Control
The Birthday Massacre Lyrics


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Their on the side of caution
They're taking in the new girls
Two faced, too poised to shed a tear
No memory to speak of
Past in the night we didn't hear
The fading breath of your love

We lose control of the moments
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way
You see through me
A new trend, indifference

You are a child of privilege
Your reputation leads you
All trace of light will disappear
You're falling into season
Their every word is insincere
There is no time for reason

We lose control of the moments
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way
You see through me
A new trend, indifference

Remember our childhood
It's not quite the same
A pale hue of new blood
They all know your name

We lose control of the moments
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way




You see through me
A new trend, indifference

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Birthday Massacre's "Control" discuss the theme of conformity and how individuals can lose control of their identity and memories due to societal pressure. The opening lines "They're on the side of caution, they're taking in the new girls, two-faced, too poised to shed a tear" sets the tone for the rest of the song, introducing the idea of a group of people who are cautious and calculating in their actions. The lines "No memory to speak of, past in the night we didn't hear, the fading breath of your love" are particularly poignant, emphasizing the loss of memory and identity that can occur when conformity is prioritized over individuality.


The chorus, "We lose control of the moments, another trend goes out of season, a new love, forever, look the other way, you see through me, a new trend, indifference," echoes the idea of losing control and identity in the face of societal trends. The lyrics describe how individuals can become apathetic towards their own desires and feelings, instead adopting "new trends" to fit in with the crowd. The bridge of the song, "Remember our childhood, it's not quite the same, a pale hue of new blood, they all know your name" recalls a time when conformity was not as prevalent, and helps to emphasize the loss of identity that can occur in adulthood.


Overall, "Control" is a powerful commentary on the dangers of conformity and the importance of maintaining one's individuality and identity in the face of societal pressure.


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Line by Line Meaning

Their on the side of caution
The people around are being cautious


They're taking in the new girls
They're accepting new people into their group


Two faced, too poised to shed a tear
They are insincere and won't show their emotions


No memory to speak of
They don't remember anything in particular


Past in the night we didn't hear
We didn't pay attention to what happened in the past


The fading breath of your love
Your love is fading away


We lose control of the moments
We can't control what happens


Another trend goes out of season
Another trend is fading away


A new love, forever
A new love will last forever


Look the other way
Ignore what's happening


You see through me
You can see right through me


A new trend, indifference
A new trend of apathy and disinterest


You are a child of privilege
You were born into a life of privilege


Your reputation leads you
Your reputation is the reason for your success


All trace of light will disappear
Everything good will fade away


You're falling into season
You're conforming to the current trend


Their every word is insincere
They don't mean what they say


There is no time for reason
There's no reason or logic behind their actions


Remember our childhood
Think back to our childhood


It's not quite the same
Things have changed since then


A pale hue of new blood
New people, but they're not quite like us


They all know your name
Everyone knows who you are




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CLIVE JOHN WEBBE, JEFFREY ROSE, MARTYN FORD, RICHARD FRANCIS GLOVER

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Nero

Err on the side of caution
They're taking in the new girls
(Two faced, too poised to shed a tear)
No memory to speak of
(Passed in the night, we didn't hear)
The fading breath of your love

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference

You are a child of privilege
Your reputation leads you
(All trace of life will disappear)
You're falling into season
(Their every word is insincere)
There is no time for reason

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference


Remember our childhood
It's not quite the same
A pale hue of new blood
They all know your name

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference



All comments from YouTube:

Nero

Err on the side of caution
They're taking in the new girls
(Two faced, too poised to shed a tear)
No memory to speak of
(Passed in the night, we didn't hear)
The fading breath of your love

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference

You are a child of privilege
Your reputation leads you
(All trace of life will disappear)
You're falling into season
(Their every word is insincere)
There is no time for reason

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference


Remember our childhood
It's not quite the same
A pale hue of new blood
They all know your name

We lose control of the moment
Another trend goes out of season
A new love, forever
Look the other way, you see through me
A new trend: indifference

Johnny B

This great song deserves an official video. Music at its very best.

Nobody of importance

This might be my favourite band of all time

Vynex

This album is beautiful :D Love this song so much!!

shadowslayer

Found this song while looking at an old book. I had used the band picture for a bookmark as a teenager. This is amazing, it helps me to sleep.

thomas63985yin

Well, I almost finish listening that whole album:) Beautiful song. I can't live without TBM!

xvirthnorth

Still have this album and is amazing, still fresh like 1st time listening. Love TBM!

Lexie Whitehead

I've been brousing their new album songs here on youtube and so far this is my favorite! TBM has been an awesome band from the very beggining! they are so original and fantastic. How can you not like these guys?!

FashionZombies27

The whole album was great!!!this band will never upset you!!!:D

NasikaSakura

This, to me, sounds like young 'love' where youths so unconcerned with other things 'fall in love forever' with one person, and then soon after, much like a trend that goes out of season, they fall out of love and into love with another.

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