It's my life
The Bones Lyrics


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It's my own fault, baby
Treat me the way you want to do
It's my own fault, baby
Treat me the way you want to do
Yes when you were loving me, baby (woman)
At that time, little girl, I didn't love you
She used to make her own pay checks
And bring them all home to me
I would go out on the hillside, you know
And make every woman look I see
It's my own fault, baby
Treat me the way you want to do
Yes when you were loving me, baby (woman)
At that time, little girl, I didn't love you
She said she was gonna leave me
She'd been running around with the boys
She said she was gonna leave me
Gonna be over in Illinois
It's my own fault, baby
Treat me the way you want to do




Yes when you were loving me, baby (woman)
At that time, little girl, I didn't love you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Bones's song "It's my life" express a sense of regret and accountability for the singer's own failings in a relationship. The repeated line "It's my own fault, baby/Treat me the way you want to do" suggests a recognition that the way they are being treated is a result of their own actions, and that they have only themselves to blame for not being loved in return. The singer admits that when their partner (referred to as "little girl" and "woman") loved them, they did not reciprocate those feelings, instead seeking attention from other women.


The second half of the song describes the consequences of this behavior. The partner begins to stray and eventually decides to leave, and the singer acknowledges that this is also a result of their own choices. The line "She said she was gonna leave me/Gonna be over in Illinois" suggests that the partner is leaving town, perhaps to escape the hurt and betrayal they've experienced.


Overall, the lyrics suggest a sense of remorse and acknowledgement of one's own role in a failed relationship. Rather than blaming the partner, the singer accepts responsibility for their actions and the consequences that follow.


Line by Line Meaning

It's my own fault, baby
I acknowledge responsibility for the way you treat me


Treat me the way you want to do
I accept that you have the power to treat me however you choose


Yes when you were loving me, baby (woman)
I realize now that when you were showing me love, I didn't appreciate it


At that time, little girl, I didn't love you
I didn't reciprocate the love that you were giving me


She used to make her own pay checks
My partner was financially independent and contributed to our household


And bring them all home to me
She willingly shared her earnings with me


I would go out on the hillside, you know
I would cheat on my partner without any remorse


And make every woman look I see
I objectified and disrespected women by constantly seeking out new sexual partners


She said she was gonna leave me
My partner grew tired of my behavior and threatened to leave


She'd been running around with the boys
My partner had been seeking solace with other men due to my infidelity


Gonna be over in Illinois
She had decided to leave me and move to another state




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JULES BIHARI, RILEY B. KING

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Comments from YouTube:

Tom S

Very cool song, my friend Maryline turned me onto it. Mia Coldheart does backing vocals! 

Alan Buhlinger

It's better by KISS, but it's still a good listen.

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