This Is Me
The Bad Examples Lyrics


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Well, do you believe what you're saying
Or are they angry words?
Remember "goodbye" is a long time
Longer than "forever" or "I love you"
And you looked at me like I'm a stranger
(chorus)
But this is me
Do you remember who you're talking to
This is me -- but who are you?

I sat in your car and I listened
To all your crazy theories
But something inside must have broken
'cause all your words were in another language
And you looked at me like I'm a stranger

Chorus

Bit by bit the pieces fell together
Day by day the problems were getting better
Then you laughed and said I'll have to forget you

If this was a joke I'd be laughing
It seems so impossible
But when I wake up in the morning
I'll wake up alone, still not understanding
How you looked at me like I'm a stranger





Chorus

Overall Meaning

The Bad Examples's song "This Is Me" appears to be a quintessential heartbreak song in which the singer questions the authenticity of the words spoke by his/her partner during a break-up. The opening lines of the song, "Do you believe what you're saying, or are they angry words?" indicate that the singer is confused about the breakup and is unsure whether the words spoken by the partner are in anger or genuine. To the singer, the word "goodbye" seems longer than "forever" or "I love you" because it carries a different connotation; it is final and permanent. The partner has looked at the singer like a stranger, indicating that the relationship has undergone significant changes.


As the song progresses, the singer remembers sitting in the partner's car and listening to the partner's "crazy theories." However, something must have broken because the words spoken by the partner became incomprehensible, like they were speaking another language. This symbolizes the breakdown of communication in the relationship, and the way that the couple now views each other.


In the final verse of the song, the singer speaks of the pain of waking up alone and not understanding what went wrong in the relationship. It is evident that the singer still has deep feelings for the partner but is unable to reconcile the differences that have crept in.


Overall, the song speaks of the confusion and heartbreak that comes with the end of a long-term relationship. It highlights the importance of communication and staying true to oneself in any relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, do you believe what you're saying
Do you truly have faith in the words you speak or are they just expressions of your anger?


Or are they angry words?
Do your words stem from anger, or do they hold a different meaning?


Remember 'goodbye' is a long time
The word 'goodbye' implies a long-lasting farewell between individuals.


Longer than 'forever' or 'I love you'
The concept of saying 'goodbye' is more enduring than expressing love or commitment.


And you looked at me like I'm a stranger
The way you gazed upon me gave an impression that we were unknown to each other.


But this is me
I am who I am, despite any doubts or questions you may have.


Do you remember who you're talking to?
Have you forgotten the identity or essence of the person to whom you are speaking?


This is me -- but who are you?
I know who I am, but I question whether you truly know yourself.


I sat in your car and I listened
I was present in your vehicle and attentively heard your words.


To all your crazy theories
You expressed numerous eccentric ideas and beliefs to me.


But something inside must have broken
Perhaps a certain aspect or mentality of mine has shattered as a result of hearing your words.


'cause all your words were in another language
Metaphorically speaking, your language and mentality differed greatly from mine.


And you looked at me like I'm a stranger
Your gaze gave an impression of alienation between us.


Bit by bit the pieces fell together
Gradually, the scattered fragments of information began to form a coherent understanding.


Day by day the problems were getting better
Over the course of time, the issues were gradually improving.


Then you laughed and said I'll have to forget you
Suddenly, you laughed and proclaimed that I must be forgotten entirely.


If this was a joke I'd be laughing
If this entire situation was intended as a comedy, I would find it humorous.


It seems so impossible
The scenario is so implausible or unbelievable.


But when I wake up in the morning
Despite the unlikelihood of it all, when I wake up after sleeping...


I'll wake up alone, still not understanding
I will find myself lacking a companion and still without comprehension of what occurred between us.


How you looked at me like I'm a stranger
The way you gazed upon me gave an impression that we were unknown to each other.


Chorus
Reiterating the previously sung lines: essentially, this is who I am, so who are you?




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Comments from YouTube:

tmegawatt

There are so few bands out there that possess a fraction of the talent this one does. The lyrics are clever, poetic, and an absolute joy to sing along with. I am one of your biggest fans!!!!

Piyeto Masku

I've fallen in love with this song since the first time I heard this in 1993.

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