The Great Pretender
The Band Lyrics
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Pretending that I'm doing well
My need is such, I pretend too much
I'm lonely but no one can tell
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Adrift in a world of my own
I play the game, but to my real shame
Too real is this feeling of make believe
Too real when I feel what my heart can't conceal
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Just laughing and gay like a clown
I seem to be what I'm not, you see
I'm wearing my heart like a crown
Pretending that you're still around
Too real is this feeling of make believe
Too real when I feel what my heart can't conceal
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Just laughing and gay like a clown
I seem to be what I'm not, you see
I'm wearing my heart like a crown
Pretending that you're still around
The Band's song "The Great Pretender" tells the story of someone who is trying to hide their true feelings and struggles by pretending to be happy and successful. The lyrics suggest that this person is desperately lonely, but they are afraid to let anyone see how they are really feeling. The line "My need is such, I pretend too much" suggests that the person is using their facade as a coping mechanism and that they are aware of how fake they are being. The chorus reveals that despite their efforts to hide their pain, the person still deeply feels the loss of someone important to them. They are wearing their heart like a crown and pretending that the other person is still around.
The repetition of "Too real is this feeling of make believe" emphasizes the internal struggle of the person trying to keep up their facade. They are feeling overwhelmed and unable to keep up the act. The use of the word "gay" in the line "Just laughing and gay like a clown" is interesting in that it has taken on different connotations over time. When the song was originally recorded in the 1950s, "gay" simply meant happy or carefree. Today, the word has come to refer specifically to members of the LGBTQ+ community. This demonstrates how language can evolve and change over time.
Line by Line Meaning
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
I put on a facade and pretend to be someone I'm not
Pretending that I'm doing well
I'm pretending to be happy when I'm really not
My need is such, I pretend too much
I'm so desperate for people to see me a certain way that I pretend too often
I'm lonely but no one can tell
Despite my facade, I'm actually very lonely, but I hide it well
Adrift in a world of my own
I feel lost and alone in my own world
I play the game, but to my real shame
I'm pretending so much that I'm ashamed of who I've become
You left me to dream all alone
I'm dreaming of a life I want to have with someone who is no longer in my life
Too real is this feeling of make believe
My make-believe world feels too real and it's hard to separate it from reality
Too real when I feel what my heart can't conceal
I feel overwhelmed by my emotions, which I can't hide
Just laughing and gay like a clown
I put on a happy facade to mask my true feelings
I seem to be what I'm not, you see
I'm pretending to be someone I'm not and you can see through it
I'm wearing my heart like a crown
I'm exposing my heart and emotions for everyone to see
Pretending that you're still around
I'm pretending that the person I love is still in my life when they're not
Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Buck Ram
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