Man
The Bird and the Bee Lyrics


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Don't, don't, don't, don't leave me
Don't leave me here
Skirt in the air with muted cares
All limbs and love absurd

I know I say just let me stay
But stomp the ground, push me around
And send me on my way

No, no, no, don't leave me
Don't take my word
I've lost my head, I need my bed
I promise you my bird

When I awake all sweet and sound
Without a care or woe
I'll thank you, dear, I'll kiss you, love
No matter friend or foe

I want to be the best I can
For me, for you, for every man
But I can slip, I lose my place
This shamefulness is hard to face

No, no, no, don't tell me
Of what I've done
I might ignore, just close the door
Before you have your fun

You tell it with such grace and wit
I know it can be humorous
But I don't have the heart for it

Oh, oh, oh, don't look
I've lost my way
I'll button up, hold out my cup
And beg for a cliche

I have no rights to a complaint
I guess it's just a little nuts
We're all a bit insane

I want to be the best I can
For me, for you, for every man
But I can slip, I lose my place
This shamefulness is hard to face

Oh, please let me
Keep my head
It wouldn't do you any good
Just hanging by a thread

I want to be the best I can
Nose to the ground
It's pound for pound
Or stick it to the man

I want to be the best I can
For me, for you, for every man
But I can slip, I lose my place
This shamefulness is hard to face

I want to be the best I can
For me, for you, for every man




But I can slip, I lose my place
This shamefulness is hard to face

Overall Meaning

The Bird and The Bee's song "Man" is a complex expression of a woman's feelings of insecurity, vulnerability, and frustration with herself, her lover, and the expectations of the world around her. The song presents a contrast between the singer's desire to be the best she can be and her inability to live up to these expectations in the face of personal and societal pressures that leave her feeling helpless and out of control.


The singer begins by begging her lover not to leave her, expressing her fear of being alone and abandoned. She longs to be carefree and happy, but instead finds herself trapped in a life filled with anxiety and uncertainty. The imagery of a "skirt in the air with muted cares" emphasizes the singer's emotional state as she struggles to keep it all together.


Despite her protests, the singer acknowledges that she may need to be pushed out of her comfort zone in order to grow and thrive. She expresses a desire to be the best she can be for herself and for her loved ones, but acknowledges that she is prone to losing her way and making mistakes. The lines "I want to be the best I can/For me, for you, for every man/But I can slip, I lose my place/This shamefulness is hard to face" highlight an internal struggle between wanting to be perfect and acknowledging one's flaws.


Ultimately, the song is a poignant exploration of the human experience, capturing the complex emotions that come with navigating the challenges of life and relationships. The lyrics' portrayal of a woman's struggle to find her place in the world is presented with honesty and raw vulnerability.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't, don't, don't, don't leave me
The singer pleads for their partner to stay


Don't leave me here
The singer fears being left behind


Skirt in the air with muted cares
The image of a free-spirited person enjoying life


All limbs and love absurd
The carefree, whimsical nature of being in love


I know I say just let me stay
The singer is torn between wanting to stay and needing to leave


But stomp the ground, push me around
The singer is asking for tough love to help them leave


And send me on my way
The singer accepts the need to leave despite struggling with it


No, no, no, don't take my word
The singer is unreliable and doesn't want to be trusted at face value


I've lost my head, I need my bed
The singer is overwhelmed and needs rest


I promise you my bird
The singer promises their love and devotion


When I awake all sweet and sound
The singer is looking forward to feeling refreshed and at peace


Without a care or woe
The singer hopes to be carefree again


I'll thank you, dear, I'll kiss you, love
The singer will show gratitude and affection to their partner


No matter friend or foe
The singer will show love to everyone, regardless of who they are


I want to be the best I can
The singer wants to improve themselves


For me, for you, for every man
The singer wants to better themselves for the benefit of everyone


But I can slip, I lose my place
The singer is aware of their flaws and shortcomings


This shamefulness is hard to face
The singer struggles with confronting their own faults and imperfections


No, no, no, don't tell me
The singer doesn't want to hear about their mistakes or flaws


Of what I've done
The singer is afraid of being judged or criticized


I might ignore, just close the door
The singer might avoid or shutdown the conversation


Before you have your fun
The singer is worried about being ridiculed or mocked


You tell it with such grace and wit
The singer acknowledges their partner's storytelling ability


I know it can be humorous
The singer sees the humor in their mistakes, but still feels embarrassed


But I don't have the heart for it
The singer is too sensitive to the topic to laugh along


Oh, oh, oh, don't look
The singer is ashamed of their mistakes and doesn't want others to see it


I've lost my way
The singer feels lost and unsure of themselves


I'll button up, hold out my cup
The singer will try to be strong and accept whatever comes their way


And beg for a cliche
The singer wants a simple or common solution to their problems


I have no rights to a complaint
The singer feels like they don't have the right to complain or be unhappy


I guess it's just a little nuts
The singer acknowledges that their thoughts and behaviors may be irrational


We're all a bit insane
The singer believes that everyone has their own issues and struggles


Oh, please let me keep my head
The singer doesn't want to lose their mind or become overwhelmed


It wouldn't do you any good
The singer thinks that their instability would negatively affect their partner


Just hanging by a thread
The singer is barely holding themselves together


Nose to the ground
The singer is focused and determined


It's pound for pound
The singer is willing to work hard and fight for what they want


Or stick it to the man
The singer is willing to challenge authority or societal norms




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GREG KURSTIN, INARA GEORGE

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