Walking With Strangers
The Birthday Massacre Lyrics


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Look around for a means to dissuade her attention
Can't remember the places or names that she mentions

My words are falling apart in spite of me
I'm stepping out of the light so she can't see
Don't think I'll miss her but I want to take her picture
When I've found a place where she can't find me
And she's falling asleep as she's walking with strangers
Talking cheap as the flies on the wall entertain her

Her world is falling apart in front of me
She's stepping into the light but she can't see
It's hard to miss her when she's posing for a picture
But I've found a place where she can't find me

My words are falling apart in spite of me
I'm stepping out of the light so she can't see




Don't think I'll miss her but I want to take her picture
When I've found a place where she can't find me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Walking with Strangers by The Birthday Massacre present a complex narrative, one of personal isolation and disconnectedness from a person with whom the singer has a strained relationship. The lines "Look around for a means to dissuade her attention/Can't remember the places or names that she mentions" introduce the idea that the singer is making a conscious effort to escape from someone who they once felt a deep connection with. However, this is complicated by the line, "Don't think I'll miss her but I want to take her picture," which suggests that their attachment to the person is not entirely gone.


The chorus, "And she's falling asleep as she's walking with strangers/Talking cheap as the flies on the wall entertain her" creates a nuanced picture of the person whom the singer is avoiding. They give the impression that this person is slowly losing touch with reality and may even be delusional. The line "Her world is falling apart in front of me" suggests that they are witnessing this person's decline but are powerless to help. Despite their efforts to distance themselves from this person, they acknowledge that they will never fully be able to let go of their connection, particularly as they sing, "It's hard to miss her when she's posing for a picture." The final repetition of "My words are falling apart in spite of me/I'm stepping out of the light so she can't see/Don't think I'll miss her but I want to take her picture/When I've found a place where she can't find me" encapsulates the song's message of deep emotional conflict.


Line by Line Meaning

Look around for a means to dissuade her attention
I am trying to find something that will distract her from paying attention to me


Can't remember the places or names that she mentions
I am unable to recall the locations or names that she talks about


My words are falling apart in spite of me
I am struggling to articulate myself effectively


I'm stepping out of the light so she can't see
I am avoiding her gaze by moving out of the spotlight


Don't think I'll miss her but I want to take her picture
I don't believe I will miss her but I want a memento of her


When I've found a place where she can't find me
Once I have discovered a location where she is unable to locate me


And she's falling asleep as she's walking with strangers
She is so lost and disconnected that she is barely conscious while interacting with unfamiliar people


Talking cheap as the flies on the wall entertain her
She is engaging in meaningless conversation while passively being entertained by her surroundings


Her world is falling apart in front of me
I am witnessing her life unraveling right before my eyes


She's stepping into the light but she can't see
She is moving towards prominence but is still unable to perceive reality clearly


It's hard to miss her when she's posing for a picture
It is challenging to overlook her when she is striking a pose


But I've found a place where she can't find me
I have discovered a hiding spot where she cannot locate me




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MICHAEL HANMER, MICHAEL RAINBOW, SARA TAYLOR

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