Ashes
The Beautiful Monument Lyrics


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Turn it down a notch, 'cause I'm
Getting overwhelmed by you
Set yourself another line
You'll get fucked up for me too
Take a deep breath and exhale
You're just breathing pieces now
Take a look at your own life now
You claim that I'm your hero but you're not mine
Your stupid mistakes are leaving everything behind
Come take your way out now, I'm bound to let go
The one thing I know is you're not alone
You're not alone

Little one, it's not your fault
That he is the way he is
Something mentioned ripped his heart
And buried it six feet
No matter how hard I may try
Daddy's still stuck in this lie
Close your eyes and get some rest
This is probably for the best

You claim that I'm your hero but you're not mine
Your stupid mistakes are leaving everything behind
Come take your way out now, I'm bound to let go
The one thing I know is you're not alone

I'll pick you up if you fall down
It's no longer an excuse
Your babies need you now
Your babies need you now

I'll pick you up if you fall down
It's no longer an excuse
Your babies need you now
Pick your addiction up and throw it on the ground
This is not a fucking game
It's your life you're playing now

This is not a fucking game
It's your life you're playing now
What are they to think?
Get out of this shit now

You claim that I'm your hero but you're not mine
Your stupid mistakes are leaving everything behind
Come take your way out now, I'm bound to let go
The one thing I know

I'll pick you up if you fall down
I'll pick you up if you fall down




I'll pick you up if you fall down
I'll pick you up if you fall down

Overall Meaning

The Beautiful Monument's song "Ashes" is a poignant and emotionally charged reflection on addiction, family trauma, and the struggle to overcome personal demons. The verses lay out a powerful narrative of a person suffering from addiction and spiraling out of control, with the singer urging them to take control of their life and recognize that their actions have consequences. The chorus is a heartfelt declaration of support and love, with the singer promising to be there to help their loved one through their struggles.


The first verse sets the scene with a plea to "turn it down a notch" and take a step back from the overwhelming chaos of addiction. The next line alludes to the idea of shared responsibility in addiction, with the singer acknowledging that their loved one's actions will impact them as well. The second verse delves deeper into the family trauma that underpins the addiction, with references to an absent father and a mother struggling to hold things together. The chorus is a powerful affirmation of the singer's love and support, promising to be there for their loved one through thick and thin.


Overall, "Ashes" is a moving and powerful song that speaks to the struggles that many of us face in dealing with addiction and family trauma. The lyrics are infused with empathy and compassion, offering a glimmer of hope in the midst of a dark and difficult situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Turn it down a notch, 'cause I'm
Please calm down because I am starting to feel overwhelmed by your behavior


Getting overwhelmed by you
Your actions are too much for me to handle and it's starting to take a toll on me


Set yourself another line
You are only damaging yourself by continuing down this path and making more mistakes


You'll get fucked up for me too
Your choices and actions are not only affecting yourself, but they are also affecting me and our relationship


Take a deep breath and exhale
Take a moment to collect yourself and calm down


You're just breathing pieces now
Your life is falling apart and you are barely holding yourself together


Take a look at your own life now
Reflect on your own choices and how they have led you to where you are now


You claim that I'm your hero but you're not mine
You see me as someone to look up to, but I don't see you in the same way


Your stupid mistakes are leaving everything behind
Your careless actions are causing you to lose everything important in your life


Come take your way out now, I'm bound to let go
It's time for you to take responsibility for your actions and make a change, because I can't continue to support you in this destructive behavior


The one thing I know is you're not alone
Even though I may not support your current actions, I still care about you and I want to see you succeed


Little one, it's not your fault
It's not your fault that your dad is the way he is and has made mistakes


That he is the way he is
Your dad's behavior and choices are out of your control and not your fault


Something mentioned ripped his heart
Something has hurt your dad deeply, and it may be affecting his behavior and actions


And buried it six feet
Whatever it is that has hurt your dad, he has buried it deep within himself and is struggling to cope with it


No matter how hard I may try
Even though I am trying to help your dad and support him, it may not be enough to fix his problems


Daddy's still stuck in this lie
Your dad is still living a lie and is struggling with the truth of his situation


Close your eyes and get some rest
It's time for you to take a break and relax, even though the situation may be difficult and stressful


This is probably for the best
Even though the situation is not ideal, sometimes taking a break and getting some rest can help to make it better


I'll pick you up if you fall down
I will be there to support you and lift you up if you need it


It's no longer an excuse
It's time to take action and responsibility for your choices, rather than using excuses as a crutch


Your babies need you now
Your children need you to be there for them and make good choices for their sake


Pick your addiction up and throw it on the ground
It's time to let go of unhealthy addictions and behaviors that are causing harm and destruction


This is not a fucking game
This is a serious situation that requires serious action and change


It's your life you're playing now
You are in control of your own life and the choices you make


What are they to think?
What are others supposed to think or do when faced with your destructive behavior?


Get out of this shit now
It's time to break free from this destructive behavior and make positive changes for your own sake and for the sake of your loved ones


I'll pick you up if you fall down
I will continue to support you and be there to help you through this difficult time


I'll pick you up if you fall down
No matter what happens or how many times you may fall, I will always be there to support and uplift you


I'll pick you up if you fall down
My love and support for you will never falter, and I will always be there to help you back up


I'll pick you up if you fall down
I am here for you, always, no matter what




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