La Mar
The Beautiful Girls Lyrics


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This day is getting older,
In fading light it's beautiful.
This wind is blowing colder,
And too soon I'll feel it's pull.

Still, I took all my chances,
Earned myself an even score.
Try to learn my lessons well.
And I don't have the answers,
For those questions anymore.
Only love can beat both heaven and hell.

So sturdy up, sturdy up your heart,
For the road is long ahead.
I'll be with you even though we're apart,
But your road is yours to tread.
And so it goes, and so it goes,
And so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind,
So it goes... and so it goes, and so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind.

I've grown old on this ocean,
Gave her all, my stronger years.
Gave my wife my devotion,
When she died, the ocean my tears.

I've tried to teach you well son,
All of everything I knew.
Of how to live this life be true.
Don't bow your head to no one,
And no matter what you do,
If you start then see it through.

So sturdy up, sturdy up your heart,
For the road is long ahead.
I'll be with you even though we're apart,
But your road is yours to tread.
And so it goes, and so it goes,




And so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind,
So it goes... and so it goes, and so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind.

Overall Meaning

The song "La Mar" by The Beautiful Girls is a poignant reflection on the passage of time and the lessons learned throughout life. The lyrics are sung from the perspective of an older man who has lived a full life on the ocean and is now imparting his wisdom to his son. The verses describe the beauty of the fading light at the end of the day and the inevitability of the cold wind blowing in. However, the man has taken all of his chances and earned an even score, trying to learn his lessons well. He admits to not having all the answers to life's questions but realizes that only love can overcome both heaven and hell.


In the chorus, the man urges his son to sturdy up, to hold steadfastly to his heart despite the long road ahead. He promises to be with him even though they are apart, but ultimately, the road is his to tread. The phrase "so it goes" is repeated throughout the song, and ultimately, it's a reminder that time moves on relentlessly and slows your mind, but it's up to you to keep moving forward.


Overall, "La Mar" is a beautiful song that speaks to the universal struggles of aging and mortality. It's a reminder that despite the hardships and uncertainties of life, love and perseverance can see you through.


Line by Line Meaning

This day is getting older,
The day is coming to an end, but it's still beautiful


In fading light it's beautiful.
Even as the light fades, there is still beauty in the moment


This wind is blowing colder,
The wind is getting colder as the day goes on


And too soon I'll feel it's pull.
Soon the cold wind will have an effect on me


Still, I took all my chances,
Despite the challenges, I took risks in life


Earned myself an even score.
I achieved balance in my life, despite the ups and downs


Try to learn my lessons well.
I've tried to learn from my experiences


And I don't have the answers,
I don't have all the solutions to life's problems


For those questions anymore.
I've come to terms with not having all the answers


Only love can beat both heaven and hell.
Love has the power to overcome any obstacle, no matter how great


So sturdy up, sturdy up your heart,
Prepare yourself emotionally for the hardships ahead


For the road is long ahead.
There are still many challenges to come in life


I'll be with you even though we're apart,
Even if we're not physically together, I'll still be there for you


But your road is yours to tread.
You must carve your own path in life


And so it goes, and so it goes,
Life goes on, regardless of our struggles


And so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind,
The passing of time can be both calming and overwhelming


So it goes... and so it goes, and so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind.
Life will continue to move forward, and it's up to us to find peace in the chaos


I've grown old on this ocean,
I've spent my life on the ocean and it has shaped who I am


Gave her all, my stronger years.
I devoted my prime years to the ocean and all it represents


Gave my wife my devotion,
I loved and cared for my wife deeply


When she died, the ocean my tears.
I grieved for my wife on the ocean, where I found solace


I've tried to teach you well son,
I've tried to pass on my wisdom to my child


All of everything I knew.
I tried to give my child all the knowledge I had to offer


Of how to live this life be true.
I taught my child to live an honest and authentic life


Don't bow your head to no one,
Don't let anyone make you feel inferior


And no matter what you do,
Always do what you believe is right


If you start then see it through.
Don't give up on your dreams, see them through to the end




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Matthew Mark McHugh

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@lovesthetunes

🎶🎶This day is getting older,
In fading light it's beautiful.
This wind is blowing colder,
And too soon I'll feel it's pull.

Still, I took all my chances,
Earned myself an even score.
Try to learn my lessons well.
And I don't have the answers,
For those questions anymore.
Only love can beat both heaven and hell.

So sturdy up, sturdy up your heart,
For the road is long ahead.
I'll be with you even though we're apart,
But your road is yours to tread.
And so it goes, and so it goes,
And so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind,
So it goes... and so it goes, and so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind.

I've grown old on this ocean,
Gave her all, my stronger years.
Gave my wife my devotion,
When she died, the ocean my tears.

I've tried to teach you well son,
All of everything I knew.
Of how to live this life be true.
Don't bow your head to no one,
And no matter what you do,
If you start then see it through.

So sturdy up, sturdy up your heart,
For the road is long ahead.
I'll be with you even though we're apart,
But your road is yours to tread.
And so it goes, and so it goes,
And so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind,
So it goes... and so it goes, and so it goes, slows your mind, mind, mind.🎶🎶



@tonylima7741

This day is getting older and
the fading light is beautiful
This wind is blowing colder
and too soon i'll feel its
pull
still i took all my chances
burned myself an even scar
trying to learn my lessons
well
and i don't have the answers
for those questions anymore,
only love can be both heaven
and hell
so steady up steady up your
heart for the road is long
ahead
i'll be with you even though
we are apart but this road is
yours to tread
and so it goes, and so it goes
and so it goes, slows your
mind



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@jessicakarsten987

My friend Liam died today. This was the song he was singing the day I met him about 7 years ago. Rest In Peace special soul.

@itsjimmy89

This is beautiful... tonight the 17th of july is the 2nd anniversary of my mama ducks passing.. i shared this song with her and always will hold it dear to my heart. To see someone else hold a connection to it filled my heart.. 💜

@christopherjones2277

I'm so very sorry, one of the Indivisible Shared Experiences of Our species and one that rocks us all when those few so precious slip away. . . My heart to you, hope you're staying strong healthy happy and amazing 💪😔🙏

@klebermauri6735

my deepest condolences.

@clebmedia

Such a beautiful song. Reminds me of my dog/ best friend who passed away 5 years ago and I still think about him everyday. Liam must’ve had a beautiful soul as well



Edit: make that 8 years... time flies 😭

@devlc1770

This song takes me back to simple times. I tried to kill my self this week. This song makes me feel at peace now. I’m so sorry about your friend.

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@noahcallaghan4366

been listening to this song since it was released. Shout out to anyone listening in 2019

@treavorswiggum

2020!

@muhguyva8395

I can't believe this was 2008. Where did the time go?

@Nabaht

2021. Sang this song at my brother’s memorial in 2014 (passed away dec 2013). Love this song.

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