We're So Cool
The Au Pairs Lyrics


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I don't mind if you want to sleep on your own
I don't mind if you want to bring somebody home
To spend the night
I don't mind your casual affairs
Your one-night stands because I know I'm the main man in your life
And you know I don't mind if you leave me behind
When you go away for a couple of days
But you know that I could come too
And I wouldn't intrude, wouldn't make any fuss
'cause things are so cool between us
Your affection is ultimately mine
Remember from the start
I won't take up all of your time
I am in your heart
Your body
But you must admit
I'm prepared to share
At off-peak times
When you think about it
Because we know
That others have




And do share mine
That you're mine

Overall Meaning

"We're So Cool" is a song by British post-punk band The Au Pairs, released in 1979. The song's lyrics are a declaration of a state of coolness between two people who are in an open relationship. The singer in the song says that they don't mind their partner sleeping with other people, as long as they remain the main love interest in their life. The singer also says that they don't want to intrude on their partner's personal experiences, but they also wouldn't mind joining in. The song ends with the singer stating that they are ultimately the main object of affection in their partner's life.


The lyrics of the song challenge the traditional idea of monogamous relationships and instead embrace the idea of a consensual non-monogamous dynamic. The song's lyrics also touch on themes of possessiveness, trust, and respect in relationships. This could be interpreted as a testament to a more mature and enlightened approach to romantic relationships where it is agreed that one partner isn't enough for a more fulfilling life.


The Au Pairs were known for their witty, politically charged lyrics and social commentary, and "We're So Cool" was no exception. The song's message resonated with many during a time when society was beginning to examine traditional gender roles and relationships. It was also a time of sexual liberation, and the song reflects that freedom by promoting individual exploration and fulfillment.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't mind if you want to sleep on your own
I am confident in our relationship, and I trust you enough to give you your own space and respect your autonomy.


I don't mind if you want to bring somebody home
I am secure enough in our relationship that I can accept and trust your decision to invite others into our intimate space, knowing that our connection goes beyond physical encounters.


To spend the night
I understand that people have needs and desires, and I respect your decision to explore them in a safe and consensual manner, whether or not I am present.


I don't mind your casual affairs
I am not possessive, controlling, or jealous. I believe in open and honest communication and consent, and I respect your right to pursue your own happiness and fulfillment, as long as you are honest and transparent with me.


Your one-night stands because I know I'm the main man in your life
I trust that you value and prioritize our relationship, even if you have other sexual partners or experiences. I am confident in my own worth and contribution to your life, and I know that our connection goes beyond physical intimacy.


And you know I don't mind if you leave me behind
I respect your freedom and independence, and I understand that you have your own goals, dreams, and obligations. I do not expect you to prioritize me over your own life choices or personal growth.


When you go away for a couple of days
I support your need to travel, work, or socialize outside of our usual routines and experiences. I believe that absence can make the heart grow fonder, and I look forward to hearing about your adventures when you return.


But you know that I could come too
I want to be a part of your life, and I would enjoy sharing some of your experiences and memories with you. However, I respect your decision if you prefer to travel or socialize without me, and I will not pressure you or complain about it.


And I wouldn't intrude, wouldn't make any fuss
I understand that you might have your own preferences, boundaries, and social circles, and I respect your space and time. I will not try to control or manipulate your decisions, and I will not create drama or conflict unnecessarily.


'cause things are so cool between us
I am happy and content with our relationship, and I believe that we have a strong connection and understanding. I appreciate your honesty, compassion, and support, and I want to reciprocate those qualities as well.


Your affection is ultimately mine
I recognize and appreciate the love, care, and attention that you offer me, and I reciprocate those feelings as well. I believe that we have a deep emotional and intellectual connection, and I value the ways in which we complement each other.


Remember from the start
I cherish the memories, experiences, and moments that we have shared together, and I believe that they have shaped our relationship in meaningful ways. I want to honor and treasure those moments, even as we continue to grow and evolve.


I won't take up all of your time
I understand that you have your own life, interests, and responsibilities, and I respect your need to balance those with our relationship. I will not demand or expect all of your attention or energy, and I will support your goals and aspirations as well.


I am in your heart
I believe that we have a deep, emotional, and spiritual connection that transcends physical boundaries or limitations. I value the aspects of yourself that you share with me, and I want to support and nourish those parts of you as well.


Your body
I respect and appreciate your physical beauty, desire, and vitality, and I want to honor and acknowledge those aspects of yourself as well. However, I do not view you solely as a sexual object or commodity, and I respect your boundaries, preferences, and consent.


But you must admit
I acknowledge that we might have different perspectives, feelings, or experiences, and I want to understand and address those differences in a respectful and compassionate way. I encourage open and honest communication, even if it might be uncomfortable or challenging at times.


I'm prepared to share
I believe in fairness, generosity, and compassion, and I want to extend those qualities to others as well. I know that sharing can be difficult or uncomfortable, but I trust that we can work together to create a safe, respectful, and mutually enriching environment.


At off-peak times
I understand that we might have different schedules, priorities, or commitments, and I want to respect your time and energy accordingly. I am willing to be flexible and creative in finding ways to connect and support each other, even if it means adjusting our routines or expectations.


When you think about it
I want to offer a different perspective or insight on our relationship, and I hope to stimulate your own thoughts, feelings, or perceptions as well. I believe that our connection is more than just a surface-level attraction or habit, and I am committed to exploring its various aspects and dimensions.


Because we know
I believe that our relationship is based on mutual understanding, respect, and trust, and I want to honor and reinforce those qualities as well. I am confident that we can overcome any challenges, conflicts, or obstacles that might arise, as long as we maintain our commitment to each other.


That others have
I understand that we might have other connections, relationships, or experiences outside of our own, and I want to acknowledge and accept those aspects respectfully. I know that we are all human beings with our own stories, traumas, and desires, and I believe that we can learn and grow from each other accordingly.


And do share mine
I want to offer and explore various aspects of myself with you, including my own vulnerabilities, fears, and joys. I believe that we can build intimacy and trust by sharing those parts of ourselves, and I encourage you to do the same as well.


That you're mine
I want to express my love, care, and appreciation for you, and I hope that you feel the same way as well. I believe that our connection is unique, special, and meaningful, and I want to honor and cherish that connection as long as we both feel happy and fulfilled in it.




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