Hang On To Your Ego
The Beach Boys Lyrics


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I know so many people who think they can do it alone
They isolate their heads and stay in their saftey zones

Now what can you tell them
And what can you say that won't make them defensive

Hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight

They come on like their peaceful
But inside they're so uptight
They trip through the day
And waste all their thoughts at night

Now how can I say it
And how can I come on
When I know I'm guilty

Hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight

Now how can I say it
And how can I come on
When I know I'm guilty





So hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight

Overall Meaning

The Beach Boys' song "Hang On to Your Ego" is a commentary on the tendency of people to isolate themselves from others and live inside their own heads. The song's narrator knows many people who think they can do everything alone and they stay in their comfort zones. The problem with this is that they miss out on the opportunity to connect with others and learn from them, which inevitably leads to personal growth.


The singer is struggling with how to talk to these people and open their minds without causing them to become defensive. He advises them to "hang on to your ego" but acknowledges that they will eventually lose the fight if they continue to isolate themselves. Despite his own guilt and struggles, the singer is urging the listener to face reality and connect with others, rather than living a life of isolation.


The song is a departure from the surf-rock sound that The Beach Boys had become known for, with a more psychedelic sound and influenced by the psychedelic rock movement of the time. "Hang On to Your Ego" was originally included on The Beach Boys' album "Pet Sounds" but was later replaced with a reworked version called "I Know There's an Answer." The original version was released separately as a single in 1966.


Line by Line Meaning

I know so many people who think they can do it alone
I'm aware of several folks who believe they don't need anyone's help


They isolate their heads and stay in their saftey zones
These individuals are isolating themselves and sticking to their comfort zones


Now what can you tell them
What could one possibly say to make them understand


And what can you say that won't make them defensive
How do you avoid making them feel attacked and defensive


Hang on to your ego
Retain your self-esteem or pride to handle life's challenges


Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight
Even if you preserve your ego, you're unlikely to prevail


They come on like their peaceful
They may act calm and tranquil


But inside they're so uptight
But inwardly, they are tense and worried


They trip through the day
They stumble along life's journey


And waste all their thoughts at night
And spend their nights worrying about pointless things


Now how can I say it
How do I express what I want to say


And how can I come on
How do I approach this


When I know I'm guilty
When I myself am also guilty of these behaviors


So hang on to your ego
Therefore, it's important to keep your self-esteem or pride intact


Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight
But even then, it's unlikely to make a significant difference in the outcome




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRIAN DOUGLAS WILSON, MIKE E. LOVE, TERRY SACHEN

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@Cal-zk4nc

I know so many people who think they can do it alone
They isolate their heads and stay in their saftey zones

Now what can you tell them
And what can you say that won't make them defensive

Hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight

They come on like their peaceful
But inside they're so uptight
They trip through the day
And waste all their thoughts at night

Now how can I say it
And how can I come on
When I know I'm guilty

Hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight

Now how can I say it
And how can I come on
When I know I'm guilty

So hang on to your ego
Hang on, but I know that you're gonna lose the fight



@justinpuga3522

My ideal PS:

SIDE ONE
Wouldn't It Be Nice (Brian)
You Still Believe In Me (Brian)
That's Not Me (sung by Mike)
Don't Talk (Brian, with acapella intro)
I'm Waiting For The Day (Brian)
Let's Go Away For Awhile (instrumental)
Sloop John B (Brian)

SIDE TWO
God Only Knows (sung by Bruce)
Hang On To Your Ego (sung by Brian with the backing vocals in the chorus and the woodwinds that appear on early takes)
Here Today (sung by Mikey)
I Just Wasn't Made For These Times (Brian)
Pet Sounds (instrumental)
Caroline, No (The vocals by Brian in their natural speed)

Bonus track: Trombone Dixie



@markanthony2088

Pet Sounds: 12 songs

Wouldn't it Be Nice
You Still Believe in Me
That's Not Me
Don't Talk (Put Your Head On My Shoulder)
I'm Waiting For The Day
Let's Go Away For Awhile

God Only Knows
Hang Onto Your Ego
Here Today
I Just Wasn't Made For These Times
Pet Sounds
Caroline, No



@justinpuga3522

PET SOUNDS 14 songs

SIDE ONE
Wouldn't It Be Nice (Brian)
You Still Believe In Me (Brian)
That's Not Me (sung by Mike)
Don't Talk (Put Your Head On My Shoulder) (Brian)
I'm Waiting For The Day (Brian)
Let's Go Away For Awhile (instrumental)
The Little Girl I Once Knew (Brian)

SIDE TWO
God Only Knows (sung by Carl)
Trombone Dixie (with vocals by Carl)
Hang Onto Your Ego (sung by Brian with the backing vocals in the chorus and the overdubbed organ)
Here Today (sung by Mike)
I Just Wasn't Made For These Times (Brian)
Pet Sounds (instrumental)
Caroline, No (Brian)

That would be to me the greatest and unbeateable rock n roll album of all time



@internettrowel6930

is it very wrong of me
to usually skip the Mike Love songs
when I'm listenin to the album?

his voice, though I know it plays a part
in the harmonies of other songs,
when it stands alone,
maybe it's the delivery, I dunno,
but it kinda gets on my nerves.



All comments from YouTube:

@denialfalls2724

I can’t stop laughing and shaking my head at the idea of this song being considered too radical or inappropriate for the times. It’s such a benign message.

@californiaslastgasp6847

It’s a reference to “ego death” that supposedly occurs during use of psychedelic drugs such as LSD.

@ronsaunders7294

just by Love, he was a stick in the mud, didn't want a drug reference

@jokkergar

@Ron Saunders al too didn't like it dunno about the other bb's

@Retards_Do_Airsoft_Beach

​@Fishman Its bren ruoured that Carl found the song most interesting snd found the nee lyrical capacities pre god only knows as a big step into the future.

@77greaves56

Didn't Love just assume the song was about him, on account of his massive ego? (Which I assume it was...)

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@markcoltonjr.2979

My favorite line is, “How can I come on, when I know I’m guilty?” I love you Brian Wilson!

@jacquesdelyons3516

The melody and sound ensemble in this track is fucking incredible. This album showed how rich and intelligent good pop music can be.

@jimnolan4105

Now what can you tell them?.....

@ryanp849

I get the impression many find this to be the better version, but I have the to say the final vocal mix in "I Know There's An Answer" is immaculate. This one didn't get the same treatment unfortunately, and I'm honestly not crazy about the way Brian is delivering "ego-o-o."

And to be honest, I think most people respond to this because it has a "cooler" title haha. I like the idea of "hang on to your ego," as a phrase and as a kind of mantra, but "I Know there's an answer, but I have to find it by myself... " has a stronger, more universal element to it

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