In the Back of My Mind
The Beach Boys Lyrics


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I'm blessed with everything
A world to which a man can cling
So happy times when I break out in tears
In the back of my mind I still have my fears

I live my life with her
Love her true she knows I'm sure
I make her happy just living so plain
In the back of my mind I'm 'fraid it's gonna change

I tried to run far way from thoughts
I should try to keep away
But they just keep coming back to me
I tried to rationalize
But some day I might realize
That things are just good the way they'll be
I know it's so hard to find
A girl who really understands your mind




What will I do if I leave her
It will always be way in the back of my mind

Overall Meaning

The Beach Boys' "In the Back of My Mind" is a contemplative song that tackles the fear of change, even when everything seems to be going alright. The first stanza of the song suggests the singer is fortunate enough to have almost everything he could ask for, but still, he experiences a sense of unease in the back of his mind. He is aware that nothing lasts forever and that he might lose what he has, and these fears make him cry even when he's happy.


The second stanza speaks of the singer's significant other, whom he loves truly, and who makes him happy even with the simplest things. In the happiness he finds in her, all his fears seem to vanish, yet he knows deep down that things may change in the future, and this scares him. In the last stanza, the singer tries to suppress and keep hidden his troubled thoughts to avoid altering the happiness enjoyed with his partner. Still, he knows that someday in the future, he might realize things could not always be as good as they are right now. He fears leaving his partner because she is a rare understanding soul that could comprehend him perfectly.


Overall, the song suggests that fear and doubt are intrinsic parts of human experiences, even for those who seem to have it all. Despite the external factors that cause the fear of change, hope and the current happiness make persevering through it worthwhile.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm blessed with everything
I acknowledge that I have been fortunate in life and possess everything that a man can hope for.


A world to which a man can cling
I have a sense of belonging and contentment in this world, which is important for a man's well-being.


So happy times when I break out in tears
Although I am grateful for the joyful moments in life, I am not immune to feeling overwhelmed or emotional at times.


In the back of my mind I still have my fears
Despite my outward contentment, I still have worries and anxieties that I keep to myself.


I live my life with her
I am in a committed relationship with a woman whom I love and cherish.


Love her true she knows I'm sure
I am confident that my partner knows I love her deeply and genuinely.


I make her happy just living so plain
I do not need grand gestures or extravagance to make my partner happy, she is content with a simple life shared together.


In the back of my mind I'm 'fraid it's gonna change
However, I am secretly worried that things may not continue to be this simple and happy in the future.


I tried to run far way from thoughts
I have attempted to distance myself from negative thoughts or worries regarding my relationship.


I should try to keep away
I recognize that these negative thoughts are not healthy and that I should try to prevent them from tainting my happiness.


But they just keep coming back to me
Despite this, I find it difficult to keep negative thoughts or worries at bay, as they persistently recur.


I tried to rationalize
In order to alleviate my worries, I have attempted to apply logic and reason to my thoughts and feelings.


But some day I might realize
However, it is possible that I may one day come to the realization that my anxieties were unfounded.


That things are just good the way they'll be
I may eventually come to terms with the fact that life is good and that worrying is unnecessary.


I know it's so hard to find
I understand that it is rare and difficult to find a partner who truly understands and accepts you for who you are.


A girl who really understands your mind
I am grateful to have found someone who understands me and with whom I can truly be myself.


What will I do if I leave her
However, the prospect of losing this person is daunting and distressing to me.


It will always be way in the back of my mind
No matter what happens, the thought of losing my partner will always linger in the back of my mind.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRIAN DOUGLAS WILSON, MIKE E. LOVE

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