heartbreak in that last look
The pain she felt was evident in her expression


Why she must have asked
She must have wondered


Did I just stare in icy silence
If my only response was frozen silence


What was I to do
What course of action did I have


What can one do when a love affair is over
It's difficult to move on from lost love




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Antonio Carlos Jobim, Norman Gimbel, Vinicius De Moraes

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