Looking Glass
The Birthday Massacre Lyrics


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Waiting as I'm wanting to
Speaking as I'm spoken to
Changing to your point of view
Fading as I follow you

A boyish notion of false emotion
These words are spoken despite my love
A fool's devotion was set in motion
My eyes are open now

It's a glass cage so I can't pretend
You hide beneath the physical
I see it coming but I can't defend
You cut so deep, my belief is gone
My belief is gone, my belief is

Tell me what I want to say
Save me for another day
Break me, it's the game you play
Hate me as I turn away

A boyish notion of false emotion
These words are spoken despite my love
A fool's devotion was set in motion
My eyes are open now

It's a glass cage so I can't pretend
You hide beneath the physical
I see it coming but I can't defend
You cut so deep, my belief is gone
My belief is gone, my belief is gone
My belief is gone, my belief is

It's a glass cage so I can't pretend
You hide beneath the physical
I see it coming but I can't defend
You cut so deep, my belief is gone




My belief is gone, my belief is gone
My belief is gone, my belief is

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Birthday Massacre's song Looking Glass are a reflection of a one-sided relationship. The use of words such as "waiting," "speaking," "changing," and "fading" clearly indicate that the persona is living by the other person's terms. The persona is desperate to please the other person, to the point where they change their point of view just to make the other person happy. The lyrics also suggest that there is an emotional imbalance in the relationship, with the other person being completely in control while the persona is left feeling helpless.


The lyrics also bring in a sense of self-realization, with the persona realizing that their "fool's devotion was set in motion" by false emotions. The reference to a "glass cage" further emphasizes the feeling of being trapped; it's as if the persona is seeing the relationship from the outside but is unable to break free from its grasp. The line "You cut so deep, my belief is gone" gives the impression that the other person has deeply hurt the persona and has made them lose faith in themselves.


Overall, the lyrics of Looking Glass by The Birthday Massacre explore the themes of power dynamics, emotional manipulation, and self-realization. It is an intense and emotional song that leaves the listener feeling as if they have lived through the persona's experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

Waiting as I'm wanting to
I am eager to please and waiting for your approval


Speaking as I'm spoken to
I am submissive and only speak when spoken to


Changing to your point of view
I am willing to adapt to your perspective


Fading as I follow you
I am losing my sense of self as I blindly follow you


A boyish notion of false emotion
My feelings for you are immature and not genuine


These words are spoken despite my love
I am saying things I don't truly mean because I love you


A fool's devotion was set in motion
I am foolishly devoted to you and can't escape


My eyes are open now
I finally see the truth about our relationship


It's a glass cage so I can't pretend
Our relationship is restrictive and I can't fake happiness anymore


You hide beneath the physical
You are not revealing your true self to me


I see it coming but I can't defend
I know I am being hurt but I am powerless to stop it


You cut so deep, my belief is gone
Your actions have caused me to lose faith in you and our relationship


Tell me what I want to say
I am struggling to express myself and need your guidance


Save me for another day
I am pleading to be rescued from this situation at a later time


Break me, it's the game you play
You enjoy breaking me down emotionally


Hate me as I turn away
You resent me for walking away from our toxic relationship


My belief is gone, my belief is
I have lost all trust and faith in you




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MATTHEW O'HALLORAN, MICHAEL HANMER, MICHAEL RAINBOW, SARA TAYLOR

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@camobranson09

​@@H000REI That's the impression I get from the lyrics and the video as well.
"a boyish notion of false emotion"
it implies a small crush
"these words are spoken despite my love"
I take it to mean suffering verbal abuse despite showing love and devotion.
"a fool's devotion was set in motion"
Someone dwelling in an ignorant belief that things will change sets them on a destructive path to appease them.
"my eyes are open now"
awakening to the fact that what you believed was a lie.

"It's a glass cage so I can't pretend"
despite knowing that'd be easy to escape and even able to see freedom they opt to stay.
"You hide beneath the physical"
Not sure on this line but it could mean that they've been groomed to the point where the focus of their interest no longer has to even be present to be in their mind.
"I see it coming but I can't defend"
Knowing the abuse is about to happen but afraid to make their focus leave they don't defend themselves.
"You cut so deep my belief is gone"
They've been hurt so badly they've realized what they're putting up with and can finally break their cage and fight back.



@sarahandceciliabohman8655

Waiting as I'm wanting to
Speaking as I'm spoken to
Changing to your point of view
Fading as I follow you

A boyish notion or false emotion
These words are spoken, despite my love
A fool's devotion was set in motion
My eyes are open
And now, it's a glass cage so I can't pretend

You hide beneath the physical
I see it coming, but I can't defend
You cut so deep
My belief is gone (X2)
My belief is...

Tell me what I want to say
Save me for another day
Break me
It's the game you play
Hate me as I turn away

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Written by: Michael Hanmer, Michael Rainbow, and Matthew O'Halloran
Genre: Alternative Rock, Industrial Rock, Electronica, Darkwave
Album: Walking with Strangers, and Looking Glass EP
Year: 2007



@DavidMiller-dt8mx

DethklawExodus Industrial?

Which band do you figure was the biggest influence?
Throbbing Gristle,
Einsturzende Neubauten,
Laibach,
Cabaret Voltaire,
Muslimgauze,
SPK,
Test Dept,
or... somebody else? NON? Z'ev?

Sorry, I can't place them.



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@TBMOfficial

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@tomfooleryx517x2

Any new music on Pandora?

@Spookythereaper3

The Birthday Massacre Yay! Now that you are on Spotify, I really want to add some of your songs on my future T.B.M playlist on said app, but I am more into good ol' Apple Music. I will need iTunes premium though :/

@REN-dj5sg

I love you're music. One of my favorites. Thanks for being an awesome band I get to enjoy.

@mightytaco123

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@joshuadorn5604

Please counterpane video! Love TBH!

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@Theaterg15

OMG!! 14 years ago!!! I was one of the featured extras in that music video. I was number 7. Yes lots of work but it was a lot of fun. The band was really nice❤️

@the_seer_0421

That's really cool! I'm jealous...

@winterlynn9012

Thats awesome! Funny, thats what brought me back to this video, I was at a KMFDM show a few nights ago and while washing my hands in the venues bathroom I noticed a girl next to me had a birthday massacre pop socket on her phone. After complimenting her on it, she mentioned she was in this video, I believe she said she was number" 33". Can't remember now but thought that was cool, lol. The birthday massacre has been one of my faves for about 20 years now, definitely must be a cool memory to be in one of their videos 💜

@cathydargie9253

That is so cool!! That must been fun

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